Foreign wives more common for those with AS?

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They should have a screening process of who is allowed to have children. Adoption agencies do that, and the end result is the same, so why not?

If i understood that right ( might be i got it all wrong)
So you're saying we should begin to control birth? "Birth control" in such a extreme way, that some people can decide who gets to have children and who dont?
Sounds almost like how it is in china, exept, people there just wants boys (i do wonder, if they think about where the girls will come from in the end)

^I agree.

And I have to ask genius in what way?

I take it, that we are talking about mathematical (spelling?) ones, and such

Wow, are saying women are suppose to be a certain way toward men. That their not allowed to have some conscious or say in any relationship or what?

If this sounds rude I apologize because I'm a female and happen to have aspergers, but this seems illogical as well as *cough* BS. If I were to say how a certain people were to be behave or act, this thread would probably piss the crap out of everyone including yourself.

Nuff said.

Last edited by MissConstrue on 11 Jan 2009, 5:41 pm, edited 2 times in total.

People typically tend to look for mates who resemble them physically as well as mentally. If a person prefers someone who doesn't resemble anyone in their family or culture, it signifies that they might not like their own kind. This may be due to some unconscious disdain for their own attributes which they would rather have die out so they mate with someone with very different genes.
If an AS man embraced his AS traits, he is more likely to choose and AS female. It's just an idea. As you can see I put a question mark at the end of my "hypothesis". People unconsciously choose foreign mates when the gene pool becomes unhealthy.


This is an unconscious drive that men have to want to infiltrate the gene pool of another culture. Can you honestly tell me that white men preferring say, Asian women doesn't carry some undertones of kinky male power play? I'm not saying it's right but seeing things for what the are is different for seeing things how you want them to be, or how they should be.



From my experience with male aspies, they prefer women who are non threatening to their fragile masculinity. They tend to like "cute", "quiet", and "feeble minded" girls. Many have stated here that they don't appreciate outspoken women or worse, a sexually liberated women. Too scary I guess... Boring is more predictable. Of course everyone is different.

Precisely.

I question why it would be wrong for someone to be strong in some areas in weak in other areas. Society will sometimes put emphasis of what is to be expected in a certain lifestyle or job field.

Use to be that art was a big deal in the renaissance as well as farming and navigation.

To quote myself:



So again, I am sorry if my post did not come out in an appropriate way. I do not hate women. I am not a womanizer. I am not a sexist.

Well I can't say I've had very good experiences with NT men but then again I don't really try and put labels onto all NT men just from those few experiences.

Can't say I've ever met an aspie man nor a foreign one so I wouldn't know. But I try not to base these small perceptions of mine onto "most" men or people in general.

Fine, I get it. I am just a narrow-minded hypocrite of a boy who feels he is better than women in every way. You are above that and never say a God damn thing wrong because you have such perfect morals. My mistake is absolutely inexcusable and should never be forgiven. I will spend the rest of my life alone because I am just a ****ing jackoff of a human being.

How is that for an apology. I actually feel much better now.

An Aspie man I know has had two wives (he is now divorced to them both) and both were Japanese.

Actually I did apologize in my own way but I also stated my own opinion on the subject of people and generalizations. I too have make the same mistakes. I guess I should've added that before you assumed I was.



So now we're going to assume that I'm attacking you indirectly. You know what that is your opinion and I'm not going to argue with someonen online that has to go as low as to disagree with me by putting my character down. I never said I was a god damn perfect moral person nor high and mighty. I also did not put you down just your FIRST post since it hit too close to home and came off as broad.



Well I'm not going to waste my time online arguing about why you are these things since I don't even know you.

Good day.

Not me. It has more to do with being loathed by Euro-American women, especially the ones who are looking for a man that they can seduce into unquestioning and unthinking obedience. I married my wife for the abundant and mutual love, respect, and trust we have for each other - things I never received in any great abundance from any of the Euro-American women I was with.


Kinky? If a man wants "kinky," he's better off paying for it than in trying to convince any woman that something painful, humiliating, or just plain "weird" is more gratifying than any position that a missionary would take. While it may be possible that Asian women have fewer inhibitions and hang-ups about sex, I've met very few that were comfortable with anything other than ye olde one-on-one in-and-out. However, it does seem that nowadays, simple, traditional lovemaking has become unconventional - the most popular porn seems to have little to do with two people loving each other, and a lot to do with how rough, how many, how often, and how graphic the sex act can be.


No me. I prefer women that are intelligent, knowledgeable, and who can reason for themselves. My wife is working on her Master's degree, and earned straight "A's" last term at university. She can also make a mean adobo or sinagang.

I am actually turned off by dim-witted bimbos, not matter what they look like.

I can agree with this somewhat. I really prefer black girls. Almost all white girls think I'm weird. The girl I like is black even.

Well what if they simply aren't interested in their own kind, exactialy because they feel it would be boring? If I would want someone from a different culture or country or anything. It would be because I want the person to have other values ,interest, and etc, I guess it just deppends on from what view you see it.

I've always had a preference to asien ( Japanese girls) but that didn't mean I limit myself to that, when I open up to someone else. Guess you've just had bad luck with other aspie guys.
Yeah, of course I would like to have a cute girlfriend, but that would not mean I wouldn't want her to be stupid or not smart.
I think you're assoiating (spelling?) some of those things abit to much with each other.
I mean every man has their own preferences ( same goes for the ladies of course )

( I really hate typing from my phone D: )

Good job for typing on your phone Tias.

I think the main reason why AS guys prefer people of a different culture is due to the language barrier. Maybe it's easier to be with someone who doesn't request you to talk so much, especially about feelings and such.

There must be some reason why AS guys prefer to date outside their race. It can't all be coincidental. There are many unconscious drives which propel us into relationships which we are unaware of for the most part.

A friend of mine bought a Chinese wife not too long ago. After living together for a short while she started to get very demanding. He said that she wanted to buy too many nice things for the house which he wasn't used to. The reason he said he liked Asian women is because he thought they weren't as demanding as American women. People of the same culture typically expect the same things.
If AS men aren't fond of their own culture then it seems logical to date someone outside of it.

As for Black women and AS guys...I think it's a match made in heaven. I can't help but think about Larry David (who has AS traits)
and his empowered and over protective black girlfriend.