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Brusilov
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27 May 2009, 5:39 am

Stay away from touching on the first date. You can do little playful swats or touch her shoulder; very slight non-threatening gestures. Many women regard the third-date as the expectant night of sex.

Absolutely though, when you first meet, and on the first date, refrain from physical contact unless she initiates. She might want to make out on the 2nd date if it went well.



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27 May 2009, 8:40 am

Brusilov wrote:
Stay away from touching on the first date. You can do little playful swats or touch her shoulder; very slight non-threatening gestures. Many women regard the third-date as the expectant night of sex.

Absolutely though, when you first meet, and on the first date, refrain from physical contact unless she initiates. She might want to make out on the 2nd date if it went well.


I disagree. There's no rules for how dating is supposed to go, what to do, what not to do, & when it's time to do the appropiate thing. It's all different depending on the person & situation. Never assume that what you want to do is wrong, inappropiate, or not at the right time. I used to believe all these rules, but have had WAY more success by not holding back.



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27 May 2009, 10:05 am

many women can't resist sex on the first date, but it's much easier for NT guys.


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27 May 2009, 10:16 am

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As a woman and with any women, they don't liked to be pressured into sex, what they want is a man who respects them, they also like the man to be a friend as well as a partner.


Then why does "Let's be friends" mean "no way"?



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27 May 2009, 10:20 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
StewartMango wrote:
As a woman and with any women, they don't liked to be pressured into sex, what they want is a man who respects them, they also like the man to be a friend as well as a partner.


Then why does "Let's be friends" mean "no way"?



Because you are not a friend she'd like to sleep with.

Hurts but you did ask.



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27 May 2009, 11:54 am

I agree with you deadeye that you should really just play it by ear and adapt what you do on the dates. There are no concrete rules. I was just speaking in general terms and saying it is definitely not a good idea to be all over her physically on the first date or come on too strong. Every girl is different. Some might want sex on the first date and others want to wait for marriage. It all depends on the girl.



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27 May 2009, 2:29 pm

No I wouldn't, it would be completly wasted on me. :lol:


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