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Quartz11
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05 Dec 2010, 6:51 pm

Well. Erisad's not here right now, and the gal I've been trying to get a date with is an enigma.

You might want to supply the news.



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05 Dec 2010, 6:54 pm

I'm sure there are other happy people around! :D

Okay - well i have no positive news asuch. D:
I get to see my therapist tomorrow, yaay? D:

Oh, one nice thing; the boyfriend bought me a tiny hot water bottle to keep me warm when he's not in bed with me, because it's super cold lately. :3


A bad type enigma or a good one? :O



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05 Dec 2010, 7:00 pm

Well, she's a friend of mine. Only I want to take it somewhere above where it is now, either better friends or dating.

I went on a trip with her and her dad one weekend at the end of October, and spent a few hours with her again a couple weeks ago. I tried to hang out with her again this weekend, but (a) took hours to answer to my text messages and (b) said she was busy this and the next weekend - wasn't sure when her best friend was coming to visit plus had other things going on.

I need to sometime soon say I want to be something more with her, but at least I'm happy that I've gotten this much so far. Me six months ago wouldn't have bothered trying being a depressed wreck.



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05 Dec 2010, 7:02 pm

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Well, she's a friend of mine. Only I want to take it somewhere above where it is now, either better friends or dating.

I went on a trip with her and her dad one weekend at the end of October, and spent a few hours with her again a couple weeks ago. I tried to hang out with her again this weekend, but (a) took hours to answer to my text messages and (b) said she was busy this and the next weekend - wasn't sure when her best friend was coming to visit plus had other things going on.

I need to sometime soon say I want to be something more with her, but at least I'm happy that I've gotten this much so far. Me six months ago wouldn't have bothered trying being a depressed wreck.


You're taking a good approach to it, imo - not too overbearing. >.<

Do you think she likes you in that way? If she does - you should totally tell her, she might just be waiting for you to make your move.



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05 Dec 2010, 7:31 pm

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My husband lets me put my cold feet on him to warm them up. You can't buy love like that.


Amen to that :D Well, hands anyway... I don't think mine could stand the feet...



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05 Dec 2010, 7:45 pm

emlion wrote:
Quartz11 wrote:
Well, she's a friend of mine. Only I want to take it somewhere above where it is now, either better friends or dating.

I went on a trip with her and her dad one weekend at the end of October, and spent a few hours with her again a couple weeks ago. I tried to hang out with her again this weekend, but (a) took hours to answer to my text messages and (b) said she was busy this and the next weekend - wasn't sure when her best friend was coming to visit plus had other things going on.

I need to sometime soon say I want to be something more with her, but at least I'm happy that I've gotten this much so far. Me six months ago wouldn't have bothered trying being a depressed wreck.


You're taking a good approach to it, imo - not too overbearing. >.<

Do you think she likes you in that way? If she does - you should totally tell her, she might just be waiting for you to make your move.


I have no idea. She's kind of a depressed wreck herself and isn't sure what she wants to do with her life. But I would assume, if she didn't like me as a friend at the least - I wouldn't have done this much with her so far.

I know the day I went to see her a couple weeks ago, she was supposed to see another guy later that night - but he had no phone or working car and thus she just stayed home and went to bed. I can't assume things would go well there if he's like that.

But, even if things don't work out with this gal here - I'm looking to get back into the dating game (or just in it in the first place). Which for me, is quite a bit of progress.



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05 Dec 2010, 7:49 pm

Good for you! :D
Dating is fun - even if it doesn't lead to serious relationships, the chase and the journey is still important.



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05 Dec 2010, 10:24 pm

Yeah. I been sitting out missing this sort of thing for far too long. Just being on the sideline moping about not being on the pitch isn't gonna help me get out there. So, time to start training so I can get out there and play in a game.



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05 Dec 2010, 11:53 pm

Quartz11 wrote:
Well. Erisad's not here right now, and the gal I've been trying to get a date with is an enigma.

You might want to supply the news.


Lol, I'm here now. I was at the bf's house Friday and Saturday and doing stuffs today. We had a spat on Thursday night, met up Friday afternoon and talked it out. We're okay now. Yaaaaaay! :D



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06 Dec 2010, 7:12 am

Stefan is buying me this for Christmas (lolol no not as an engagement ring).
It's a half carat diamond and 18ct white gold. :3

HERE, HERE, HERE!!

Somehow couldn't link an image, just the webpage.



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06 Dec 2010, 8:02 am

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Stefan is buying me this for Christmas (lolol no not as an engagement ring).
It's a half carat diamond and 18ct white gold. :3

HERE, HERE, HERE!!

Somehow couldn't link an image, just the webpage.


Oooooo, pretty. ^.^



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06 Dec 2010, 8:04 am

SO pretty. ^__^
I don't know what I ever did to be so lucky to end up with such a thoughtful boy.



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06 Dec 2010, 8:09 am

emlion wrote:
Stefan is buying me this for Christmas (lolol no not as an engagement ring).
It's a half carat diamond and 18ct white gold. :3

HERE, HERE, HERE!!

Somehow couldn't link an image, just the webpage.


Wow. That's beautiful.
My boyfriend doesn't believe in giving presents just because it's a certain time of year. Want to swap??? :P



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06 Dec 2010, 8:10 am

Gremmie wrote:
emlion wrote:
Stefan is buying me this for Christmas (lolol no not as an engagement ring).
It's a half carat diamond and 18ct white gold. :3

HERE, HERE, HERE!!

Somehow couldn't link an image, just the webpage.


Wow. That's beautiful.
My boyfriend doesn't believe in giving presents just because it's a certain time of year. Want to swap??? :P


No way!! How can he think that? :O But it's Christmas :D



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06 Dec 2010, 8:26 am

emlion wrote:
Gremmie wrote:
emlion wrote:
Stefan is buying me this for Christmas (lolol no not as an engagement ring).
It's a half carat diamond and 18ct white gold. :3

HERE, HERE, HERE!!

Somehow couldn't link an image, just the webpage.


Wow. That's beautiful.
My boyfriend doesn't believe in giving presents just because it's a certain time of year. Want to swap??? :P


No way!! How can he think that? :O But it's Christmas :D


It's just the way he is. The good thing about it is I don't have to worry about having to find presents for him and occasionally I'll get surprise gifts just because it seemed like a good idea at the time. :)



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06 Dec 2010, 9:31 am

This is why my boyfriend is awesome:

*he went out especially to get me a carton of chocolate ice-cream just because I was PMSing and having chocolate cravings
*he makes me breakfast and tea in bed
*he woke me up once when he come home from college and gave me a sunflower (my favourite flower) and a toy school bus (I love American school buses) just because he happened to see one in a shop and it made him think of me
*he gives me back rubs when I'm achy
*he was there for me at my most f**ked-up
*he let me have his band shirt of a band we both really love

and so forth.


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