How to meet non-crazy women?

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Why would you want to? Crazy women are the most interesting. Somebody without any problems is just... Boring. I like the challenge of trying to break through hangups like that; I guess it's a reassurance, like being the exception to the rule is proof that your relationship is meaningful.

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Oops sorry .. I thought this was about meeting crazy women.
I don't belong here.

The sad irony of the whole dating scene - at least in my opinion - is that the whole thing appears to be one giant double standard.

Speaking as someone who is starting over in his 30's, it seems - at least from what I've seen - that anyone less than perfect is unacceptable in the minds of many, many women. There are only so many PhD's with the bodies of Greek gods running around the world, and if we don't meet their standard of Prince Charming, we are the ones expected to change.

Yet we must accept them as they are. We have to change our flaws, but they do not. And even if they do accept us - at first - they feel they have the right to change us to suit their own desires. But when we ask them to make a change, they try to guilt trip us.

We also better be ready to chat over caviar and lobster-tails, not coffee. You want to date? Better build up a savings account, because with very, very few exceptions, "low-maintenance woman" appears to be an oxymoron. I figure starting over in my 30s, I will need to have a six-figure income in order to be a serious candidate. Why? Because from my own observations, most women under the age of 40 in this day and age are "gold-diggers" extraordinaire, and have an unrivaled sense of entitlement to everything they want simply because they look good. Hell, I saw an add for an "introduction service" for "affluent men" the other day.

And also, what are AS men supposed to do when there are no more AS women in the dating pool? Pretend to be NT and pray they don't have a meltdown/shutdown in front of her friends? Oh, yes, and on the subject of meltdowns....it is perfectly acceptable for a woman to overtly display emotions, but not a man.

This sounds nasty, but I am calling it like I see it. And even though many here will disagree, let's face it - if you are here...you are not the norm. You are the exception, not the rule.

Out there, in the real world....

You are a celebrity, an uber-jock, rich, or just a thug....

Or you are nothing.

I would really like to be proven wrong on this.......I really, really would.

We also better be ready to chat over caviar and lobster-tails, not coffee. You want to date? Better build up a savings account, because with very, very few exceptions, "low-maintenance woman" appears to be an oxymoron. I figure starting over in my 30s, I will need to have a six-figure income in order to be a serious candidate. ..

Six-figure income, don't be so daft maN! You don't really need anymore then 35k tops. Money and power is only half of what woman want. And some may not care about those things that much.

Look what car you can get for little money, purely for showing off. You don't even need 35k year to buy that
http://www.parkers.co.uk/cars/reviews/l ... -2004.aspx

My first gf wasn't crazy per se, but she was quite odd because she never showed any affection or emotion when around me, suffice to say that we didn't last very long

Arnold Swaltsanigger

She once said to me,” Isn’t destroy a nice word”.

Already got the car covered, Chav (2003 Mustang, black, tinted windows). The "show-off factor" is honestly one of the reasons I bought it in the first place. Although that chart does put things into a little better perspective. I am curious as to what each of the divisions in "Attraction" is, though...?

Why, yes.....yes it is...

I wanna have sex with your new avatar, betty I think

and why would I date a human like you? I am a duck.