Embarrasing mistake I've made!

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You shouldn't be embarassed. You were being perfectly polite and not creepy. Telling her off for ignoring you was perfectly reasonable after she tried to use you for her promotion thing. I'll bet she's embarassed now, for being rude and having someone point it out to her, especially if she is popular and probably gets special treatment. In fact that's probably why she's still avoiding you. On the other hand she might just be completely stuck up. Either way she's not worth the trouble. And don't worry about her talking about you to her friends, if you've just told her off and never speak to her. I hate people like this, they infuriate me. But it never matters in the end, you'll forget it.

How long to women remember stupid things that guys do?

You'll have to be more specific. Concievably forever.

when i go out and get drunk i've done really dumb stuff in the past i actually kick my self for

How long do women remember stupid things that were said in high school?

Ok so...

I immediately felt like I was looking at myself in disbelief. I couldn't believe how stupid I'd just been. Not only does she probably think I'm a stalker, but man, what a creepy comment to make. This was all last semester, and to this day, she still alters her path when she sees me. It's like I can't forgive myself. She's also pretty prominent and active on campus, so I'm worried I might get talked about. ****, I don't even know why I posted this, probably to get it off of my conscience. [/quote]

Ok I gotta say one the time she was all smiles she was trying to manipulate you into doing something for her even though she knew she didn't like you. And two you didn't really do anything wrong certainly not stalkerish not even a little bit so. Trust me it's not crazy or weird to take offense to people intentionally ignoring you.

Oh and she's avoiding you b/c she still doesn't like you (sorry but it's true) and she doesn't want to be confronted again, which you did and had every right to do so if you said it just like that you did nothing wrong.

People don't like to be called out on things like that she knew you liked her and tried to take advantage of that and you didn't let her good job! Now I suggest not letting her get to you think about other girls and talk to more people anyone she convinces to dislike you isn't worth it trust me if they don't like you w/o meeting you then they aren't worth it even if it hurts your feelings.

In the end move on ignore her never look at her again (that tends to help me feel better in such situations) and do what you like and keep being nice to people you like and in time some of them will choose to get to know you more and start to like you more to!



Oh and stalking is basically you constantly bother her or send her emails and follow her everywhere if you aren't then don't worry I've had girls avoid me b/c they don't like me or think I don't like them or their bf doesn't like me so whatever if they avoid you ignore them. But if they talk to you be nice and polite and afterwards ignore them again (that way you don't seem like an ahole b/c if they talk to you be nice and ignore them otherwise)

Well I hope that helps you some just remember you aren't doing anything wrong and keep trying to meet new people it'll work out I promise it just takes us aspies lots of tries and learning.


Oh and I like what Merle said alot very true!

It is probably my residual AS kicking in. Thank you for your replies.