When was the Last Time You Fell in Love?

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10 Apr 2009, 11:27 pm

I last fell in love... well, truly, deeply, I fell in love about eight years ago. I was truly, deeply, swept off my feet, besotted, wanting to spend the rest of my life with him, my life wasn't worth living without him in love.

I've fallen in love a few times. To varying degrees. I've been engaged twice, but never actually married. I have 'kind of ended up in' a few relationships, grown to love guys who've loved me.

But truly, madly, deeply? Probably once. I thought I loved someone else in that way. But I think I loved who I thought he was, but he turned out to be not the person I thought he was.

I've reached a point in my life that although I've collected some baggage along the way, it isn't weighing me down, I'm ready for another relationship, I'm open to it, and I want to love and be loved.

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11 Apr 2009, 12:13 am

I've fallen in love five times... three of those times to the same woman... (as in i fell in love with her, those feelings dissipated, then fell in love again, and repeat a third time...)

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11 Apr 2009, 2:39 am

May or July last year. I don't think I'll ever feel the same way about anyone else.

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11 Apr 2009, 5:57 am

I understand unconditional love and then lust, but have trouble identifying the two with being in love.

My past experience of "love" was a nightmare, so if that's what falling in love is....I don't think I missed out on that much.

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11 Apr 2009, 6:27 am

A girl worth loving only comes around every 5 years or so.

Have never been loved back... The only one that said she loved me was a liar.

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11 Apr 2009, 7:45 am

I never have, and I seriously doubt that I ever will.

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11 Apr 2009, 11:56 am

Once and I've been in love with the same person since I was 12, I know it's very young but love has no age limit to me. Words cannot describe how I feel for him. what makes it better is we're already the closest of friends.

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11 Apr 2009, 4:14 pm

sounds like limerence, to me.

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11 Apr 2009, 4:57 pm

pensieve wrote:

May or July last year. I don't think I'll ever feel the same way about anyone else.

You're still young, and you've not had any distance. Proximity makes these things harder, but you will move on, and you will fall in love again.

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11 Apr 2009, 10:01 pm

Last month :heart:

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11 Apr 2009, 10:09 pm

I get obsessed with people all the time, but really and truly in love, at most three times in my life.

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12 Apr 2009, 12:09 am

15...it ended like a Phil Collins song lol
(started like Sussudio-ended like In the Air Tonight)

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12 Apr 2009, 6:39 am

about 7 months ago i feel in love with my ex......still in love with him

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12 Apr 2009, 9:53 am

sinsboldly wrote:

sounds like limerence, to me.

Wow! Thank you for that ref. Just been looking it up, in Wikipedia, at:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence

Very interesting.
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12 Apr 2009, 9:57 am

beginning of the year... still love her to bits

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12 Apr 2009, 9:59 am

I've just recently fallen in love for the first time ever. At first I wasn't sure what those strange feeling were but now I'm actually quite sure it's very deep affection or so called "love".

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