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Sucks, though.. cos I'm weird about dating women older than 35. My mom is 45. I'm 28.

Where do you live?

I've got no expectations. I'd like to make some friends, however, because this terminal isolation really blows.

*I'm* weird about having anything at all to do with guys over 35, or so; I can't relate to adult males, and I have nothing in common with them, aside from chronological age. I'm kind of an overgrown 16-year-old, really. At any rate, I find older men physically repulsive. I don't mean to be offensive, it simply is what it is.

Your mom's *45*?! Holy s**t! She's not that much older than I am.

I'm stuck in a small (elitist, provincial, armpit, backwater) town in Connecticut. ;_;

Hell, What have I got to lose? Here goes...

Name: Jodi

Age: 24

Location: Alabama, USA

Physical: 5'6, Auburn hair, Blue eyes, thin, athletic build

Education: College Senior

Interests: Reading, video games, horseback riding, inappropriate/awkward conversations (I have the craziest conversations with people, very amusing), drawing A LOT, art history

Sexual Orientation: Straight

Religion: Agnostic

TV Shows: Venture Bros., Family Guy, South Park, Dexter, I also enjoy various Anime.

Music: I like pop and rock the best, but I generally like all kinds of music aside from country. Ugh, I hate country music. You can probably imagine the radio station torture I endure considering my location.

Movies: Monty Python and the Holy Grail, I really enjoy a good funny movie. I like fantasy based movies as well. I also enjoy shocking movies and making fun of really terrible movies with my friends. Go watch Troll 2... It's a nightmare. I also like action movies. No chick flicks though, can't stand 'em.

Family Guy AND M.P. Holy Grail, wow <3 can't forget video games and the hatred of country music

Why are all the appealing women from North America or Australia? It's not fair.

On WP forums that one's going to be hard. Not impossible, everyone is (well most) confident in their own way. I'm confident around those who I see as my inferiors (everyone!! mwuahah)

I'm on the cusp of my 24th birthday and really just want to find a change of scenery.
The idea of hopping on a plane and meeting a total stranger seems so appealing right now.
I'm about 5'7", athletic with big ta-tas that I wish were smaller. Blue, blue eyes and short dark hair. I play too many video games (and replay, and hunt for easter eggs...) in between tattoo sessions. I like ink, I love piercings, and if I can I color my hair.
I've been working for the government and it isn't my bag. I would love to find a job where books and intellect would be found.
I could be that inky coffee shop girl.
I smoke, I drink, I hate exercise, but I run when I have to. I've been a vet tech and find animals are some of the best of my friends. I don't drink water and mostly live on mountain dew.
Age means nothing, all that counts is what you've lived.
I love hunkering down and watching movies at home
Some of my favorites: I <3 Huckabees, Rocky Horror, The science of Sleep, Niagra Niagra, Hedwick, Eternal Sunshine, Secretary, and Garden State.
I sleep like the dead and paint my nails just to pick it off. I'm preparing for the zombie apocalypse.
I'm Bi but am more drawn to men. I cherish my freedom but am very devoted.
I love people for their minds and their eyes.
Sometimes I can't cuddle but would love to be in the same room as you.
I hate getting my hands wet, but will always play in the rain.
I want someone who is honest with themselves and never feels the need to hide. Someone who will take time to do nothing. Someone who knows that all we have is now.

Wow you sound like a true individual and someone who would be fun to be around.

Posted whats below once already about 15 pages back but given it a bit of a revamp.

My names Carlos Im 23, brown hair, brown eyes, medium build, have aspergers originally from the West Midlands (Birmingham to be precise) and am just about to move to Salford University, Manchester to start a 3 year BA Honours Degree in Television & Radio. After this I plan to do a Masters in Journalism (although not sure where to as of yet) Eventually my main goal in life is to become a presenter, broadcaster or sports commentater and eventually end up with a career that I will enjoy doing.

My main passions in life are Rock/Metal (also like a lot of Indie) music and Football (or Soccer as the americans and australians like to call it ) and have been an avid Manchester United supporter since 1990. I have other amibitions as well to try teach myself Bass-Guitar and to learn both Spanish & German, the latter of which I will hopefully soon be studying as an evening class to go alongside my degree. I don't drive but one day would like to have a Harley Davidson. As you can probably tell Im quite into the Rock & Roll Image.

As a person im very outgoing and like to be sociable, both a drinker and smoker and enjoy attending gigs and going to Rock, Metal & Gothic bars. I want to start seeing more films and have also grown very fond of Italian food. I enjoy long intelligent conversations about anything from Sport to History, Politics & Religion. I consider myself either spiritual or pagan (though I don't practise) Some people say im stuck in time as most of my favourites bands are from the 80's & 90's. I like quite a bit of sci-fi (nearly anything vampire/demon related) favourite shows of mine are The X-Files, Supernatural, The Shield, Californication & The British Quiz show QI.

I've no time for liars and hypocrites, some people say im too honest and upfront for my own good.

I'd like to meet a nice lady preferably age 18-27. I've been messed around and been mistreated many times and because of this I'd like to form a friendship with someone first before dating them.

That's all I can think of at present. I don't expect a reply from any females off here, though if you wish to say hello just send me a PM. Or add me on myspace, my address is in my signature.

Daemonic-Jackal
beyond image- what are you?
What would you do if you had everything at your fingertips?

Asking what Im like beyond image makes me sound like a poser. Actually thats just me and what Im really into. Erm.......did you read the second hf of my post, that should describe me quite well.

But if your asking me personality wise then I suppose im honest upfront and straight to the point. Very compulsive, can poke fun at myself and actually take a joke. I Can't stand fakers, I can be sweet, caring and sensitive but also not fun to be around if seriously provoked (takes a lot for that to happen though)

What would I do if I had everything at my fingertips? tbh I have absolutely no idea, let me have a good think and I will get back to you on that one.

Name: Brandon

Age: 28

Location: Near Nashville, TN

Physical: 6'3" ...My weight varies, depending on my mental state. I use to be very heavy at 320lbs. In 2007 I had a very successful run with the South Beach Diet, got down to 190lbs. Didn't exercise, so I wasn't 'in shape'. Lost my good paying job last December though, so I've been stressed and eating to cope, and my weight has crept back up. I plan to start my health regimen again soon, this time with exercise. The goal is ~180 and 'in shape'

Education: 1 year college out of HS, recently went back and had to withdraw again.

Interests: In no particular order: Anime, building and playing with computers, reading sci-fi and fantasy, video games, comics and manga, writing, drawing, healthy eating, and exercise (when I have an exercise partner)

Sexual Orientation: Straight, though still somewhat perverted O.o

Religion: I believe there is a God. Beyond that, I don't know

Politial: Constitutional Libertarian: "Individual choice and personal responsibility"

TV Shows: Lots of anime. Also, Buffy the VS, Firefly, Bones... stuff of that nature

Music: My taste cycles from underground rap, to rock, to classical, to Japanese rock and back again

Movies: Too many to list, I'm a movie person. LOTR and Star Wars, Indiana Jones and Back to the Future are my all time faves.

What I (preferably) want in a girl:

Looks: Short, like under 5'6"... Slim/slender/athletic... Color doesn't matter, though I like different things about each race. If she's white, I like red hair, pale skin, green eyes. Asian girls are O.O all around. You get the idea. Long hair is good no matter what.

Personality: An easy smile. The ability to draw me out, but still filter out the world at large enough for me to go out into it. Liking things that I like is a plus, but showing me new things would be good too.

I'm 27, and certainly look younger. I'm 6'4 and 180lbs, lean/athletic build. My short brown hair is always in chaos, regarless how much I comb it. Green eyes, that shift in hue.

I'm into science, alot, mostly biology. But can talk for hours about the deeper mysteries of the world. Why are we, how did we come to be what we are? What is the purpose? Ponder, think, discuss, marvel. Life is a gift, for which I never plan to take for granted.

I like to read, watch B movies, and play any game where you get almost nothing done after wasting hours.

I don't like, or even love music, I need it. My taste is a bit out of the norm, synthpop, dark trance, industrial, etc. Most the stuff many people would simply call "goth".

I served in the Airforce, wasn't my thing. Got out after 4 years and became an electrical engineer (same job as in AF, basically) And wouldn't you know it? Still wasn't my thing. Now I'm a full time student going for a BS in Genetics, this is my thing. Never been happier. I'd be surprised if I didn't carry this goal on to a doctorate.

To me, a relationship is more than just liking someone. More than enjoying their company. It's a desire to share in each other's uniqueness, grow from one another, and living a happier life together, than you could apart. I hope to find that.

Physically, it's hard to say precisly what I'm into. Everyone is beautiful in thier own way. I do have one caveat, I've never found a woman attractive if she looks "modified". Don't know why, but nature knows best, in my opinion, than the most skilled of docs. Really, I'm into a woman's mind, heart, character, her soul. It's all about who you are.

I think I tried this ages ago and heard nothing, so how about I add some information this time:

Name: John (and that's me in my avatar, but more pics available on request)

Location: Brisbane, Australia.

Physical: 5'6" (167cm), around 90kg, but would like to lose a few kilos. Blonde hair and greeny/bluey eyes.

Edumacation: High school many years ago, tried a year of uni and felt totally out of my depth in terms of managing study and assignments on top of the social component. Studied theology during my protracted dalliance with Christianity before discovering critical thinking. Tried art school and graphic design and realised I hated dealing with clients.

Interests: Love landscape photography as it involves minimal human interaction. Enjoy spending time on the computer, listening to music, my car, reading, watching tv, some socializing.

Orientation: Happily straight and not overly adventurous, but I was a late bloomer and I take the view that in a trusting and happy relationship two people should be comfortable to talk about their fantasies, even if they don't necessarily act upon them.

Religion: Probably closest to a weak atheist these days, I tried christianity for many years and realized it no longer had anything to offer me, and that therefor the Christian notion of god was not valid, but as neither I nor anyone else can say for certain if there is a god or what that the nature of that being is, it is easier to proclaim ignorance and not say I have any answers to give whatsoever.

Politics: Generally fairly left wing.

Tv: Documentaries. Top Gear. Recently discovered Bones and am enjoying it immensely. House. Buffy. Sci-fi stuff is always good.

Music: Totally eclectic and have over 300gb of mp3s. Recently played stuff includes stuff as diverse as Frank Zappa, Beethoven, The Flaming Lips, David Bowie. My tastes generally tend to the alternative and obscure end of things, the controversial and offensive.

Movies: Whatever is on, but favorites include Kevin Smith stuff, sci-fi, cheesy 80's action, clint and clyde, some art house stuff.


Major goals for the next few years are:

Looking to move into a trade, something in the electrical field would be great.

Buy land, looking for somwhere in the hills, maybe with rainforest, or somewhere alpine or close to it, and build a house of my own design. Or buy, whatever, I just want out of the city as soon as I can afford it.


As to what I seek in a partner. Well I hope that some of my personality comes through here, people say I am funny and I seem to have the ability to generate laughter. So someone who gets my lopsided view of life would be cool. Someone who doesn't want kids, as I have reached the point where I know I don't have the patience or tolerance for children of my own. Ultimately I think beyond the basics presented here, it is a case of talking and getting to know someone, seeing if there is enough chemistry to build upon.

So if there is actually anyone out there that reads these things, and lives in my general vicinity, and thinks they would like to get to know me, then don't be shy and say hello.

Here goes...yet again...

Name: Tim

Age: 29, will be 30 in December

Location: San Antonio-Austin area (specifically, San Marcos)

About me: I am in my final semester at Texas State University-San Marcos, graduating in December. My major is urban planning and geography. I am a goal-oriented, responsible, health-conscious person who knows what he wants in life, and for the most part, knows how to get those things. I have been a member of the Evangelical Lutheran Church of America (ELCA) for seven years.

Interests: Animated sitcoms (especially the Simpsons and South Park), home design, traveling, outdoor activities, stand-up comedy, geography, geology, indie/foreign films, art, architecture.

Requirements for a partner:

--Aspie
--Likes the Simpsons and South Park
--Likes indie/foreign films, and artsy stuff in particular
--Christian
--Conservative or libertarian political views
--Lives in the Texas Hill Country, San Antonio-Austin area, or Temple-Killeen-Ft. Hood area.
--Is not asexual, and wants to eventually start a family, and isn't "vanilla" in terms of sexuality, and isn't necessarily waiting until marriage.

I look forward to some good replies.

ok, lets put this here and see what happens

Name: Stephen

Location: Melbourne, Australia.

Physical: 175cm, 84kg (about 6-7 of which shouldn't be there, meh), brown hair with blonde highlights, blue eyes.

Education: Got through high school, tried a multimedia course at uni but had a breakdown in 2nd year, so dropped it. Went back to uni the next year and finished a Writing course in 3 years. Still like to learn though

Interests: music, indie video games, Taoism, cooking, AFL football, trivia, comedy, motorsport.

Orientation: definitely straight and open to a little experimenting, but not into surprises. I like to consider things first

Religion: A Taoism believer but not much of a practitioner. Not really supportive of God/Jesus/a human-like deity - humans are people, and all people are flawed in some way (I know i am)

Politics: Don't care that much. only vote for what gives me the best deal, that's it.

Tv: motor sport, footy, the simpsons, mythbusters, top gear, good news week, some documentaries esp. WWII

Music: a split between electro/dance and rock, but probably a bit more eclectic than that. A good beat or guitar riff gets me hooked. fav bands include The Chemical Brothers, Yellowcard, New Found Glory, The Crystal Method, Kosheen, LCD Soundsystem, My Chemical Romance, Muse, Incubus, Editors, Eagles of Death Metal. Thinking of exploring some more classic rock and funk sounds in my future listening

Movies: sci-fi and action - pretty mainstream there - but also don't mind a good thriller, be it political or horror. Don't like the blood and guts horror though, makes me queasy. Prefer ones that mess with your head and perceptions.

Current plans: try and get a new job because I'm not happy with the one I have, become more social/outgoing because I feel isolated at present, and may move out of my current share house because the leaseholder is an aspie too and the other two i rarely see. not real lot of social interaction going on here, which is what i crave.

What I'm Seeking: someone 'different', as in different to me or has a unique, funny outlook on life. Someone who understands my situation and that I can make feel happy and loved. I believe that real love has no racial, political, religious or geographic boundaries

If you're interested, curious, and not repeat-erasing your Temporary Internet Files folder in fear/horror , please feel free to PM. Cheers

~_~

HI!
i are cait :3

im 20, live in michigan..

i work at walmart

and i am VERY strange :3

also im NERDY YAYYY~


sometimes im really hyper and happy and witty and funny and everyone loves me (Cuz i lead the top guild in this mmo i play, and #8 poster on their forums)

But i can also hold deep, mind blowing serious conversations....


:3

im into STUFF like.......

Anime, Video games, randomness, deep topics, CLEANING, MMOs, web design, Graphic design, dinosaurs, sparkly things, turtles, KITTENS, affection, drawing, painting, art, computers, im also asexual D: I love long hair (even on guys) and glasses. they make everything better <3

im not into stuff such as..
religion, drugs, alcohol, random secks, pr0n, pain, mindgames, illogical things, social norms + expectations, tattoos, piercings.. MATH >_>

ahhh i duno what else atm, im tired.

i have work tomarrow and its 3am.. lolol

i work at walmart, btw. I used to fold towels, but now i cut fabric. and ORGANIZE STUFF ON THE SHELVES O_O

OMG I LOVE IT SO BAD, lol.

But i dont like how i get neglected + abused :/ but still its money so im not complaining too much :3


annyway, i have like 9999 guys who are obsessed with me, but im VERY picky on who im friends with much less date :/ (personality wise) (looks wise means NOTHING. literally. you could have a mutated arm and 1 eye and id still like you the same if you had an amazing personality :3 looks are simply an added bonus, not neccisary, but nice) (and btw, nice looks to me = longish hair + glasses + general happy disposition)

and theres 1 guy out of that 9999 who looks promising atm, so if you're interested, sooner is better than later! :X