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Tias
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20 Jan 2010, 9:48 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

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I do want a relationship, but if the partner is limiting sex to vaginal penetration within marriage, then the relationship cannot continue.

Can't you worry about that after it becomes a problem?

Its stupid even thinking about it. Going upto girls with tick boxes.. "Do you limit sex to vaginal penetration within marrige.. well n that case no I won't go out with you"..

He said that?
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Woa, missed something crucial there.
At this rate he wont find anyone, he should be alot more loose about this requirements.

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20 Jan 2010, 11:15 pm

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I do want a relationship, but if the partner is limiting sex to vaginal penetration within marriage, then the relationship cannot continue.

Then dump her and find someone else. It's not as difficult to do as you think it is if you would get a clue and listen to all of the advice you have been given.

Yup, there could be better women elsewhere.

Trust yourself and your intuition more often, it helps.

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20 Jan 2010, 11:19 pm

I had a comment, but I'm deleting it because I'm now worried that it might come across as an unkind jab, and not taken in the playfully sarcastic tone in which it was intended.

It's been quoted, though, so I don't know if it will continue to show up. I hope not.

I feel like there are too many comments on this thread (after this one that I'm am editing right now) that seem like personal attacks (or pretty close to it), and I don't want to be part of that.

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20 Jan 2010, 11:45 pm

elderwanda wrote:

Tias wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Tim_Tex wrote:

I do want a relationship, but if the partner is limiting sex to vaginal penetration within marriage, then the relationship cannot continue.

He said that?
T_T
Woa, missed something crucial there.
At this rate he wont find anyone, he should be alot more loose about this requirements.

Really? My number #1 requirement for a partner is that he use the phrase "vaginal penetration" during our first dinner date, preferably in earshot of the waiter. If he's a Christian, then I also require him to use the phrase "clitoral stimulation" at least once in every conversation, or I will call the relationship off.

:wink:

(Sorry...I just couldn't resist.)

Out of proportion requirements will definitely get you far!

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21 Jan 2010, 2:10 am

Tias wrote:

Why do you even make these lists?

The best way is not to make those, to fall for someone naturally, no?

Wanting the ones you look for to have certain things will simply limit you even more.
So just let it come naturally.

Both men and women develop attractions and attachments to others who are bad for them. I've seen it happen to others and once it even started with me. At times I have recognized a situation of having dodged a bullet because of my living circumstance. It's reasonable to exclude people who have major problems or who want you for the wrong reasons, or who want something you might have and not you. Besides, some level of exclusion seems to be an intrinsic part of what gives inclusion its value.

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21 Jan 2010, 3:34 pm

I admit that I don't know what I want in a relationship.

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21 Jan 2010, 4:13 pm

Nobody ever does Tim. Just when you think you know what you want you will quickly get it and find out that it isn't what you wanted at all. Quite frequently the part you least expect is the best part. Hard words for an Aspie to hear because we love predictability and systematized everything but you can't do that with people.

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21 Jan 2010, 10:51 pm

I agree. We can only do things our own way when the planet has only us --- but this will be miserable.

Just accept others more, is it alright with you? If not, just wait for better opportunities...

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24 Jan 2010, 11:58 am

Don't give up! With all the qualities you've listed i guarantee there is a girl out there for you. Keep looking and try to stay positive you sound like a great guy!

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26 Jan 2010, 10:51 pm

Kenzie wrote:

Don't give up! With all the qualities you've listed i guarantee there is a girl out there for you. Keep looking and try to stay positive you sound like a great guy!

You sound like "Magnus".

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26 Jan 2010, 10:55 pm

By posting on here, you're just giving the OP more attention.

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26 Jan 2010, 11:55 pm

Yogiboy wrote:

Kenzie wrote:

Don't give up! With all the qualities you've listed i guarantee there is a girl out there for you. Keep looking and try to stay positive you sound like a great guy!

You sound like "Magnus".

actually YOU sound like Magnus, "Yogiboy" :roll:

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