So yeah, I think I'm about to get dumped?

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msinglynx
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23 Apr 2009, 11:56 pm

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I know. How can you channel that stress into something productive?

I dont know. I cant sleep, dont want to eat, cant paint, write or draw. My head is fuzzy.


For physiological problems, I recommend a two hour walk outside to improve oxygenation and circulation.

lol yeah maybe that will work


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24 Apr 2009, 12:53 am

msinglynx wrote:
I dont know. I cant sleep, dont want to eat, cant paint, write or draw. My head is fuzzy.


Yup, I know what that feels like...

The most important thing for you to do is to find out whether you're still together or not. Don't let yourself get stuck in relationship limbo... I lost three years of my life because of that, and that was just a rejection (albeit my first one)... Yes, she told me clear out that she wasn't interested, but I got all self-deluded into thinking that she was and just refused to admit it... And that was with a clear-cut answer on her part...

Point I'm trying to say is: don't let your relationship exist in a state of quantum superposition. Time does heal wounds, but it won't unless you remove the dagger that caused it...



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24 Apr 2009, 7:40 pm

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I felt bad cuz the girl was really pressuring me, cuz everyone thinks I should get with my guy friend who spent the night,

Don't let them pressure you into stuff. Don't feel bad if you don't want to do what they want you to.

It's your love life, not theirs. Who cares what they think?

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I think I said it wrong but I was trying to show him that I am loyal to him even tho I have the opportunity not to be?

That's how you meant it, but it sounds like you meant to ask permission to start having sex with other people. This is why it would have been better to discuss it face-to-face, since you could clarify what you meant if he misunderstood.

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he touches me all he wants, when ever he wants & sometimes its too much/rough & I dont say it cuz it seems like he needs that connection? And t scares me a little, I feel alittle nervous and a little used

Don't let him touch you if you don't want to. If he's too rough, tell him.

He won't stop if you don't tell him it bothers you.


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