Does love and AS mix?

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Right, I'm the same way. I'm finding out though that yes, you want chemistry of personality ultimately more than anything but if you can't find physical or chemical attraction even kissing them will feel like pushing two positive or negative magnets together. When you in that situation, everything you would want to do to be a good partner - you struggle at because your heart is not in it. Even more so when the person your thinking about dating is that cool and they are someone you have a lot of respect for as its all the more reason why you don't want to play games or lead them on. As of now I'm just realizing that a certain threshold needs to be met, that and not all of the girls who I don't have chemistry with are even unattractive; I just can't feel it with them for whatever reason.

I can totally relate buddy. It's been a life long search and continuing. That's I got into personality psychology and knowing what personality I'm looking for. I'm an ENFP looking for an ENTP. Plus I've discovered that I'm Androgyne and attracted to Masculine Androgyne Women. Each time I see a very Masculine Tomboy, I start to become very very feminine and do things like giggle, my voice will become more whistper and very high pitched and I would constantly play with my hair and cross my legs and stuff like that.

I'm not saying that all Aspies are Androgyne, this is just me.

I've never dated or ever kissed a girl EVER and I'm 21.

But my best beat is this, Know exactly what you are looking for mentally and not to picky on looks. Know what Personality and Mental Gender you want in a life partner. That's what I do. Hope this helps.

I'm in the same boat as various others on here, never been successful as of yet,