Why are some females so nasty?

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The reason why many women, especially the young ones, are so nasty is because they're insecure. Plain and simple.
People who are insecure often cultivate big egoes and enjoy finding faults and weaknesses in others and striking at them to stroke their own fragile egoes. Guys do PUH-LEN-TY of this sh1t in grade school and somewhat in college(depending on what school you're at and what kind of people they are)but usually grow out of it by the time they're in their mid 20s. Young women feel threatened by guys in general and so they try to be as nasty as they can to make themselves look powerful.

In a nutshell: Rudeness is a weak persons way of immitating strength.

Ok so I'm only responding to original post...

Some women are awful some aren't I've met plenty that treat me like crap at the smallest offense and never let it go not ever. And I've also met women who don't care about me or what I do (far fewer but that's got nothing to do with them really) anyway some people are just bad people and you can't let them bother you too much. Stay away from the mean ones and do what I do ignore them outright even if they are talking and standing right in your face ignore them and turn around and walk off w/o looking them in the eye. If it's at work tell your superior if they are your superior tell theirs or change jobs. Most people are nice they just don't stand out as much as horrible people do.

I actually dreamt a Family Guy episode once. This is the first time I've admitted this publicly. Maybe I should sell it to Seth himself because it was pretty damn good, actually. And, just like the real thing, it wasn't funny in the slightest.

OOOOOH, BURN.

Ok, I'm tired and it's Saturday night, I promised I wouldn't hijack another thread and let my ADHD take me away to anything other than what I should be working on.

I get along better with girls than with guys, i am more at-ease around girls than guys (sounds weird) but only as long as there's nothing that messes with deep or sexual feelings, i can do some small talk with females, i can't do small talk with males, cause them males usually only talk about sports or females -_- (well, mostly)

About being nasty to me or something, well, it's the same thing on both sides, some people are OK, others are not, gender doesn't change a thing

Most of the women who I've known socially haven't been all that nice to me either. I've always been considered 'just a friend' to them.
Still, I can't come up with a serious answer to why women can be so nasty. The only answer that pops up in my head seems to be "Because their name happens to be Morgan Webb"

Tim (aka the Slipperman)

Toad, I miss the Shatner "Khaaaaan!" profile pic you had, Eve seems too femme for you.

I still dispute the characterization here that women want "perfect abs and a perfect personality." This is coming from guys (not Toad, who already mentioned he knows fat and nerdy guys with GF's) that either don't know enough couples or women in general. Rest assured that looks, while important initially for some teenage girls, quickly lose priority in terms of other things for adult women. I myself am pretty good looking and was in great shape at one point (and not in terrible shape now), but my issues and bad dressing screwed up a lot of chances. And yes, they do look for social competence, but some women are more willing to overlook this than others.

I will agree to some of the princess talk. I think here in the U.S., a lot of upper-middle class women get to eat their cake and have it to -- they expect to have the career, but also have the family (but not actually have to raise the kid or clean after him or her) and take 4 months for maternity leave while everyone else does their work for them. They expect to not have to do housework or cook, yet still not take on a lot of the masculine tasks (like fixing things around the house, mowing the lawn, etc.) that men do. There's definitely been a perversion in the message we've told certain groups in the U.S. (including some minority groups, but that's a different topic) about reality and how the world actually works.

For men that feel as I do above, I recommend looking to a wife outside of this culture. Someone from Latin America, Asia, Eastern Europe -- all tend to have more traditional outlooks on gender roles than women in the States or Western Europe/UK. The former tend to be able to cook (having learned it from their mothers and grandmothers), are more deferential to their husbands, and actually have some skills around the house.

Btw, I speak from experience -- my sisters certainly had the spoiled, princess upbringing. While I was doing more yardwork than most Mexican gardeners as a teenager, they lounged around the house. After college, I worked to support myself and my wife, while they went on trips to Europe and Australia. Fast forward to now, both are near 30, neither are married, and now reality is hitting that they need to sweeten the value proposition to get a husband. There's a lot of competition out there for husbands from women who have domestic skills and a realistic and family-conducive outlook. And in a cosmopolitan area like mine, men are a lot more likely to go for an Asian woman or hispanic one, rather than settle for a spoiled white one.