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what do you mean by that? do some terrible things happen to divorced people, that I've been unaware of?

apart from alimony, that is?

my point was, many of the ones who have kids NOW have allready been together for a while, they met long ago, and theyve been rockin it ever since. some of them have stuck together since youth.

in the one and only life i got handed, from oh lord cosmos, i had to miss out on all of that.

and some terrible things that happens to divorced people are loss of trustingness, loss of sanity, and also for me there would be the joy of finding out why they divorced, and when that will happen to us, simply cus people dont like to change.

meh, I don't believe that. most people learn by mistakes. if you've destroyed something once you probably have at least some faint idea of what not to do in the future.

do you really think you're missing out on a lot? you're my age right? come on. you have plenty of time. do your friends seem happy to you, married and with kids in their twenties?

I don't know, almost all of my friends are married and all are close to divorce and I just sit there and watch them and take notes.

i find that most people go into autodenial about their own part in ruining stuff, and so they most likely will repeat their mistakes

and nooo i dont think im missing out on a lot, but eventually... i dunno. its not like im pondering about it a lot, but the thought DOES strike me. time passes by, and yes i have plenty of time - to wait, and observe, and turn more years
the current divorce rate in norway stands at a 50% tho, so i guess your right, for now! its not something to strive for

I would like to secretly meet married bisexual men for gay sex. That would be lovely.

If i were to go to a special school with retad people, (I don't have a choice, because there is no as schols here) I would meet ma AS chick just suddenly, but then the touretess kid would call my little brother a fittetryne, which i would get pissed at. When we were to borrow a nice hut int he mountains with a good view of the landscape, and it was time for sleepie, i had already told my aspie that she should sneak out of the room and sleep beside me instead. I havent forgotten about the tourette piece of s***. Before she came over to my room, i would tie the tourettes giy at the wall and tie his hands and legs, then poison him, then stick a towel in his mouth, then command the downie guy to tickle him so the tiourette can learn his lesson . After the tickle i would put sleep to them with a medicine, the same fate goes for the othas, the whole class+ assistants and teachers. I needed the as chick physical warmth to be able to sleep, because i was a sad being that night. the morning after, she would make me lapskaus and i would eat flatbrød to it, and i wouldnt worry about the others, because they would sleep like children<3......... for 1 year at least

A bit off topic, but must be said: Waltur, I'm diggin' you so hard right now! You're saving me a lot of typing with your most accurate opinions. Also, you seem to have fine taste in music as well. Respect!

Waltur gets it. Read his posts again. And again.

It feels pretty insulting to think that someone expects me to step in for the last guy and raise the kids. The thought that my big reward is taking care of children, giving her financial support, and probably facing the consequences from the last marriage (intimacy issues, sudden irritability, ect..). The word "sucker" comes to mind when I think of it that way.

In reality, I can appreciate a single mother as someone who has to work extra hard to raise her family, that shows responsibility. It's just that there are single moms who don't know the first thing about being responsible, I met one who had her parents take care of her, she never had to worry about money. A different one was just getting money from her ex, she didn't even pay attention to the child, she just spent money to bring guys back.

I'm not getting into any more relationships involving a mother. I'll get a mail-order-bride before I think about doing that again.

Well...yes, of course. Unless you are in highschool, which you must not be if the girls/women your age mostly have kids. I'm not getting why it's so important to be with somebody who has never been in a relationship before? Each romantic relationship teaches both people in it something important (if they are willing to learn it). The failure of a relationship teaches important things to anybody willing to learn from them.The only people who are each other's first relationship are those who marry their highschool sweethearts and never get divorced.

Relationship experience isn't a liability. It's an asset.