Any other Aspie Latinaholics out there?

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hartzofspace
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24 Mar 2009, 9:23 pm

I am female, and I like Latino men.


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25 Mar 2009, 2:25 am

I agree, latino men are hot!


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25 Mar 2009, 3:10 am

Nah.. I'm more into Arab and Indian women...



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26 Mar 2009, 11:07 pm

Yes,

I'm a Roman Catholic and happen to find more cultural compatibility with Latinas.



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27 Mar 2009, 11:46 pm

Yup, I lovr latinas, I'm currently becoming fluent in spanish as well, they are beautiful. I love their feet thay look so yummy and their toes are so cute, their hair is so nice and dark, their skin is nice and tan, and when they talk they hold their words like "I knoooooooooooooow" lol its so sexy. except the american ones who live in california and arizona are kind of mean and flakey so i dont bother with them. I'm going to spain in june, i also like spaniard, portugese, italian, greek, romanian, albanian, armenian, and arab women. The only beautiful women are Latinos, Southern European, and Middle Eastern. I'm black, but other races have beautiful women that I'd like so i don't limit myself to dark haird olive skinned women lol.



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28 Mar 2009, 2:28 am

What are your thoughts about the ones in Texas?



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28 Mar 2009, 3:25 am

Hrmph, small observations, my dad has a friend who's also a latinaholic, and they had a tendancy to act like spoiled princesses (either money or just behavior). As for the men, i've seen documentaries that show some of the south american males have a pretty macho attitude (must be from the strong influence of the church too) and their women hardly go and get a job, they tend mostly to the house (for example, something as trivial as driving a bus is odd if it's a female driving).



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30 Mar 2009, 12:19 am

Phil, is your dad's friend an Aspie? Because remember, I am looking for Aspie Latinaholics, not all Latinaholics. It is worth noting that the Latinas
in the U.S. are different than the Latinas in Latin America, especially if they were born in the U.S. Like I said, this is the main reason why I moved
to Costa Rica.

Jbinion, I agree that the most attractive women are Latinas, southern European, and Arab, but there are a lot of attractive Asian women as well,
although I'd put them 1/2 notch below the others. BTW, your last 2 sentences contradict themselves, you need to clarify which of your last
2 sentences that you really mean. Good insights though. I'll close with some food for thought. Since women (especially white women) tend to
feel threatened by Aspie men, I guess when a woman feels threatened by you you don't know if its because you're an Aspie or because you're a brother. Or maybe a little of both :). But you're on the right track, stick with the Latinas! Fortunately, unlike the U.S., there's plenty of good
women in Costa Rica to go around!



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01 Apr 2009, 2:01 pm

MissConstrue wrote:
I agree, latino men are hot!


I SECOND THIS. Based on physical appearance alone, I've always been the most attracted to them.


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01 Apr 2009, 2:07 pm

I am a Wasp man

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04 Apr 2009, 2:16 pm

I am 1/3 Hispanic.

Some are more tolerant of the term "Hispanic" and some prefer the term "Latino/Latina."

If you come to Portland, there is a big population of Hispanic people.
So, come and get them! :lol: :lol: :lol:


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04 Apr 2009, 6:39 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:
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:lol:
Same here. So much for my mother's plans to find me a nice beeish boy.



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05 Apr 2009, 1:13 pm

Cubbydrumm wrote:
I love sports (especially American football), I'm a conservative Republican (albeit a libertarian-leaning one), and I am a heterosexual WASP who
is obsessed with Latinas/Hispanic women. In fact, I almost exclusively date Latinas (and a few Asians and a Greek girl, even dated a French girl once) although I don't think that I ever dated a WASP American girl (not even once). In fact, that's one or the reasons why I moved to Costa Rica on May 1 of last year (I'm an American). I prefer Latinas due to their physical attributes as well as their charismatic/passionate personalities, they're more traditional and more respectful towards men, more tolerant of quirks that us Aspies tend to have, they are better dancers, more sensuous, better in bed, e.t.c. So I guess I go against a lot of the Aspie stereotypes, but live up to them in other ways (I am very analytical, inquisitve, logical, and quantitatitive and I love to quantify things as well as systemize things)!

My question on this board is this: Is it just me, or are there other Aspie WASPS (or even other Aspies who are non-Wasp/non-Latino men) who share my obsession with Latin women, and either exclusively or almost exclusively pursue/date Latin women?



I won't deny that I find Hispanic women attractive, they certainly are. However, I'm not entirely sure of the generalization you used with:

"I prefer Latinas due to their physical attributes as well as their charismatic/passionate personalities, they're more traditional and more respectful towards men, more tolerant of quirks that us Aspies tend to have, they are better dancers, more sensuous, better in bed, e.t.c"

Hispanic women, Asian women, Caucasian women, any of them can be beautiful. I could easily find a latina as attractive as a Caucasian girl, it all depends on certain criteria. What caught my attention was you saying that latinas are more respectful of men and tolerant of our aspie eccentricities. Perhaps it is a cultural thing, I don't know, but it certainly was interesting to hear.

But I do know this much, and it is true as can be. American guys and girls have an arrogance about them concerning dating and romantic love, an arrogance that makes it hard for us Aspies to get into this dating game. And I honestly believe that in America, the loveliest roses have the sharpest thorns, in most instances, the more attractive a girl or guy is, the more stuck up and arrogant they tend to be. So if you find your girl in Costa Rica, then congratulations :), because it sure beats the hell out of a lot of the girls back in the States.



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05 Apr 2009, 2:02 pm

All the points the OP have made about Latinas have been said to me about Asian women, Russian women, Middle Eastern Women, and just about every non American woman. And each time, I have to crush these poor men's dreams by telling them what these "exotic" "traditional" women are saying about them in private. The majority have no interest in being your maid/cook/hooker, and if you think you're going to get a "traditional" wife out of them who will submit to you, you are gravely mistaken.
Every married Japanese, Latina, or other "traditional culture" woman I've met is the master of her household, and rules over her husband with an iron fist. In Japanese culture especially, the woman manages the family budget, which means that as soon as you get your paycheck men, she takes it from you and manages it herself. Most Japanese men even have to ask their wives for permission to borrow money for an outing.
And I've met plenty of Latina divorcees who sought out American men because they thought they would be more liberal and let them live freely, when the men thought they were getting a "Traditional" wife. Conundrum!
Just a fair warning. :wink: Don't let antiquated stereotypes get the better of you.



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05 Apr 2009, 2:11 pm

What's so funny is, there's no real indication in this thread if these women are american. There are many people of ethnicity in the U.S. I was just going by some the attractive features but not personalities.

So unless you're referring to culture, I could see this coming off unfairly biased.

I have to say though I've seen asian women...most of them filipino far from submissive. In fact the many I've worked with seem to come off macho when it comes to taking charge! :lol:


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06 Apr 2009, 1:11 pm

phil777 wrote:
As for the men, i've seen documentaries that show some of the south american males have a pretty macho attitude (must be from the strong influence of the church).


I agree. The mustaches on most Hispanic guys are proof. :roll:


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