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09 May 2013, 2:14 am

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madbirdgirl wrote:
way to label people...

how can you generalize all women who have male friends?
should a woman not hang out with someone just because they're male and attracted to them?
are women only supposed to be friends with women?



You too didn't read the thread well (Main post).

You got everything wrong.

I didn't say all women who have male friends, I was talking about specific cases.

According to my main post, "Nice Girls" don't make friends with males they're attracted to, so see how completely wrong you got the post?


either way, you imply that it's bitchy or wrong for girls to be friends with guys they're not into. a "nice girl" can be only be friends with men they don't like...well, maybe these girls are smart enough to stay away from men they like who won't ever like them back?
the men they're friends with aren't being used as emotional tampons, it's their decision to stay friends with the girl.


Being indirectly insulted is worse than being used as emotional tampon.

I think you're taking this thread too personal, like you relate to everything I said about "Nice Girl",
First you justify the eww reaction, and then you justify their discrimination based on hotness on picking male friends.

You're probably one.



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09 May 2013, 4:08 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Being indirectly insulted is worse than being used as emotional tampon.

I think you're taking this thread too personal, like you relate to everything I said about "Nice Girl",
First you justify the eww reaction, and then you justify their discrimination based on hotness on picking male friends.

You're probably one.


I'd rather be indirectly insulted. At least after being insulted you can sort of figure it out and deal with it, meanwhile being used as an emotional tampon can have long-term effects on ones mental health (which can lead to physical symptoms). I've been there, and I still get angry when I think about it.


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09 May 2013, 4:19 am

Kezzstar wrote:
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Being indirectly insulted is worse than being used as emotional tampon.

I think you're taking this thread too personal, like you relate to everything I said about "Nice Girl",
First you justify the eww reaction, and then you justify their discrimination based on hotness on picking male friends.

You're probably one.


I'd rather be indirectly insulted. At least after being insulted you can sort of figure it out and deal with it, meanwhile being used as an emotional tampon can have long-term effects on ones mental health (which can lead to physical symptoms). I've been there, and I still get angry when I think about it.


Hmm... you fairly convinced me.

But both are humiliating.



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09 May 2013, 4:47 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Kezzstar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Being indirectly insulted is worse than being used as emotional tampon.

I think you're taking this thread too personal, like you relate to everything I said about "Nice Girl",
First you justify the eww reaction, and then you justify their discrimination based on hotness on picking male friends.

You're probably one.


I'd rather be indirectly insulted. At least after being insulted you can sort of figure it out and deal with it, meanwhile being used as an emotional tampon can have long-term effects on ones mental health (which can lead to physical symptoms). I've been there, and I still get angry when I think about it.


Hmm... you fairly convinced me.

But both are humiliating.


Won't get any argument from me on that one.


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09 May 2013, 6:58 am

So a "Nice Girl^TM" is a girl who would not consider attractive guys as friends because she'd rather be dating them?



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09 May 2013, 7:08 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I did a thread for this point.

My reply:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt230530.html


I see your thread it's quite interesting how you go out of your way to prove my opinion 'wrong'. Guess unlike me stating we hold different opinions wasn't suitable to you in my experiences that's possibly because you're male.