i_wanna_blue wrote:
I don't think I have any. If I were the object of some lady's affection she would have let me know in some way, since it's clear I'm super shy and insecure. Since that has never happened I guess it means I have nothing to offer.
Some girls like shy guys. It can definitely be an asset. Unfortunately, as Hopper mentioned, it's often the shy girls.
Insecurity, [i]to a degree[\i], can also be appealing. Someone who is going on and on about how worthless they are..after a while, you say fine, whatever, you're worthless, i give up. It gets tiresome; and they may well spend so much time and focus talking about how undesirable they are that they convince those around them, creating a self-fulfilled prophecy.
But, someone, especially a guy, who may seem relatively comfortable with himself, but then confides that he thinks his nose is too big or he hates his cowlick..that can be endearing.
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