emlion wrote:
Quartz11 wrote:
Well, she's a friend of mine. Only I want to take it somewhere above where it is now, either better friends or dating.
I went on a trip with her and her dad one weekend at the end of October, and spent a few hours with her again a couple weeks ago. I tried to hang out with her again this weekend, but (a) took hours to answer to my text messages and (b) said she was busy this and the next weekend - wasn't sure when her best friend was coming to visit plus had other things going on.
I need to sometime soon say I want to be something more with her, but at least I'm happy that I've gotten this much so far. Me six months ago wouldn't have bothered trying being a depressed wreck.
You're taking a good approach to it, imo - not too overbearing. >.<
Do you think she likes you in that way? If she does - you should totally tell her, she might just be waiting for you to make your move.
I have no idea. She's kind of a depressed wreck herself and isn't sure what she wants to do with her life. But I would assume, if she didn't like me as a friend at the least - I wouldn't have done this much with her so far.
I know the day I went to see her a couple weeks ago, she was supposed to see another guy later that night - but he had no phone or working car and thus she just stayed home and went to bed. I can't assume things would go well there if he's like that.
But, even if things don't work out with this gal here - I'm looking to get back into the dating game (or just in it in the first place). Which for me, is quite a bit of progress.