How not to come across as creepy.

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09 Apr 2011, 3:44 pm

I give up. Exhumed, hold on to your bizarre naivety and mention a girl's "boobies" all you want at parties and events. I just hope for your sake she is not drinking red wine, as the stain will not come out.


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09 Apr 2011, 3:49 pm

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Boo, did you come up with a algorithm attached to a script that will do mass calculations, much like the Watson computer for the specific purpose of sending back a funny response? Because if you have, Mr. Data might be interested in purchasing it from you.


I think you'll have to make him an offer on his brain :lol:


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09 Apr 2011, 3:50 pm

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I want a serious answer.


Of what a quietly confident person looks like? What? You want a reenactment, a walk, a talk, a movement of the wrist. Adjustment of the glasses, a shred of evidence to support a naively narrow field of thought? Your question needs to be specific, a picture of batman is all your question demands.


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I think you'll have to make him an offer on his brain :lol:


A kidney would be worth more.



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09 Apr 2011, 4:01 pm

Nim wrote:
Biokinetica wrote:
I want a serious answer.


Of what a quietly confident person looks like? What? You want a reenactment, a walk, a talk, a movement of the wrist. Adjustment of the glasses, a shred of evidence to support a naively narrow field of thought? Your question needs to be specific, a picture of batman is all your question demands.

Batman is not a person, so that can't be demanded at all. Besides, one would have to explain why the fictional construct is "quietly confident" in the first place in order to justify producing a picture of him as a response. Not in the mood for your BS today.

I wanted a description of the demeanor of a "quietly confident" person.



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09 Apr 2011, 4:16 pm

Was the BS meant for boo? lol.

You can't see confidence, you be confidence.. you emote it, you breathe it, you sweat it out your pores. Technically, quiet confidence is invisible. My last girlfriend actually started coming after me quite irrationally. But it was because I was walking and moving, wouldn't smile or really look her way - but she was demanding attention and there I was yawning at her. She was irritated, she was flabbergasted. She told me later she was saying in her head "I'm f'in cute, who the hell does he think he is not paying attention to me.". But faking that is peculiar to do if thats what your aiming for. If your oblivious you can be confident without even trying. If you walk with confidence other people will notice...

And if you swing into an area on a batterang rope.. land in the middle of neo nazi clown terrorists, kick butt like chuck norris ... then say "your alright now" to the girl you just saved and walk away with a swagger... all without breaking a sweat...

You would be quietly confident. Batman knows he's bad ass, therefore he doesn't have to emote it. I have this problem with my opposite at work - even tho I don't have to say anything he goes crazy with anger because he sees me as obnoxiously confident and sees his own insecurities.... I don't even have to say a word, he just starts wanting to pull down his pants and pee on me.



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09 Apr 2011, 4:31 pm

I think just be confident, if you make mistakes forgive yourself and learn from them, try and relax around people, dont force anything. That is quiet confidence.


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09 Apr 2011, 4:40 pm

Exhumed wrote:
this is the truth, from personal experience.

That is an oxymoron.
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Just because most of you disagree with me doesn't mean I'm not more socially aware than most of you.

No, it just means you're persistent and arrogant in your obliviousness.
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to an NT who hasn't known me for very long I'm an outgoing, not socially awkward guy.

I hang out on several forums with mostly NT women.

I'mma poll them and see how they'd react to a strange man commenting on their breasts.

:D


BTW, just because NT's don't always tell you you're making a fool of yourself,
doesn't mean you aren't.


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09 Apr 2011, 5:38 pm

note to guys

ignore bethie

she is asexual, obviously anything "normal" that a guy does to attract a woman is "creepy" to her

as it was said earlier, always consider the source of the advice

an asexual woman has no business telling men how to act around women, if anyting she should be banned for giving such bad advice and preventing guys from succeeding with women

the op's advice is embarrassing, this thread really needs to be deleted



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09 Apr 2011, 6:21 pm

Nim wrote:
Boo, did you come up with a algorithm attached to a script that will do mass calculations, much like the Watson computer for the specific purpose of sending back a funny response? Because if you have, Mr. Data might be interested in purchasing it from you.



Oh, didn't you know? I am the evolved form of Data.



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09 Apr 2011, 6:23 pm

albertwesker wrote:
note to guys

ignore bethie

she is asexual, obviously anything "normal" that a guy does to attract a woman is "creepy" to her

as it was said earlier, always consider the source of the advice

an asexual woman has no business telling men how to act around women, if anyting she should be banned for giving such bad advice and preventing guys from succeeding with women

the op's advice is embarrassing, this thread really needs to be deleted


LOL! Never mind that every single woman who's commented on this thread has said what I've said,
and you, yourself are in the business of presuming to speak for all men and women everywhere.

Go back to trolling the other thread, Albert. :lol:


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09 Apr 2011, 6:34 pm

Bethie wrote:
albertwesker wrote:
note to guys

ignore bethie

she is asexual, obviously anything "normal" that a guy does to attract a woman is "creepy" to her

as it was said earlier, always consider the source of the advice

an asexual woman has no business telling men how to act around women, if anyting she should be banned for giving such bad advice and preventing guys from succeeding with women

the op's advice is embarrassing, this thread really needs to be deleted


LOL! Never mind that every single woman who's commented on this thread has said what I've said,
and you, yourself are in the business of presuming to speak for all men and women everywhere.

Go back to trolling the other thread, Albert. :lol:


and many guys here have said they have done the opposite of your crap advice, i'll always take the advice of successful men over (more than likely) bitter, lonely, and uptight women

women always say they want one thing, but then go for the opposite of what they said

actions speak louder than words,

and as a rare asexual girl why do you think you can speak for all the sexual women out there? you don't think that your way of thinking could possibly be different?

please :roll:



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09 Apr 2011, 6:45 pm

zen_mistress wrote:
I think just be confident, if you make mistakes forgive yourself and learn from them, try and relax around people, dont force anything. That is quiet confidence.

This is very simply said, but can be quite difficult to do. Picking one's self up after a fall can be very difficult.



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09 Apr 2011, 6:56 pm

albertwesker wrote:

and many guys here have said they have done the opposite of your crap advice, i'll always take the advice of successful men over (more than likely) bitter, lonely, and uptight women

women always say they want one thing, but then go for the opposite of what they said

actions speak louder than words,

and as a rare asexual girl why do you think you can speak for all the sexual women out there? you don't think that your way of thinking could possibly be different?

please :roll:


That's funny...it looked like most of the guys here espousing treating women like sex objects are noticeably single. :lol:

I never spoke for all women- unlike yourself. Making repeated bald declarations about the entirety of both sexes is your thing, not mine.


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09 Apr 2011, 7:10 pm

Bethie wrote:
albertwesker wrote:

and many guys here have said they have done the opposite of your crap advice, i'll always take the advice of successful men over (more than likely) bitter, lonely, and uptight women

women always say they want one thing, but then go for the opposite of what they said

actions speak louder than words,

and as a rare asexual girl why do you think you can speak for all the sexual women out there? you don't think that your way of thinking could possibly be different?

please :roll:


That's funny...it looked like most of the guys here espousing treating women like sex objects are noticeably single. :lol:

I never spoke for all women- unlike yourself. Making repeated bald declarations about the entirety of both sexes is your thing, not mine.


i bet they have had more success with the opposite sex than you

when you say "don't do this or that because it's creepy" you are speaking for all women and telling men how they should act to appease an asexual such as yourself

you are asexual, only speak for your kind and not for women that actually have a desire for male contact :roll:



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09 Apr 2011, 7:13 pm

albertwesker wrote:
i bet they have had more success with the opposite sex than you

when you say "don't do this or that because it's creepy" you are speaking for all women and telling men how they should act to appease an asexual such as yourself

you are asexual, only speak for your kind and not for women that actually have a desire for male contact :roll:


You have no idea what asexuality means, do you? :lol:

Every single woman who's contributed to this thread has said commenting on strange women's tits is absurd, and at least one guy (with a girlfriend) has agreed.

Guess they're all asexuals, too. 8)


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09 Apr 2011, 7:21 pm

Bethie wrote:
albertwesker wrote:
i bet they have had more success with the opposite sex than you

when you say "don't do this or that because it's creepy" you are speaking for all women and telling men how they should act to appease an asexual such as yourself

you are asexual, only speak for your kind and not for women that actually have a desire for male contact :roll:


You have no idea what asexuality means, do you? :lol:

Every single woman who's contributed to this thread has said commenting on strange women's tits is absurd.

Guess they're all asexuals, too. 8)


you're asexual and you're the one rambling on in this thread telling guys how to act, which makes you by far the most ridiculous of them all

i wouldn't be surprised if they were asexual, definitely uptight that's for sure

how would you like it if i made a thread telling women how to act around men? i don't think you would like it