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20 Feb 2022, 10:27 am

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I agree. This is a major sh-t test on her part.
"Sh*t test"? Respect! I'm Red Pilled too. :thumright:

I didn't want to mention this, because there used to be a mod on here that HATED Red Pilled men. But now that she's gone, I gotta say this: the OP's girlfriend is TESTING him, to see how he stands up for himself, fighting against both her personally and her woke leftist politics.

And so far, OP, you're doing a poor job at it; you're FAILING her sh*t test. Which means her attraction and respect for you will soon go away forever; once a woman loses attraction to a man, it NEVER comes back. Race and wokeness are far from the main issues here; they're merely pretexts for her sh*t tests, because she KNOWS she can leverage your race against you, all with the backing of the liberal politicians she voted for and their Antifa goons.

Dump her right away! Tell her you want to see other people, and don't take her back under any circumstances. Your mental health will thank you in the long run. And if she vandalizes your car in retaliation (like American women often do) or hires Antifa goons to do it, fight back: call your city police, the county sheriff, or the RCMP; have her arrested, and press charges!



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20 Feb 2022, 1:20 pm

Oh okay but I don't agree with her views and I tell her that though so wouldn't that be passing her tests more likely, since I'm standing up to it?



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21 Feb 2022, 12:24 am

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Oh okay but I don't agree with her views and I tell her that though so wouldn't that be passing her tests more likely, since I'm standing up to it?


And how is she responding to you standing up to her views?



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21 Feb 2022, 12:31 am

She seems a bit bothered by it but then later, she is all over me passionately and everything is fine. So not sure if that's a pass or not, or if she is just putting them aside.



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21 Feb 2022, 3:05 am

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She seems a bit bothered by it but then later, she is all over me passionately and everything is fine. So not sure if that's a pass or not, or if she is just putting them aside.


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21 Feb 2022, 6:24 am

ironpony wrote:
She seems a bit bothered by it but then later, she is all over me passionately and everything is fine. So not sure if that's a pass or not, or if she is just putting them aside.
Sounds like a pass to me: she's working to keep you in her life. She's beginning to realize that if she keeps hassling you over your politics, you could be gone.



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21 Feb 2022, 11:52 am

Aspie1 wrote:
rse92 wrote:
I agree. This is a major sh-t test on her part.
"Sh*t test"? Respect! I'm Red Pilled too. :thumright:

I didn't want to mention this, because there used to be a mod on here that HATED Red Pilled men. But now that she's gone, I gotta say this: the OP's girlfriend is TESTING him, to see how he stands up for himself, fighting against both her personally and her woke leftist politics.

And so far, OP, you're doing a poor job at it; you're FAILING her sh*t test. Which means her attraction and respect for you will soon go away forever; once a woman loses attraction to a man, it NEVER comes back. Race and wokeness are far from the main issues here; they're merely pretexts for her sh*t tests, because she KNOWS she can leverage your race against you, all with the backing of the liberal politicians she voted for and their Antifa goons.

Dump her right away! Tell her you want to see other people, and don't take her back under any circumstances. Your mental health will thank you in the long run. And if she vandalizes your car in retaliation (like American women often do) or hires Antifa goons to do it, fight back: call your city police, the county sheriff, or the RCMP; have her arrested, and press charges!


I may not even participate in OP's threads, but if I have followed correctly, he was asked to sign some sort of relationship waiver at hid workplace over this relationship. It sounds like the two work in the same workplace, even if not in the same dept. A lot more is at stake here in the event of a break up

I don't think car vandalism or antifa goons are something to worry about.


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21 Feb 2022, 12:02 pm

I'm struggling to follow this thread and it is very long, but I think the OP and girlfriend both live in Canada? If so, that's a very wealthy, safe, and advantageous place to live, and certainly a fantastic place to live compared to most of the planet. So maybe explaining that to your girlfriend - that she herself is enormously privileged living in Canada - will get her off her high horse and you can get on with more interesting conversations. Or just dump her and move on with more interesting and less irritating things.



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21 Feb 2022, 12:11 pm

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Dump her right away! Tell her you want to see other people, and don't take her back under any circumstances. Your mental health will thank you in the long run. And if she vandalizes your car in retaliation (like American women often do) or hires Antifa goons to do it, fight back: call your city police, the county sheriff, or the RCMP; have her arrested, and press charges!

I have dated many American women and have been married to one for over 35 years, and none of them ever did that to me (and tbh a couple of them probably should have the way I treated them). Also never heard the term "Antifa goons" before, that's a new one lol.

EDIT I should go on r/TwoXChromosomes and ask those ladies if they've ever done that lol.


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21 Feb 2022, 12:37 pm

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Aspie1 wrote:
rse92 wrote:
I agree. This is a major sh-t test on her part.
"Sh*t test"? Respect! I'm Red Pilled too. :thumright:

I didn't want to mention this, because there used to be a mod on here that HATED Red Pilled men. But now that she's gone, I gotta say this: the OP's girlfriend is TESTING him, to see how he stands up for himself, fighting against both her personally and her woke leftist politics.

And so far, OP, you're doing a poor job at it; you're FAILING her sh*t test. Which means her attraction and respect for you will soon go away forever; once a woman loses attraction to a man, it NEVER comes back. Race and wokeness are far from the main issues here; they're merely pretexts for her sh*t tests, because she KNOWS she can leverage your race against you, all with the backing of the liberal politicians she voted for and their Antifa goons.

Dump her right away! Tell her you want to see other people, and don't take her back under any circumstances. Your mental health will thank you in the long run. And if she vandalizes your car in retaliation (like American women often do) or hires Antifa goons to do it, fight back: call your city police, the county sheriff, or the RCMP; have her arrested, and press charges!


I may not even participate in OP's threads, but if I have followed correctly, he was asked to sign some sort of relationship waiver at hid workplace over this relationship. It sounds like the two work in the same workplace, even if not in the same dept. A lot more is at stake here in the event of a break up

I don't think car vandalism or antifa goons are something to worry about.


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21 Feb 2022, 4:04 pm

IKR, who breaks up a perfectly good relationship over something as lame as politics?



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22 Feb 2022, 10:14 pm

I don't want to break up over politics, but I do not like getting weiny towards me over them either, if that makes sense.



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22 Feb 2022, 10:34 pm

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I don't want to break up over politics, but I do not like getting weiny towards me over them either, if that makes sense.

Maybe so, but... This is YOUR reality; she's just a guest in it. A welcome, distinguished guest, but still a guest. Which means she has to respect the host's rules, and only ask for very reasonable accommodations (like not serving meat in your home if she's a vegetarian). The rest is up to you and you alone. If she can't accept it, the "Exit" signs are clearly marked.

You've already failed your girlfriend's **** [poop] tests, by trying to justify that you're "not really privileged". Which means she already lost much of her respect for you. "Privilege" was never the real reason for her actions; she was triggering you to see how you react. And you reacted in ways that lowered her attraction to you. Which is a recipe for emotional abuse and cheating.

Stay with her if you still hope to salvage the relationship, but remember that the damage's been done.



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22 Feb 2022, 10:42 pm

Oh really? I thought I passed the tests perhaps since the last one because she has been more turned on lately it seems and giving me more affection and what not. But I am not sure.



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22 Feb 2022, 10:53 pm

ironpony wrote:
Oh really? I thought I passed the tests perhaps since the last one because she has been more turned on lately it seems and giving me more affection and what not. But I am not sure.
Oh? Well, those are good signs. But the dead-last thing you want to do in a straight relationship with a woman is to let your guard down. It's a recipe for failing the next **** [poop] test. Save it for extremely trusted friends, close family members you're actually close with, and therapists who you're 101% sure aren't flying monkeys of your abusers.

In fact, the Red Pill community has quietly praised LGBT relationships for being mostly comfortable, honest, straightforward, and free of sneak-attack abuse, unlike straight relationships. (Which means the Red Pill is NOT homophobic.)



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22 Feb 2022, 11:03 pm

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This whole CRT hates white people thing is a false narrative funded by the Koch brothers. Sorry Rho but you've been had.

I'm not sure the Koch brothers are actually the main culprit here. Googling "Koch brothers CRT," I came across this: Conservative Koch network disavows critical race theory bans by Thomas Beaumont, September 29, 2021. It would be interesting to track down which right wing groups (and/or funders thereof) really are the main drivers of the push to ban "CRT".


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