Would you ever date a fat or obese person?

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For me its not really about the look its about the person inside. I do agree with you though big girls are a turn off for me mostly but if you find that person that loves you and understands you and they happen to be a little on the heavier side it won't matter trust me.

I'm still looking for a "curvy girl" chart.

I wonder what the numbers and silhouettes on that chart are based on? Bmi?

I have often described my figure as an hour-and-half glass

Hm... I like up to six. Seven is just starting to look unhealthy (although I'd still think about it), to not say anything about eight or nine.

One scares me

My ex was around an 8 on that chart.
I'm in between a 5 and 6, but with a much more defined waist than those pictures.

Don't care (well, other than a woman).

My first BF was a 7, then became a 5 after we broke up and he hit the gym.
Second one was a 1. Take that for contrast between BF sizes

I'm a 2 on that chart. My boyfriend is a 3 on that chart, but it's muscle, not fat (he works out). I once wrestled with a crush on a young man who is around a 5-6, but he has one of the most gorgeous faces I've ever seen on a man (as luck would have it, he's gay). For me it depends what their face and character are like. But honestly I don't think I could go above a 7.

For me, it depends on how big they are and if they're willing to lose that weight. I am pretty accepting but there is a limit. If someone really and I mean REALLY lets themselves go to a point where like they can't even walk... then I am sorry. I just can't. It's the harsh truth I guess. This sounds rude but I am not going to push an obese person around in a wheelchair for the rest of my life. I want someone I can have fun with and go places with. I apologize.. They also must have a great personality. I think my limit is 7 on that chart. Sorry if I seem rude to anyone. Just being extremely honest.

I've dated everyone from 1 to 6.
I really am not sure why this thread needs to exist, it confuses me.

The problem so far is that some aren't just stating their weight preferences, they're stating what (in their misguided opinion) is fat or thin period.

Like two posts above for example, 8 doesn't equal wheelchair bound obese. And of course referring back to several pages ago where someone thought being even slightly over 130lb for a girl was fat. I don't care what they prefer, but people are stating some pretty warped weight perceptions here.

If you look like Mick Avory, give me a call.