moknin wrote:
Yes, not in a good way though. Long story cut short, I posted a trend about that girl long ago.
how did I lost my best friend/ dream girlHalf a year have passed. Now I viewed her as a slut, a parasite for using me as an emotional dump site while sleeping with other guys. I deleted her number and unfriended her on facebook, but sometime I did miss her - in a twisted mixture of love/ hate of course.
To be honest that is normal and healthy.
If I have advice it is this - remove the cliches let go and move on. Those things come in time not when others say they do.
Second, time heals all wounds. Yes and no but it brings new perspectives.
I miss S a lot a good friendship wasted but I remember what he did to me that was mean. In time I will just put it down to experience.
Believe me even when you get a new person or your life partner you still do not forget the good and bad times, the love and hate. Anyone who subscribes to the view you have to 100% get rid of someone out of your life - does not work that way. That does not mean you see them or take up with them again. Rather, they are a part of our history so unless someone invents a pill to erase memories forever, we can have better relationships with others, we never get rid of what was; rather, we learn to accept it happens and live in the now with a better person.