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16 Nov 2010, 2:46 pm

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Let's just stop beating around the bush. Just say what you all really want to say. That I'm a ugly, uneducated ret*d that's useless and has no future in anything. That I'm annoying and you wouldn't be friends with me if I was the last person on earth. That you wish I would delete this thread because you've grown tired me and now you know why people don't want to hang out or be friends with me. Just say that I should kill myself because there's nothing ahead for a useless bum like me.


I ain't gonna to say that.

Sure, by your and some other people's standards, you might be ugly. Haven't seen you for myself, so I have no idea. Uneducated? Sure, but education is only important in a system that I despise. ret*d? You're obviously not medically ret*d, and that's the only interpretation of the word I accept. Useless? Nobody is useless, some are just slightly more useful than others. No future? That depends on what you mean by that, and even then on whether you decide to do something or not.

Annoying? f**k yes, but only because you're so hardheaded. Wouldn't want to be friends? I've had worse friends, trust me. Delete the thread? No. Sure, it doesn't really have any purpose, but discussing is always nice.

Kill yourself? Hell no.


why? what do I have to live for?



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16 Nov 2010, 3:03 pm

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It's not fair, get over it.


No I will never get over it. I'm tired of people telling me this. I should be treated with as much respect and kindness as everyone else. It should be fair for everyone.


Everyone gets treated like crap, NO ONE has a life filled with just kindness and respect.



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16 Nov 2010, 3:04 pm

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hyperlexian wrote:
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It's not fair, get over it.


No I will never get over it. I'm tired of people telling me this. I should be treated with as much respect and kindness as everyone else. It should be fair for everyone.

based on the information you have provided on this thread, your friends have been treating you with a great deal of respect


By respect you mean making fun of me around people we rarely see? Making fun of how I dress and look? Calling me ugly a lot? Making fun of me because I don't get any girls? That's not respect.


Just so you know this is done between friends all the time:
For example my friends critizice my clothing most weekends by saying I cant just wear what everyone else is wearing, I critizice theirs by saying that the clothes they wear are just like those worn by most males around and that they have no personality whatsoever.

Another example my friends start talking about how Im unable to find a partner and according to them this is probably because of clothing/music I wear/hear isnt what is normally accepted.I tell them that they act like whats accepted and they still cant get a girl, therefore changing cyour behabiour doesnt mean getting a girlfriend.

In the end we laugh and we know that we are only joking and whenever one of us needs some help the others are going to help him(this has gone to the point of asking a stranger if she wanted to make out with another one of our friends, at that moment it was weird, but a few weeks afterwards that girl has become a part of our weird circle and apparently she enjoys being with us).


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16 Nov 2010, 3:24 pm

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Some of my old "friends" came by the house tonight. Bragging about how much money their making. And how they go to clubs and parties every other weekends. They also talked about the women that they go out with and f**k.


I know they only bought this stuff up just to make me mad and jealous. They're POS, they will get what's coming to them.

this is the only incident you mentioned in th thread, besides all "people" not accepting you, or "everyone" treating you like crap. this incident sounds like some friends coming over and talking to you about their lives. it sounds likethey did not do anything bad at all. but if they are so horrible, why did you socialize with them?

this makes no sense. are they friends or not?


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16 Nov 2010, 3:28 pm

actually - spongy - that is a good point. i tease my friends and they tease me too, and my husband says the same thing. for example, a lot of men in canada grow a mustache in november for fundraising, and my husband's coworkers jokingly tell him he looks like a paedophile! they are downright mean sometimes, but it helps them blow off steam.


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16 Nov 2010, 4:05 pm

I don't like being teased, but I've been known to tease others and poke fun at myself as well.



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16 Nov 2010, 4:57 pm

this guy clearly just wants the world to bend over back for him because he feels like he is nice so he deserves everything
despite criticizing people who consider him friends and being generally a douche to anyone here who wanted to help him
karma is a b***h my friend
just because you're nice to people doesn't mean the world will bend over back for you
things never drop into your lap, you have to at least try for them

if I was how I was 6 months ago, I'd have never done some of the great things I've done in...f**k the last week
I know you will refuse to listen and go on about how no one likes you, blah blah blah



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16 Nov 2010, 5:06 pm

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Some of my old "friends" came by the house tonight. Bragging about how much money their making. And how they go to clubs and parties every other weekends. They also talked about the women that they go out with and f**k.


I know they only bought this stuff up just to make me mad and jealous. They're POS, they will get what's coming to them.

this is the only incident you mentioned in th thread, besides all "people" not accepting you, or "everyone" treating you like crap. this incident sounds like some friends coming over and talking to you about their lives. it sounds likethey did not do anything bad at all. but if they are so horrible, why did you socialize with them?

this makes no sense. are they friends or not?


They are not friends, at least I don't view them that way. I used to hang out with them a few years back. From 2003 to 2008 (from age 13 to 18, I'm 20 now) The only reason I hung out with them is because they were the only people who tolerated me and actually allowed me to hang out with them.

Looking back on it they treated me worse than anyone. They pressured me into stuff I didn't want to do. (this is back during my "fit in" phase) They called me ugly nearly ever day and it wasn't in a playful way. It was very mean spirited I could tell. They made fun of my relatives, my house, they way I dressed, my hobbies. Come to think of it they are the main reason for most of my insecurities. We stop hanging out regularly in 2008.

They come around the house occasionally, which I hate, because it brings up really bad memories. I hate seeing them doing way better than I am in life, and they like to rub it in. I would tell them to f**k off and leave me alone once and for all but that would be really rude and I'm not like that. Also my sister likes them and like to chat with them when they come over for some reason.



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16 Nov 2010, 5:08 pm

yeah, though that's your side of the story

there's a really good song I like called both sides of the story, fits this pretty well



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16 Nov 2010, 5:09 pm

Don't let them in your house if you hate them.



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16 Nov 2010, 5:11 pm

MR20 , your question was already answered ages ago : NO , you don't stand a chance.

Now give up this thread and move on with your life.



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16 Nov 2010, 5:14 pm

Kilroy wrote:
this guy clearly just wants the world to bend over back for him because he feels like he is nice so he deserves everything
despite criticizing people who consider him friends and being generally a douche to anyone here who wanted to help him
karma is a b***h my friend
just because you're nice to people doesn't mean the world will bend over back for you
things never drop into your lap, you have to at least try for them

if I was how I was 6 months ago, I'd have never done some of the great things I've done in...f**k the last week
I know you will refuse to listen and go on about how no one likes you, blah blah blah


You are a troll. All you're doing is being mean to me like everyone else. BTW They weren't friends, they just used me for the stuff I had. Karma is a b***h, because the people that have treated me wrong will get what's coming to them.



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16 Nov 2010, 5:18 pm

I'm just telling you what you want to hear

and btw, I don't think trolls tend to have over 9000 posts...really dedicated troll...
I tried to give you advice, you spat in my face, so I'll give you what you want

f**k you!
you are an idiot, and annoy the s**t out of me, and everyone here

there, better?



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16 Nov 2010, 5:27 pm

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I'm just telling you what you want to hear

and btw, I don't think trolls tend to have over 9000 posts...really dedicated troll...
I tried to give you advice, you spat in my face, so I'll give you what you want

f**k you!
you are an idiot, and annoy the sh** out of me, and everyone here

there, better?


Yeah that's what everyone wants to say if they're around me for an extended period of time.



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16 Nov 2010, 5:27 pm

you brought it on yourself



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16 Nov 2010, 6:53 pm

MR20 wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
this guy clearly just wants the world to bend over back for him because he feels like he is nice so he deserves everything
despite criticizing people who consider him friends and being generally a douche to anyone here who wanted to help him
karma is a b***h my friend
just because you're nice to people doesn't mean the world will bend over back for you
things never drop into your lap, you have to at least try for them

if I was how I was 6 months ago, I'd have never done some of the great things I've done in...f**k the last week
I know you will refuse to listen and go on about how no one likes you, blah blah blah


You are a troll. All you're doing is being mean to me like everyone else. BTW They weren't friends, they just used me for the stuff I had. Karma is a b***h, because the people that have treated me wrong will get what's coming to them.

No, you're the one with major issues my friend. While your acquaintances will be happy with themselves and will have people enjoying their companionship, you're just gonna be a lazy, lonely loser(there, I said it).

God, some people on this forum are just plain HOPELESS.