Why are women so desperate for men?

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Who's desperate for who again?

Technically, our bodies are designed to adapt to our current conditions.

A person who spends thei life sitting on their butt will have a body designed for exactly this.

They'll have little muscle or strength since both are unnecessary for their daily survival, and their body willbbe more inclined to store fat.

The average person in modern society is like this with the typical 'skinnyfat' look.

Also, your stomach bacteria are use to your current diet.

People who always eat unhealthy typically feel a little weird in the stomach when transitioning to a better diet and people who only eat healthy feel like sh*t when we eat bad foods.

So this is why healthy dieting and fitness are so difficult for people to pick up, its literally rewiring years and years of what your body has become accustomed to.

But I do agree once you're fit and healthy you feel a million times better and sitting still feels so unnatural.

Because we are supposed to naturally be on our feet like our ancestors were (and even ancestors of the recent past)

Even as a full time student I'll be constantly harassed by social security to find work. After 6 months on the dole (regular unemployed) I will HAVE to work in the 'work for the dole' program, as well as attending weekly appointments at the local Job network and having to.make long-a55 phone calls to social security since peoples dole payment are regularly cut for no reason at random times.

I'm in a lucky position I'm grateful for, to never have to worry about working liie 10 hrs a day, only reason I'd want to study or get a job tbh is to improve my chances with the opposite sex.

I'm fine with just volunteering the rest of my life.

But the usual dating advice for both men and women's "Don't do it for men/women, do it for YOURSELF".

No, it takes just as much paperwork and f*ckaroundery with the social security system.

Aw man you're stuck between a rock and a hard place outrider

Depending on what you wanted to study; could you study it in your own time unofficially using something like Khan Academy and then pay to take the tests officially?

Though, if I was in the business of improving myself for the sake of the opposite sex (which I may or may not be ) I'd go learn to give massages, maybe learn to dance and maybe take some cooking classes with which to impress.

For those of you interested in losing weight on a budget I've found this awesome blog of healthy recepies.

Healthy eating doesn't need to be dull or expensive.

Cooking on a bootstrap

Go for the vegetarian and non-fried MiddleEastern/Mediterranean recipes in "Meze" cuisines (Except the Italian, I mean Greek, Lebanese, Turkish...etc); these small dishes are energy powers and many recipes are totally veggie and no frying (and frying can be substituted by baking in some recipes too).

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meze

Google "meze recipes" and you will find plenty.

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Me and Sly just want a nice woman who likes us for who we are physically and romantically and we like them for who they are.

F*ck why do some women generally have such high standards.

I'd want to date a disabled girl who doesn't want children and Still lives with her parents as an adult so why the f*ck does it seem even these women need a guy with a job, His own place, etc.

Like why would.me having a job be necessary to provide value? Shed get her own disability pay like me, since she lives with her parents all shed have to pay is bills, toiletries, car costs just like me.

What I have to offer is love, fun times, a warm supportive family who'd be there for the girl and me when we need them, my family's house to live in if she's ever kicked out (I crushed on a girl who was kicked out), I'll learn to drive someday so I can provide that too.

I also share the lease with my parents so when they die I can immediately take over as the legal renter.

At age 18 I have decent cash, physical fitness, a home to provide, supportive family, and soon I'll be buying a car.but because I don't work or study by the time I'm 25 girls will think I'm a loser if I dont have a.Job

I'm working on getting a carer to take me when I need to go do things I can't because ofy anxiety.

But it all comes back to a job. Forget the fact I volunteer a few hours a week and my disability pay is about the pay for a part time worker anyway, I need a goddamn career, $500,000 a year, an expensive $300,000 car instead of a cheap secondhand one, and a nicer house to live in alone otherwise I'm stuck with those trashy girls abusive fat smoker alcoholic druggie pregnant to a gangster crack head family abusive crazy.mentally messed up girls way too below my league all cause I can't do a sh*tty job for 8 hours a day.

*sigh* F*ck this sh*t.

I am totally convinced nowadays that the FWB relationship is by far the most egalitarian form of relationship can a man gets.
None of them ever expected me to pay for anything, whether for lunch, dinner or any other outing expenses; and none did ever give any damn about what's my car (my car is actually shared with my siblings, we divide its costs too evenly, so I too don't have a car all the time for myself), what's my job, nothing.....hell, they barely care for short my height even!

No gender roles or the usual gender dynamics, no drama, just equal casual fun. And to be frank, way less expensive too, since it's all half and it covers all the emotional, intimate and sexual a human may need. No, it's nothing like one night stands because there's a level of friendship involved, not with complete strangers.

The scenarios and the attitudes were totally different when I was dating for marriage years ago; back then all what I got is snarky remarks (even when it comes to my body, height and looks), mean attitudes, ghosting, lying, flaking; and expectations, a lot of expectations....yuck. Those "marriage-oriented" women were the worst for me.

Outrider, I find it absurd that you have to get a doctor's permission to study.

People get degrees all the time in the US when they're on disability. Excellent scholarship opportunities, too.

Honestly, I find it absurd that Asperger's (not Classical Autism) is a condition eligible for disability payment in the first and second world countries.

Aspies can work, even if it's hard for some, but it can be said the same for people who lack intelligence (without mental retardation) or physically weak...etc.

There's no symptom in Asperger that makes one totally incapable to be productive.

Its not my only mental health condition.

Aspergers alone wouldn't be enough here either


I can comfortably handle about 8hrs a week maximum of low pressure volunteering (small, quiet stores that let you work.more slowly).

I would go 10hrs a week somtimes but need to abuse painkillers to relieve anxiety

I strongly agree.

I am very curious; how much is the payment?

Are you still on "Youth Allowance," Outrider?

The idea that losing weight is expensive is just total nonsense. To lose weight you have to eat LESS calories than you did before.