What is your ideal man/woman?

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24 Jun 2011, 3:14 am

My ideal pather is someone who can cheer me up, comfont me special when I am down, so I can just talk to, someone who is also passion about their career, good looking but doesn't have to be a model or anything, someone who likes art and likes tattoos.

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14 Jul 2011, 1:14 am

My ideal guy would....
1. be the same religion
2. love manga and animals
3. respect me
4. know my different expressions
5. and make me laugh (not the easiest thing to do)
and having ADHD would be a plus.
I know a guy like that, and had a crush on him. But the age difference was too much.

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14 Jul 2011, 3:29 am

Someone that would never tell me I'm so damaged I'm incapable of love.

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14 Jul 2011, 8:36 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Someone that would never tell me I'm so damaged I'm incapable of love.

I hope to God someone didn't actually say that to you.

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14 Jul 2011, 10:19 am

Bjork. :)

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14 Jul 2011, 11:27 am

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Bjork.

She's adorable. ^.^

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14 Jul 2011, 11:30 am

blueroses wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Someone that would never tell me I'm so damaged I'm incapable of love.

I hope to God someone didn't actually say that to you.

It was said to me. Among other things.

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14 Jul 2011, 11:38 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

blueroses wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Someone that would never tell me I'm so damaged I'm incapable of love.

I hope to God someone didn't actually say that to you.

It was said to me. Among other things.

*hugs* That's horrible.

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14 Jul 2011, 7:19 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

My ideal man:

Same spiritual beliefs
Taller than 6 foot
perfect teeth
Peronalities get along well
Lots of life experience
Intelligent
old soul

How would you determine whether someone has an 'old soul'. By referring to some made up criteria? I lol'd.

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14 Jul 2011, 7:24 pm

Erisad wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

blueroses wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Someone that would never tell me I'm so damaged I'm incapable of love.

I hope to God someone didn't actually say that to you.

It was said to me. Among other things.

*hugs* That's horrible.

I'm over it. The person that said it just has no idea what they're talking about. Not that that detail ever stopped them...

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14 Jul 2011, 7:40 pm

Good for you! I don't know that it's even humanly possible to reach that point, although I've wondered a few times if I'd gotten there myself.

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14 Jul 2011, 7:51 pm

blueroses wrote:

Good for you! I don't know that it's even humanly possible to reach that point, although I've wondered a few times if I'd gotten there myself.

I think it is, but I am nowhere near that point. I don't think I am personally capable of it.

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14 Jul 2011, 8:22 pm

someone who starts conversation 'cuz I'm too shy :lol:

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18 Jul 2011, 3:22 am

hale_bopp wrote:

Tim_Tex wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Tim_Tex wrote:

I found my ideal woman a few years ago, and she rejected me because according to her, I "couldn't communicate", all because I asked for advice--one time--regarding taking things to the next level. How does asking for advice constitute an ability to communicate?

You really need to get over that. It was years ago. Have you spoken to a councillor?

Yes I have, but I can't get her out of my head. And the whole "not communicating" thing was based on things she assumed about me. And while I occasionally struggle with certain things, I have improved since then, but she thought any improvement was an attempt to intentionally deceive her.

I did everything I felt was right in trying to keep things going, I was assertive, I told her how I really felt, but it didn't work. I gave up my dreams of starting a family for her (she didn't want kids and I do).

Have you ever crushed on anyone else since then? You need to change your thinking to think that she wasn't perfect for you, despite the fact you keep telling yourself she was. That's the problem here. Have you tried hypnosis?

What she expects in a relationship:

The guy never asks for advice
The guy never needs emotional support
There can never be burdens, inconveniences, change, or uncertainty
Everything must be predictable and controllable

She thinks anyone who doesn't meet the rules is weak, can't communicate, unmotivated, and possibly unstable. And if you don't meet the rules from the beginning, and later improve yourself, then you are trying to purposely deceive her.

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18 Jul 2011, 4:49 am

blitzkrieg wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

My ideal man:

Same spiritual beliefs
Taller than 6 foot
perfect teeth
Peronalities get along well
Lots of life experience
Intelligent
old soul

How would you determine whether someone has an 'old soul'. By referring to some made up criteria? I lol'd.

I like the term old soul. There are definitely some people in the world who have an air about them of having been here before. Surely you've met people like that? Particularly wise, or caring, or empathetic for example?
No need to lol at other people's choices imo.

My ideal man/woman would also have an old soul.

But a middle aged soul is fine too.

In fact youthful souls have their appeal also.

Just as long as they don't mind me watching Buffy/Star Trek/zombie flicks, and they like cats. Too much to ask?

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18 Jul 2011, 6:23 am

Henbane wrote:

and they like cats

why must you hurt me this way

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