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05 Mar 2009, 12:43 pm

i do not want to just get laid. what's the point? for males, imo, por* is enough so you do not have to go around picking up stds from strangers.

having a gf is a lot more than getting laid, and getting laid is a lot more if you are doing it with your wife or gf. i know people who have had serial girlfriends or boyfriends and that did not bring them any happiness. in fact, in Moscow, for example, the 40-year old mafia millionaires have all found themselves 18-year-old honeys. but does that make them happy? nope.

plus the question is not if you are getting laid, but how and with WHOM?



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05 Mar 2009, 12:49 pm

Learning2Survive wrote:
i do not want to just get laid. what's the point? for males, imo, por* is enough so you do not have to go around picking up stds from strangers.

Don't want to or can't? Condoms defend quite well against STD's...



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05 Mar 2009, 12:54 pm

i'd say i can't get laid with the women i'd want to get laid. plus, as an AS male, sex is not the most important thing in a relationship with a woman. i'd like to come home from work, heat up the left overs and boil some tea, sit shoulder to shoulder with my wife/gf and share the interesting experiences of the day. that kind of stuff. you know my 10th grade history teacher (a large black guy, married with two kids) used to say to us boys - in between the lines of course - that he pays the cable por* bill so that he does not have to cheat on his wife or have se* with her when she does not want it. so the words of wisdom are that por* is a better way to fulfill a man's biological needs than meaninglessly getting laid.



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05 Mar 2009, 1:46 pm

Learning2Survive wrote:
i'd say i can't get laid with the women i'd want to get laid. plus, as an AS male, sex is not the most important thing in a relationship with a woman.

Surprisingly you can. You just need to learn how.
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i'd like to come home from work, heat up the left overs and boil some tea, sit shoulder to shoulder with my wife/gf and share the interesting experiences of the day. that kind of stuff. you know my 10th grade history teacher (a large black guy, married with two kids) used to say to us boys - in between the lines of course - that he pays the cable por* bill so that he does not have to cheat on his wife or have se* with her when she does not want it. so the words of wisdom are that por* is a better way to fulfill a man's biological needs than meaninglessly getting laid.

Ah yes, but getting laid at least occasionally helps in getting that girl. You have to at least learn how to pull someone - before you can get onto that side of things. Otherwise you are just relying on luck.



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05 Mar 2009, 1:48 pm

Learning2Survive wrote:
i'd say i can't get laid with the women i'd want to get laid. plus, as an AS male, sex is not the most important thing in a relationship with a woman. i'd like to come home from work, heat up the left overs and boil some tea, sit shoulder to shoulder with my wife/gf and share the interesting experiences of the day. that kind of stuff. you know my 10th grade history teacher (a large black guy, married with two kids) used to say to us boys - in between the lines of course - that he pays the cable por* bill so that he does not have to cheat on his wife or have se* with her when she does not want it. so the words of wisdom are that por* is a better way to fulfill a man's biological needs than meaninglessly getting laid.


The best way to not cheat on your wife, or not have se* with her when she doesn't want it, or to fulfill a man's biological/psychological needs rather than meaninglessly getting laid, is to just IMAGINE it. No por* videos, magazines, or web sites, no hassle of anything. By simply imagining it, you can have it any way you want it with anybody you want. and the best part about it is you don't have to delete browser history, you don't have to waste hard drive space, and, most importantly, your wife/girlfriend/etc. DOESN'T HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT IT. not to mention that it is very convenient as well.



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05 Mar 2009, 2:01 pm

Abstract_Logic wrote:
Learning2Survive wrote:
i'd say i can't get laid with the women i'd want to get laid. plus, as an AS male, sex is not the most important thing in a relationship with a woman. i'd like to come home from work, heat up the left overs and boil some tea, sit shoulder to shoulder with my wife/gf and share the interesting experiences of the day. that kind of stuff. you know my 10th grade history teacher (a large black guy, married with two kids) used to say to us boys - in between the lines of course - that he pays the cable por* bill so that he does not have to cheat on his wife or have se* with her when she does not want it. so the words of wisdom are that por* is a better way to fulfill a man's biological needs than meaninglessly getting laid.


The best way to not cheat on your wife, or not have se* with her when she doesn't want it, or to fulfill a man's biological/psychological needs rather than meaninglessly getting laid, is to just IMAGINE it. No por* videos, magazines, or web sites, no hassle of anything. By simply imagining it, you can have it any way you want it with anybody you want. and the best part about it is you don't have to delete browser history, you don't have to waste hard drive space, and, most importantly, your wife/girlfriend/etc. DOESN'T HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT IT. not to mention that it is very convenient as well.

Why not just go a little further and do the hypnosis approach. Much more fun...



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05 Mar 2009, 2:11 pm

Kangoogle wrote:
Learning2Survive wrote:
i'd say i can't get laid with the women i'd want to get laid. plus, as an AS male, sex is not the most important thing in a relationship with a woman.

Surprisingly you can. You just need to learn how.
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i'd like to come home from work, heat up the left overs and boil some tea, sit shoulder to shoulder with my wife/gf and share the interesting experiences of the day. that kind of stuff. you know my 10th grade history teacher (a large black guy, married with two kids) used to say to us boys - in between the lines of course - that he pays the cable por* bill so that he does not have to cheat on his wife or have se* with her when she does not want it. so the words of wisdom are that por* is a better way to fulfill a man's biological needs than meaninglessly getting laid.

Ah yes, but getting laid at least occasionally helps in getting that girl. You have to at least learn how to pull someone - before you can get onto that side of things. Otherwise you are just relying on luck.


i agree that many if not most marriages and relationships start when folks sleep with each other on the first date. i think for women it can be like bonding. on the other hand, you may very well pick up many stds before you find that relationship. and the relationship may very well not live up to what you were looking for. plus se* is never just se* as i see it. it always carries a lot of baggage with it. for instance, men i imagine start to feel very possessive of the girlfriends they sleep with.

plus if it can take a long time to build up a romantic relationship and have the se* be good se* that both partners enjoy and have happy memories about.