Why do guys hate fat chicks?

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The rezone guys tend to not like fat women is because they are worried about being stuck with an expensive bill when they take the women out to eat I know really horrible joke here but I could not resist.

I think the real rezone is because of social expectations. Every time you look at the cover of a magazine or watch an infomercial at nite; they are talking about how being overweight is extremely unhealthy & unattractive. Overweight people get it in their heads at an early age that they need to be thin & they start getting a very negative attitude about their weight & their attitude pushes others away. I think the media is the main cause because they tell people what is attractive & what is not. Everyone wants to fit in & guys do not want to be singled out by dating fat women

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Works for me. it's a win all round, for your health the environment and of cause the animals.

It surprises me their are intelligent aspies who are "insanely empathetic'" towards animals yet they still eat them! Speciesism is something I will never understand I wont even kill a ant or cockroach so their.

Not that I ever judge omnis I was one to many moons ago.

Id still eat meat regardless of what people think. I can do Pisco-Vegatarian though, but most meat substitutes I cant have. (Soy makes me break out in a rash among other things :/). I am still a firm believer in that you need a balanced diet. Humans are technically omnivores. and I personally dont bother with the ethics vegans try to push on everyone else. Let people believe whatever the f**k they want, noone should try to force people to view s**t certain ways.

Because fat chicks can't jump ...and I don't want to carry bricks around to get them into my truck lol

exercising SUCKS BIG WIND
it is something i have always had to force myself to do, and i utterly fail to see what is so goddamned fun about it. done correctly [read: vigorously and with great and sustained effort sufficient to burn fat] it is only aches and pains and huffing and puffing and sweating and being hot and miserable. not everybody has endorphins or a perfectly symetrical physique with which to exercise at a sufficiently high level of efficiency that it becomes an enjoyable diversion rather than a harsh chore.

Im pretty sure most people don't enjoy excersising. I'm not exactly tiny but im not really overweight and it sucks.

Proper excersise is uncomfortable. It should be as its working your muscles. I put myself through this discomfort anyway, but I doubt many actually enjoy it.

Weight loss is 80% diet 20% excersise.

If you can't cut out your fav foods its unlikely you're ever going to lose anything until you get the balance right.

DA 10 says:

eat meat regardless of what people think. I can do Pisco-Vegatarian though, but most meat substitutes I cant have. (Soy makes me break out in a rash among other things :/). I am still a firm believer in that you need a balanced diet. Humans are technically omnivores. and I personally dont bother with the ethics vegans try to push on everyone else. Let people believe whatever the f**k they want, noone should try to force people to view sh** certain ways.


I completely agree with you , I don't push my vegan beliefs on any one quite the opposite actually I get repetitive lectures even from my GP that I should eat meat even after i get a 100 % perfect on my blood tests. B 12, iron , etc. And no I do not take supplements not even B12 I get that from my sedimented (yeast) home brew (beer) and organic veggies etc.

We even have a right wing douche bags like Sam Kekovich ( a Australian ex footie player) in "humorous' adverts telling me that I'm unAustralian for not eating meat. So the carnivorous people can be just as annoying and overbearing as my vegan cousins, even more so as their more of you.

I think finding the right type of exercise can help a lot. I despise running and weight lifting, but I got a good deal of exercise from horse back riding and had fun with it. Sure, I was sore afterwards, but it wasn't a chore. There's a lot of activities that aren't traditional or thought of as exercise but actually do make you burn calories. Some experimenting to find one you (general you) enjoy might help.

With attracting men: yes, some will automatically dismiss you. But not all will, not just because of your weight. I think attitude is important too; not the be confident in yourself! thing that a lot of people will say (though that can help too), but just not being overwhelmingly negative. If all a prospective beau hears is that men suck, he's probably not going to be too keen.

Has anyone clicked on those "tip of a flat belly" ads that were all over this site a few months back? I clicked on it, just out of curiosity (even though I'm not fat), and I found it rather intriguing. It's called the Every Other Day Diet, and the basic premise is that if your diet never changes, then your body stores most food as fat, meaning the best way to lose weight is to eat something completely different every day.

I dont know. I've seen some "chubby lovers" on tv and in real life. I don't want to say anything about weight preferances as I don't want to offend anybody.

I will say it again, in my experience most men do not mind women being fat, it has not effected my ability to pull (aspergers and personality effects this). If you really think men are giving you the 'cold shoulder' I should think it has more to do with your body language, facial expressions and clothing. Try smiling and looking at men, when you are talking to men try thinking happy thoughts (rather than self consious thoughts) , as it changes ones expression. Keep open body language such as open arms rather than crossed arms, and face the man not turn away and look at them (this is key!!).

try changeing your clothes, even fat women look more sexy and attractive in nice clothes. Try wearing long summer dresses rather than jeans and sweaters.

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It's already been mentioned that women have more of a tendancy to gain weight than men (and wrongly challenged). The reason for this is that before we had all this technology, lived in houses, and had a regular supply of the same foods of sufficient quantity year round, we were much more affected by the seasons.

As a woman may have been pregnant or breast feeding over the winter, when food would be much more scarce, then her having more fat reserves would provide a better chance for both her and the child to survive the winter.

Tied into that is how a person's diet would vary thoughout the year, as plants grew, animals migrated, or people had to eat food that they had stored. Switching food groups as part of a diet is a poor attempt to mimic that.

Basically people would follow the herds for meat, but of course they'd also have a surplus of it towards the end of the year, as they'd need to kill more animals to ensure they had enough skins for winter clothing (and dried meat to save for the winter).

However in the spring they'd have next to no use for hunting animals for food (which is also a risky activity), as there would be an abundance of plants growing in the spring to provide for them.

The result is that when you eat one group (meat) your body is eating what it expects to be eating before a long winter without food, so lays down fat reserves to help you through it, while when you eat a lot less meat, and instead eat a lot of fresh fruit and vegetables, and nuts and seeds (your source of protien), the result is you're more likely to lose weight, as fat reserves are pointless during the summer months (meanwhile, artifical lighting has messed up our body's abilities to tell the seasons properly, thanks to the amount of it we're exposed to).

If you need any more proof of this, you only have to look at how few overweight vegetarians there are. It's almost unheard of, unless there are other health problems that cause them to be obese.



Just like aussiebloke, I wouldn't pressure anyone to give up meat, because no-one should have to. It's a natural part of our diets. However, it's not natural in the quantities that people consume it these days (compare them to just 50 years ago, and you'll see levels of meat consumption are closely tied to obesity). I'll just recommend that reducing your meat consumption can make you healthier, be more ecological, and fairer on the animals. I will still eat meat on occasions, but it's going to be organic only, so the animals will have had a much higher standard of life than the cage reared ones used to provide cheap, mass produced meat, and will taste a lot better for that, on top of me enjoying it more because it's not something I eat regularly.

Erisad, you really need to buckle up and lose the weight. You're way too young to be that big, at 5'4'' and did you say 250?
It takes tremendous effort, but it can be done, you must persist. You need to do cardio every single day, whether you feel like it or not. Start slowly and build up to at least 40 minutes, and another 20 additional minutes of floor exercises, strength, core (stomach) and resistance training.
No excuses, every day, rain or shine, holiday or birthday, every day.
Also, change your diet drastically. This might be very hard if you live at home, but at least do portion control. Americans eat the biggest portions I've ever seen, and are the fattest nation in the world. Avoid fried foods and sugary snacks. Like none at all. None.
No excuses.
Everyday is important.
Every morning, wake up and say "today, I'm taking charge of my life and of my future. I am a beautiful woman, and every day and in every way, I am getting better."
The choices you make on an hourly basic dramatically affect your future. That one piece of cake, that tiny candy bar, those few fries have a domino effect on your life.
So what if it takes you a year to take off a hundred pounds? You'll be 22 anyway, so why not be the best 22 you can be?
Try to concentrate on the journey, not the results. Don't obsess about the scale, instead, think about your workout, plan it, rehearse it, plan your food. Drink tons of water. No sodas, not even diet sodas!! ! Diet sodas are terrible for you, I won't get into why, but they are. I know, you'll feel like "what's there left to eat???", and that is precisely what should happen, it's about changing all your habits and keeping the good new ones for good, learning how to eat and exercise and love yourself.

I voted yes because I already did.
But it's not my preference. I prefer a guy who is well fit.

Depends on the type of person and the type of fat. If we're talking morbidly obese then it just ain't going to happen sorry. There would be more issues than just the lack of attraction. For one he could be dead of a heart attack or diabetes and then troube finding the [insert word] and then space he'd take up both in bed and in the bathroom. Plus based on my experiences in working as a nurse assistant, people who suffer from obesity have to stay extra clean. You have to keep their rolls of fat clean or the could develop a serious bacteria infection in the skin.

Yeah, I do know what you mean. Both sides are guilty in pushing their beliefs upon eachother. I do have friends who are vegans and we all came to an agreement that as long as we are not pushing it onto eachother it is perfectly alright. and just like you I can say the following. I too get 100% perfect on my blood tests and even though I eat meat every day, it is a small portion of it (unless it is turkey, simply because I love getting a "turkey high").


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I totally agree with ya on this. A little known fact is that Diet sodas can be far more damaging in the long run than non-diet because of whats used to sweeten it. Sugar substitutes can be alright over the short run, but there have been more and more studies noting that some can have a carcinogenic affect.

@Polarity: yeah, people OVERDO the meat products. Also another thing i've read about is the fact that Decades ago even, Breakfast used to be the largest meal of the day. Nowadays its dinner. This in fact poses a problem because of the fact that if you have the big meal early, it will provide the energy you need through-out the day and in turn you will eat less. Also because you would be active during the day you would also end up burning off what ya ate for breakfast. There is a reason dietitians/Nutritionists have been saying Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Also, if you exercise, don't eat before hand. You WILL just end up eating more than you need. This is due to the fact that you will eat something, work it off, and you will end up needing energy. The body will signal hunger, then you will end up binging right afterwards. Now if you don't eat before hand, you will be at a negative calorie level which in turn will tell your body to start burning fat stores. Now once you are donee exercising, your body still burns calories, it always did in the first place, but your exercise boosts it for a while. during the boosted rate is when you should eat. It minimizes what gets stored, and it does help in the long run. I am evidence of the fact at least before I got weight gain from not being allowed to even do light physical activity for 5 months of recovery. But now I started going by those rules again and have been losing quite a bit.