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04 May 2020, 8:13 am

The weird thing is you can't really prove that you aren't a flighty child-man when you're unattached.

When someone gets married women know this man isnt like the others and they are capable of commitment.

Why in the world she would want to steal someone away though, I don't understand. Because if she's successful, then they instantly prove that they can't commit.

Single men have treated me like s**t. Married men have been genuinely nice to me.



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04 May 2020, 8:37 am

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... You have to have proof of dateability, and unfortunately you have to bring it with you.
Or you could hang out with a small group of people in public, with similar results.


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04 May 2020, 10:09 am

Fnord wrote:
old_comedywriter wrote:
... You have to have proof of dateability, and unfortunately you have to bring it with you.
Or you could hang out with a small group of people in public, with similar results.


This. Speaking from personal experience.



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04 May 2020, 10:14 am

Are you looking for sexual experience (to put it about) or a long term serious relationship?

Or a serious relationship but preferably after you've put it about for a bit?

I'm not waiting to judge but I would give very different advice depending on what you actually want. Don't just say you'll settle for anything, you must have a preference.

I've just read 11 pages and no one asked this question, why?


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04 May 2020, 10:28 am

^ I think in my case I assumed that what was wanted was what I’ve found works for me.
Whoops :oops:



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04 May 2020, 10:29 am

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Are you looking for sexual experience (to put it about) or a long term serious relationship?  Or a serious relationship but preferably after you've put it about for a bit?  I'm not waiting to judge but I would give very different advice depending on what you actually want.  Don't just say you'll settle for anything, you must have a preference.  I've just read 11 pages and no one asked this question, why?
Likely because the OP has stated 'loneliness' as his primary issue, and not 'horniness'.


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04 May 2020, 11:24 am

fluffysaurus wrote:
Are you looking for sexual experience (to put it about) or a long term serious relationship?

Or a serious relationship but preferably after you've put it about for a bit?

I'm not waiting to judge but I would give very different advice depending on what you actually want. Don't just say you'll settle for anything, you must have a preference.

I've just read 11 pages and no one asked this question, why?



But you are a pig, no one here can achieve your sexual experience.



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04 May 2020, 11:58 am

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^ I think in my case I assumed that what was wanted was what I’ve found works for me.
Whoops :oops:


Which is?



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04 May 2020, 12:01 pm

hurtloam wrote:
Karamazov wrote:
^ I think in my case I assumed that what was wanted was what I’ve found works for me.
Whoops :oops:


Which is?


The serious relationship option from fluffy’s question.



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04 May 2020, 2:34 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
Are you looking for sexual experience (to put it about) or a long term serious relationship?

Or a serious relationship but preferably after you've put it about for a bit?

I'm not waiting to judge but I would give very different advice depending on what you actually want. Don't just say you'll settle for anything, you must have a preference.

I've just read 11 pages and no one asked this question, why?



But you are a pig, no one here can achieve your sexual experience.


Careful with the jokes, Boo.

I get you're joshing us, but other posters don't.

Thanks.


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04 May 2020, 2:42 pm

I think Boo was referencing the "pigs have orgasms that lasts for 30 minutes" thing.


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04 May 2020, 3:23 pm

Karamazov wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
Karamazov wrote:
^ I think in my case I assumed that what was wanted was what I’ve found works for me.
Whoops :oops:


Which is?


The serious relationship option from fluffy’s question.

I expect you were right anyway. I just thought we ought to check.


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04 May 2020, 3:26 pm

Fnord wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
Are you looking for sexual experience (to put it about) or a long term serious relationship?  Or a serious relationship but preferably after you've put it about for a bit?  I'm not waiting to judge but I would give very different advice depending on what you actually want.  Don't just say you'll settle for anything, you must have a preference.  I've just read 11 pages and no one asked this question, why?
Likely because the OP has stated 'loneliness' as his primary issue, and not 'horniness'.

I didn't realise he said it was his primary issue, must have missed it. I thought he sounded envious when talking about his friend getting it.


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04 May 2020, 3:36 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
Are you looking for sexual experience (to put it about) or a long term serious relationship?

Or a serious relationship but preferably after you've put it about for a bit?

I'm not waiting to judge but I would give very different advice depending on what you actually want. Don't just say you'll settle for anything, you must have a preference.

I've just read 11 pages and no one asked this question, why?



But you are a pig, no one here can achieve your sexual experience.

Is this a David Cameron joke :oops: it wasn't me. It was a different pig.


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04 May 2020, 7:35 pm

Fnord wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
Are you looking for sexual experience (to put it about) or a long term serious relationship?  Or a serious relationship but preferably after you've put it about for a bit?  I'm not waiting to judge but I would give very different advice depending on what you actually want.  Don't just say you'll settle for anything, you must have a preference.  I've just read 11 pages and no one asked this question, why?
Likely because the OP has stated 'loneliness' as his primary issue, and not 'horniness'.


That's what I thought, although for many young men the two are conflated.



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04 May 2020, 9:07 pm

XFilesGeek wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
Are you looking for sexual experience (to put it about) or a long term serious relationship?

Or a serious relationship but preferably after you've put it about for a bit?

I'm not waiting to judge but I would give very different advice depending on what you actually want. Don't just say you'll settle for anything, you must have a preference.

I've just read 11 pages and no one asked this question, why?



But you are a pig, no one here can achieve your sexual experience.


Careful with the jokes, Boo.

I get you're joshing us, but other posters don't.

Thanks.


I'm not a likely Boo-defender, but anyone who's seen Fluffy's avatar should get it if they're capable of getting jokes at all. Even Commander Data would have smirked.


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