Is it ever okay to look at a women's breasts?

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You often know if a girl wants you to look at her breasts depending on the clothes she is wearing. If her gear is revealing and tempting then I guess you could glance a little even when talking to her, it will only show that you are attracted to her (or her "orbs") and if she sees you looking she will know you took a liking to her or her dress up.

Girls that dress very covered up usually want you to keep your attention away from that area, but you can still take a look. It's only normal for a sexually active person to be drawn to breasts but also show respect by not glaring at them.

A glance is about 3-5 sec from afar. A regular glance close up is 1-2 sec. And a discreet glance from close up and during conversation is about tops 1 sec and often executed when she is looking the other way or at another direction. If you glance while in eye contact or if she's looking at you, she will know.

I find that women hate it when guys look at their breasts, especially if that's the first place you look. Never look at a girls boobs; I don't think its wrong but it won't get you brownie points.

I would rather people look at my chest than into my eyes.

I have been caught, but every instance the women has always been flattered, and it usually has initiated a relationship or hookup. Most women are already attracted to me that talk to me cause I am so shy. But for the most part I never have to instigate women, I am naturally a happy person and attractive so it works it self out. I do have a hard time looking anyone in the eyes cause moving eye balls are confusing and i hate it so I usually look at the persons eyes. and besides boobs are nice to look at LOL!!

So then obviously its not always a bad thing.

breasts are kinda beautiful, embarrassingly I take quick glances at them occasionally but I try to be really subtle about it and that's coming from a girl. You're taking a chance staring because some like it, and others hate it. I like it, but that's me. Everyone is different, just try to be polite at first and if someone asks you to look or touch them, then they don't mind.

Well that's it. They can be beautiful. It seems like some gals don't understand why men look.

I think it is ok!!

Depends.

A glance or two down there can make a lady feel good (I enjoy it), but not from a loser.
A loser is basically anyone who makes me feel uncomfortable in the sexual way, you know– giving off perv vibes on a continual basis. Like if they were to excessively hit on you, but you didn't like them.
Or if it was a creepy, sleazy stranger. That would make me unhappy.

But yeah, if he's a decent fellow, and his glance just kind of slips, it's nice. I look at boobs, too. They're pretty, and I like seeing how different they can be, or what I'm up against.

That's much more affirming than some of the posts that I've been reading.

That's good I hope?

Yes - on yours and her's wedding night, but only briefly and occasionally, for the purposes of stimulating you to be able to procreate.

religiously influenced beliefs on this crack me up.

Thou shall go fourth and drool at thou breasts for no longer than 30 seconds -Matthew 13:37

We're supposed to drool at our own breasts?

Yup, the bible clearly says so right there