What do men want?

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It's my birthday so I'm off to Denny's where I'll kick in the door and scream, "I WANT MY FREE GRAND SLAM BREAKFAST!! !"

Agreed 100%!

I don't know about you, but I don't really think about my penis unless I happen to be using it. It is really not that complicated and I can't imagine what I could think about it for more than just a few minutes. I also think that about boobs. They are nice to look at, but I don't really think about them unless they happen to be there, and then not more than a few seconds (they are nice looking blobs of fat on a woman's chest, I don't know what else there is to think).

I think you are probably right about getting married though. I don't know how any woman could expect a man to know that he is supposed to wait for sex until marriage unless he is told. If you reject a guy just for wanting sex, then you probably are going to end up with an asexual if you end up with anybody at all. You should reject him if he doesn't respect your wish after you've told him what it is, not before.

http://researchnews.osu.edu/archive/sexthoughts.htm

There is some variability--according to one study, gents think about sex between 1 and 388 times per day, while ladies ranged considerably lower. We also use our penises when we pee, and must think about our little friend then, too.



Why would an asexual man marry? Well, there is Sheldon, and he does have a girlfriend.

Companionship, mostly.

Looks matter but I am not picky. I'd rather settle for the average looking girl.I am fond of girls that don't want the whole world to know that they are pretty and don't show a lot of body.

actually, the medians for men and women were surprisingly close:


considering that women supposedly think about everything a bit less, it is quite possible that they are underestimating to make themselves appear more temperate. considering that it has been shown that women lie more often than men about their numbers of sex partners to make it appear that they are less sexual than they are, i would think it could be likely.

You may be right. Men do have a tendency to exaggerate their sexual accomplishments (at least when not in mixed company), and ladies to downplay theirs.

I think I probably think about sex less often than food. Maybe that would be different if I were able to satisfy my sexual desires the same way I can my culinary.

Since I started going and hanging out at a place with a LOT of 20 something females.. I can say basically all they talk about is sex.. It's amazingly similar to being surrounded by what the media shows to be typical 20 something males. Where as all of my male friends.. mainly what we talk about is Pop Culture and Table Top Games..

This is an interesting thing since it is basically the whole point of the movie 'Zero Charisma' that is soon to come out... Guy who identifies as geek, gets no sex and no respect.. guy who identifies as Hipster, yet still plays geeky games.. gets loads of sex and tons of respect. Essentially saying it's not the interest that destroys opportunity.. but presentation.

It's how a person looks basically

Look attractive enough and you can do whatever you please and people will still be all over you

Look unattractive and whatever you do people won't want to know about it

Most people can work this out for themself

Not really. Drunk women are quite a turnoff. 1-2 drinks or something is OK for me, and I'd be OK with whatever girl I liked drinking the same amount, but if I saw her getting hammered on the first date, I'd run away.

Tight clothing. Well, that's tricky. See, most guys do like revealing clothing as long as a girl is good looking, that's kinda fact. HOWEVER, at the same point, a girl wearing revealing clothing outside of, say, the gym or something, all the time, I'd probably think lesser of her. It would be like if I was walking around all jacked and wearing a spandex muscle shirt or something to the supermarket. You'd think of me as a showoff/tease. Admittedly, women can be more revealing without trying, and the general clothing of the day is now kinda revealing by default, just because "fashion" says it's "cool" or whatever. I'd rather not have any potential date or girlfriend dressing like a Fundamentalist Mormon or a nun or something, but having her walk around in short shorts and a tank top all the time probably would make me uncomfortable.

As far as pretty and skinny, yes, I like pretty and skinny women. I can go for a woman that's a bit thicker, and I tend to shy away from ones that are really rails looking actually, as I do like curves. But there is a point where most women get pretty unattractive if they're packing extra fat weight. Of course muscle mass can change these things, it's great as it makes girls look even more curvy, as long as they don't get to a super low bodyfat and look "ripped." One celeb I got a bit of a crush on is Olympic weightlifter Lydia Valentin. She's hot. 5'7 and competes at 165, so she's probably 170ish during the year. Beautiful girl.

Where would I take a woman on my first date? Uh. Somewhere cheap. I'm kinda broke. Maybe some cheap Asian or Indian restaurant. I like international food, and I like women who are reasonably adventurous. I wouldn't like, take her to a sushi place and order her live octopus or something, but I want someone who likes a variety of things, likes trying new things, or best case scenario can introduce me to some interesting things. I don't want a girl who will only like, eat hamburgers, pizza and fries. Barring restaurant, maybe go to the grocery store and grill burgers or chicken at a park? Hiking would be really cool, too, I love hiking, but hiking on a first date I've heard can give off a "hide yo kids, hide yo wife" kinda vibe, so even though I love hiking and stuff like that, I'd probably not suggest it until she felt comfortable around me. I also ice skate a lot, too (training for figure skating,) so I guess that's a potential date idea, but to me it's as routine as going to get my mail, but it's uh...something.

Sex on the first date. No, that's not my expectation at all. Hell, I'd be lucky if a girl kept talking to me after a first date after I annoyed her to death rambling about my special interests. Besides that, as a Christian I'm not supposed to be having premarital sex. As far as the reality of how that'll play out, I'm not really sure. Even in the "prude" 1950s, something like 97% of people admitted to having premarital sex. So my aim if I can't hit the marriage one would be to at least wait until I'm in some semblance of a committed relationship.

I think most of what you posted is basically pretty much stereotypical "hookup" culture that is very prevalent nowadays. People don't even really court or date anymore actually. People are just like "hey you're hot, wanna have sex" and that seems to be it. And this is unfortunately the nice progressive future of America. It's leading to massive rates of illegitimate children without fathers and with unprepared/unhelped mothers. I could go on a long long rant with this, but pretty much everything you posted is a symptom of a giant societal problem.

that is too black n white and untrue

It's a fact and no amount of self-delusion will change it

Sex, action flicks, beer, and fast cars!

^^^^No pizza?

Of course pizza!! ! Haha!!