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06 Dec 2010, 10:22 am

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he makes me breakfast and tea in bed


awwh; i love having tea in bed. :heart:



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06 Dec 2010, 11:18 am

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This is why my boyfriend is awesome:

*he went out especially to get me a carton of chocolate ice-cream just because I was PMSing and having chocolate cravings
*he makes me breakfast and tea in bed
*he woke me up once when he come home from college and gave me a sunflower (my favourite flower) and a toy school bus (I love American school buses) just because he happened to see one in a shop and it made him think of me
*he gives me back rubs when I'm achy
*he was there for me at my most f****-up
*he let me have his band shirt of a band we both really love

and so forth.


I wish I had a special someone to do all that to... (except maybe the sunflower thing, im not big on flowers in general)



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06 Dec 2010, 11:30 am

You will find someone :)


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06 Dec 2010, 12:04 pm

I wish...

I haven't been able to start any real relationships (only one that pretty much self-destructed on the launch pad), and I'm only getting older, with less to show for it.



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06 Dec 2010, 12:10 pm

This is my first real relationship and I'm 21.

You shouldn't loose hope, things do change. This time last year, I was suicidal.


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06 Dec 2010, 12:11 pm

You're only 22, you have lots and lots of time yet.



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06 Dec 2010, 1:02 pm

I'm 25 and I feel my time may be up soon once I graduate from college in 6 months. I'm not blaming women for my issues, I'm just a f*ckup when it comes to interacting with women or I'm too afraid to approach them because I have no confidence or self-esteem. I need professional help :(



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06 Dec 2010, 10:03 pm

I'm 25 and I've felt the best about my situation with women in years. Granted there hasn't been much success so far, but making baby steps.



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06 Dec 2010, 10:04 pm

It only takes one good relationship for things to turn around.



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06 Dec 2010, 11:41 pm

emlion wrote:
It only takes one good relationship for things to turn around.


I just wish i knew if a good relationship would ever come around for me...



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07 Dec 2010, 5:43 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
emlion wrote:
It only takes one good relationship for things to turn around.


I just wish i knew if a good relationship would ever come around for me...


A postitive outlook goes a long, long way.



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09 Dec 2010, 1:30 am

nthach wrote:
I'm too afraid to approach them because I have no confidence or self-esteem.


Yeah because that totally kills your chances. A lot of girls I've been with were attracted to me back when I didn't have confidence and all that s**t when I was making up usernames like beinsinglesux and hating my entire life. If anything the past 2 years of me have been less attractive to the average woman. Women dig pity parties, pity parties mean a sensitive guy that won't hurt them. Pity parties don't know anything so they'll shut up and do whatever the b***h wants.


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09 Dec 2010, 10:49 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
I wish...

I haven't been able to start any real relationships (only one that pretty much self-destructed on the launch pad), and I'm only getting older, with less to show for it.


I wouldn't worry about it. It's not a race. :?



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11 Dec 2010, 12:53 pm

Pistonhead wrote:
nthach wrote:
I'm too afraid to approach them because I have no confidence or self-esteem.


Yeah because that totally kills your chances. A lot of girls I've been with were attracted to me back when I didn't have confidence and all that sh** when I was making up usernames like beinsinglesux and hating my entire life. If anything the past 2 years of me have been less attractive to the average woman. Women dig pity parties, pity parties mean a sensitive guy that won't hurt them. Pity parties don't know anything so they'll shut up and do whatever the b***h wants.


I think you could be a sensitive guy that won't hurt a woman without having the pity party.



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11 Dec 2010, 12:58 pm

Quartz11 wrote:
Pistonhead wrote:
nthach wrote:
I'm too afraid to approach them because I have no confidence or self-esteem.


Yeah because that totally kills your chances. A lot of girls I've been with were attracted to me back when I didn't have confidence and all that sh** when I was making up usernames like beinsinglesux and hating my entire life. If anything the past 2 years of me have been less attractive to the average woman. Women dig pity parties, pity parties mean a sensitive guy that won't hurt them. Pity parties don't know anything so they'll shut up and do whatever the b***h wants.


I think you could be a sensitive guy that won't hurt a woman without having the pity party.

talking to me?



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11 Dec 2010, 12:59 pm

nthach wrote:
Quartz11 wrote:
Pistonhead wrote:
nthach wrote:
I'm too afraid to approach them because I have no confidence or self-esteem.


Yeah because that totally kills your chances. A lot of girls I've been with were attracted to me back when I didn't have confidence and all that sh** when I was making up usernames like beinsinglesux and hating my entire life. If anything the past 2 years of me have been less attractive to the average woman. Women dig pity parties, pity parties mean a sensitive guy that won't hurt them. Pity parties don't know anything so they'll shut up and do whatever the b***h wants.


I think you could be a sensitive guy that won't hurt a woman without having the pity party.

talking to me?


Pistonhead, though it might not be bad advice anyway.

Who enjoys listening to someone whine and b***h endlessly?