Why do guys hate fat chicks?

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Would you date someone fatter than you?
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13 Jul 2010, 12:39 pm

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13 Jul 2010, 1:43 pm

I like love fat chicks.

They taste like adult chicken.



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13 Jul 2010, 1:45 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Im pretty sure most people don't enjoy excersising. I'm not exactly tiny but im not really overweight and it sucks.

Proper excersise is uncomfortable. It should be as its working your muscles. I put myself through this discomfort anyway, but I doubt many actually enjoy it.

Weight loss is 80% diet 20% excersise.

If you can't cut out your fav foods its unlikely you're ever going to lose anything until you get the balance right.


I heard a doctors saying that even it's much much much more than this , it's about 99% diet and 1% exercise.



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13 Jul 2010, 3:10 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Im pretty sure most people don't enjoy excersising. I'm not exactly tiny but im not really overweight and it sucks.

Proper excersise is uncomfortable. It should be as its working your muscles. I put myself through this discomfort anyway, but I doubt many actually enjoy it.

Weight loss is 80% diet 20% excersise.

If you can't cut out your fav foods its unlikely you're ever going to lose anything until you get the balance right.


I heard a doctors saying that even it's much much much more than this , it's about 99% diet and 1% exercise.



I think weight can be caused by things besides exercise & diet. My mom is very overweight & she eats healthy & she does quite a lot of housework so she gets plenty of exercise. I eat junk-food & fast-food all the time, sit around the house all day doing nothing & I'm only slightly overweight compared to her. My mom's tried diets & stuff & she still can not lose the weight. The rezone I'm overweight is cuz I don't care if I lose it. When I was working; I was skinny cuz I was doing stuff. Losing weight & staying thin is NOT as simple as it sounds. Also some people are supposed to be overweight; never trust a skinny chef


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13 Jul 2010, 3:20 pm

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I would date someone who is fatter than I am, but only because I'm almost a skeleton so any girl who isn't anorexic is probably fatter than me. Someone who weighs 250 lbs? Hell, no. I don't see what's with all these fat people complaining that they can't get a date. All you gotta do is change your diet and exercise more. It's not like you were born with cleft lip or something.

I have a feeling a lot of fat people don't enjoy exercising. They feel like they're exercising a lot because they go to the gym maybe twice a week. The problem is they exercise to lose weight, not for pleasure. You have to enjoy it, otherwise you won't have the motivation to do it. I take walks every day, run through the woods, and run up and down steep hills, because it feels good. I don't just make a half-@$$ed attempt at it like most half-hearted dieters probably do.

i bet you already recieved a good forum smack from others on here, but since this thread is already 10 pages long, i dont feel like looking through it all just to see. but i'll get to the point.

your post -- aimed toward someone with an obvious low self esteem, well that was a bit...uncalled for shall we say?

and about your logic in this...you talk as if people could dump half their weight in a fortnight, if it were really as simple as you say, why are there fat people?
another point, judging by your knowing that the reason people cant lose weight because they are focusing on losing weight, and im geussing you too can understand that focusing and centering your life around the very thing you're trying to get rid of, in anything at all, will make the problem worse -- i suppose you are knowledgeable enough to know that your metabolism drops considerably in respect to the amount of weight one gains.
bearing this in mind, when you consider that women already have a lower metabolism than men, is it any wonder why one such as the OP is finding it difficult to gain weight, as most people who are without this wonderfull logic mentioned above are? put simply, no it is not at all.

furthermore you mention that most half hearted dieters probably make a "half-@$$ed attempt" at losing weight.

as i said before, the OP is verrrrry cleary not in the mood for that insult. hide behind the excuse: "i didnt directly say that" all you want, you, at very least, implied it. again, not nice, what you said may have been in in the form of advice, and even if what you were really trying to get across was actualy helpfull, the way you said it wasnt needed.

anyway i'll get off my rather high, 50m tall horse and take off my monocle and pipe as to decrease my elitist level.


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13 Jul 2010, 3:25 pm

I have no problem with weight myself in a relationship as I don't judge a book by it's cover. However NT's are too worried with what their friends will think of them and so they act like as*holes to anybody who doesn't look or act like them.



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13 Jul 2010, 3:29 pm

I like both big and small girls, as long as they're shapely.



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13 Jul 2010, 4:21 pm

nick007 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Im pretty sure most people don't enjoy excersising. I'm not exactly tiny but im not really overweight and it sucks.

Proper excersise is uncomfortable. It should be as its working your muscles. I put myself through this discomfort anyway, but I doubt many actually enjoy it.

Weight loss is 80% diet 20% excersise.

If you can't cut out your fav foods its unlikely you're ever going to lose anything until you get the balance right.


I heard a doctors saying that even it's much much much more than this , it's about 99% diet and 1% exercise.



I think weight can be caused by things besides exercise & diet. My mom is very overweight & she eats healthy & she does quite a lot of housework so she gets plenty of exercise. I eat junk-food & fast-food all the time, sit around the house all day doing nothing & I'm only slightly overweight compared to her. My mom's tried diets & stuff & she still can not lose the weight. The rezone I'm overweight is cuz I don't care if I lose it. When I was working; I was skinny cuz I was doing stuff. Losing weight & staying thin is NOT as simple as it sounds. Also some people are supposed to be overweight; never trust a skinny chef


I was talking about the weight loss process....not how much weight can a person loses, of course that would be related to genetics and it differs greatly from one person to another.



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13 Jul 2010, 4:49 pm

Erisad wrote:
Okay, I talked to my mom about it (after I stopped crying, she always yells at me when I cry) and we're going to schedule an appointment with my doctor to see if I have some form of thyroid problem. I want to give up the anti-depressants (hell I'll be 21 soon, I can drink if I get depressed like everyone else) and we'll see where it goes. I'll start using the exercise bike in addition to my walk while my mom's at work. It'll be a better use of my time, daytime TV sucks anyway.
After the thyroid stuff, getting exercise is more about getting out to wander around and playing than about going to a gym. A little extra weight does not hurt and long as you are active.


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13 Jul 2010, 7:09 pm

Usually guys dismiss fat girls because the media tells them to. These are guys that don't think for themselves. Less often, its an honest preference.

I personally think big girls can be damn sexy. :D I place more importance on personality, of course, but I love cuddling and playfully wrestling with a bigger girl. The media's ideal woman is way too thin for my liking.



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13 Jul 2010, 8:15 pm

LordoftheMonkeys wrote:
I would date someone who is fatter than I am, but only because I'm almost a skeleton so any girl who isn't anorexic is probably fatter than me. Someone who weighs 250 lbs? Hell, no. I don't see what's with all these fat people complaining that they can't get a date. All you gotta do is change your diet and exercise more. It's not like you were born with cleft lip or something.

I have a feeling a lot of fat people don't enjoy exercising. They feel like they're exercising a lot because they go to the gym maybe twice a week. The problem is they exercise to lose weight, not for pleasure. You have to enjoy it, otherwise you won't have the motivation to do it. I take walks every day, run through the woods, and run up and down steep hills, because it feels good. I don't just make a half-@$$ed attempt at it like most half-hearted dieters probably do.


Ditto.



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13 Jul 2010, 9:29 pm

My current girlfriend is at least 240 lbs and she's 5'7" though, but she's only 17. To make things worse she used to be 140 lbs 2 years ago.

I have no problem dating girls larger then me, partially because I am a twig (I'm 5'7" but only 150lbs), and partially because I like the extra boobs/butt they have :)

Although, I guess I wouldn't want to date a girl who was like 400-500lbs...that is scary obese.

As I've told my girlfriend though, I think she is beautiful just the way she is. If she (keyword she) thinks she needs to loose weight, then I'll help her so she will feel better about herself.

EDIT: to me, and this might just be because of the AS, but I feel that the inside (personality) matters a lot more.



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13 Jul 2010, 10:12 pm

Military guys, including me, seem to like women with a healthy amount of weight on them. Check out the enlisted wives clubs:
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13 Jul 2010, 11:22 pm

Erisad wrote:
Look, I have been helping myself, all right? I have been eating more vegetables and grilled meats instead of starches and fried foods. All I'm saying is that I'm frustrated that the results aren't what I expected.


It takes a long time and a lot of effort to get any measurable results. Here's a few numbers you need to know to get a feel for what is required to meet your goals, and to estimate what you should expect: 1 pound of body mass ~ 3500 Calories. That means you need to burn 3500 Calories in excess of what you eat in order to lose 1 pound. I've estimated that running or walking 1 mile will burn about 100 Calories or somewhat more than that in excess of baseline metabolism. 1 hour of intense cardio work might burn 500 or more Calories, and I can burn about 800. If you want to burn 100 pounds, you will have to run 3000 miles or do at most 700 hours of cardio work. At 1 mile per day, it will take about 10 years. At 2 miles per day it will take 5 years, and so on.

Eating a surplus of 10 Calories per day (~a packet of 2 saltines or sesame sticks) will add 1 pound per year. That means, the addition of 50 pounds of excess weight between the ages of 20 and 70, amounts to the equivalent of a condiment packet per day. It's not true that fat people really get to enjoy their food significantly more than normal-weight people do.


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To you shallow guys- Get lost. You're the reason most girls are depressed or commit suicide. I hope you feel good about yourselves.


What do you mean by shallow? As Willard said, the acceptance and encouragement of diabetes and heart disease-inducing lifestyle behaviors in the form of a paraphilia may also be construed as shallow. If your dentist tells you to brush your teeth so they don't fall out, does that make him shallow?



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13 Jul 2010, 11:31 pm

I had found this scale at Bed Bath and Beyond that I really liked. It basically showed you how many calories you needed to eat to keep your current weight, so that way you knew that if you cut out some calories, you'd slowly lose weight.



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13 Jul 2010, 11:34 pm

Hehe, another thread hijacked for the purposes of this one, here.

And here is a link some might find handy, if like me they don't get all these weights and measures in relation to what people look like.


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