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Life isn't fair or just.
You're not special, you just have to get on with it like every other person.

Actually, people with disabilities are special. The normal thing is to be an NT and so with a minority in the world being different that means those select few have been chosen and are therefore special.

you know what, I'm starting to believe you all are evil as well. Sex, greed, rudeness, cheating, talking down to people you think are inferior, making fun of and shunning people that are different from you and your friends, talking behind people's back. You all will have to answer for everything in the next life. I will be in heaven and I will be happy with people that are nice.

There are two possibilities:

1. You've been nothing but rude and obnoxious in this thread. If this is how you behave in real life, that's probably the reason people treat you like crap.

2. Some people are actually obnoxious and dislike people who look (and smell) different just because they can, and you've probably met some of these people. You don't seem to be capable of telling the difference between an actual jerk and a well-meaning person, though, and I suspect you've been treated better than you think--you just refuse to believe it.

Doesn't mean you (not you personally) have the right to be rude and use it as an excuse.
Have to get used to the fact not everyone is treated the same, we don't live in a utopia.

So how would you react if a victim of horrendous child abuse grows up being bad to the bone?

I bet this would be your response: "I know you've been through hell but that don't give you the excuse to be acting as you are".

Yep. I've had a horrendous childhood filled with abuse.
You have to make the best of what life has handed you.
It's not fair, get over it.
People try and help and help, but the advice gets turned down without a second thought.
There's only so much advice people can give before they give up.
You have to WANT help.

The straight answer is:

1. Nobody will respect you when it is obvious to all that you don't even respect yourself.

2. You're a hypocrite. You want people to change to make you happier but you're not prepared to change to make them happier.

3. You're deluded. Not bathing for 4 months isn't poor hygeine, it's a serious environmental health issue.

4. This thread and all your other contributions to this forum lead me to believe that you are a troll and therefore beyond our help.

1. How am I supposed to respect and like myself when noone else does?

2. I'm not a hypocrite, I've been nice and kind to everyone, so I don't think it's too much to ask for people to treat me the same.

4. I'm not a troll. Stop being mean to me, I haven't made fun of anyone in this thread.

No I will never get over it. I'm tired of people telling me this. I should be treated with as much respect and kindness as everyone else. It should be fair for everyone.

Nice and kind to everyone? From I can see, only on the surface. And surfaces do, as I've noticed over and over again in this forum, not matter for much.

based on the information you have provided on this thread, your friends have been treating you with a great deal of respect by coming and visiting you even though you resent ttham for their successes. they have a right to discuss the happy things in their lives without having to worry about tiptoeing around you. friends share the good things in their lives - it is not considered showing off. they care to provide you with company.

i would not go out in public with someone who had not bathed (in the last few days) or who did not make at least a reasonable effort to look presentable. i don't mean high fashion, but i do mean clean and neat... as in, showered, teeth brushed recently, clean clothing (doesn't have to be straight out of the laundry, but not visibly dirty or stinky). i expect other people to respect me by putting a very slight effort into being presentable.

Let's just stop beating around the bush. Just say what you all really want to say. That I'm a ugly, uneducated ret*d that's useless and has no future in anything. That I'm annoying and you wouldn't be friends with me if I was the last person on earth. That you wish I would delete this thread because you've grown tired me and now you know why people don't want to hang out or be friends with me. Just say that I should kill myself because there's nothing ahead for a useless bum like me.

You can change things around, but you're not willing to take criticism.

If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen.

By respect you mean making fun of me around people we rarely see? Making fun of how I dress and look? Calling me ugly a lot? Making fun of me because I don't get any girls? That's not respect.

I ain't gonna to say that.

Sure, by your and some other people's standards, you might be ugly. Haven't seen you for myself, so I have no idea. Uneducated? Sure, but education is only important in a system that I despise. ret*d? You're obviously not medically ret*d, and that's the only interpretation of the word I accept. Useless? Nobody is useless, some are just slightly more useful than others. No future? That depends on what you mean by that, and even then on whether you decide to do something or not.

Annoying? f**k yes, but only because you're so hardheaded. Wouldn't want to be friends? I've had worse friends, trust me. Delete the thread? No. Sure, it doesn't really have any purpose, but discussing is always nice.

Kill yourself? Hell no.