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12 Jun 2012, 5:42 am

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Yet, like all guys, they still have dicks and need to f**k, hence why my thread can be useful to them.


Why should my needs matter in the least to the rest of the world? Why do creatures like me deserve to have our needs met?

if thats how you view yourself fine, by all means go into your corner of self pity. But dont drag everyone else with you when only you have set those walls for yourself. Misery loves company.


This isn't self-pity; it's violent self-loathing.



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12 Jun 2012, 5:43 am

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No, you're so wrong its not even funny. you're so wrong i dont even know if i should bother fixing it or just keep laughing. Ive met 1 confirmed aspie in my life. Ive lived with her for months now. WITH social retardation she is still a 9-10 in most peoples books. Yes she does have the advantage of being a very pretty woman. but your scaling is driven not by what is realistic but rather your own negative views. Considering that as i said scaling varies on many things including the person doing the scaling. Social interactions do count toward the scale as its a scale of value. Value meaning socio-economic value of a person.


The rules work VERY differently for girls than for guys. A girl can easily be a 9-10 no matter what her social acuity is. And I'm pretty sure that this thread is actually about guys, since (for the same reasons) girls - especially "9-10" girls - don't actually NEED any of this advice.

theres plenty of girls that arent 9-10. they can have the looks of a 10 but be impossible to stand due to being stuck up and could lack intelligence and other things dropping their scores. Im quite sure they could use some help to overcome those difficulties. The only problem here are people like you that only bring negative views onto everyone and arguments for the sake of arguing. I think PPR is more suited for you.



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12 Jun 2012, 5:48 am

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No, you're so wrong its not even funny. you're so wrong i dont even know if i should bother fixing it or just keep laughing. Ive met 1 confirmed aspie in my life. Ive lived with her for months now. WITH social retardation she is still a 9-10 in most peoples books. Yes she does have the advantage of being a very pretty woman. but your scaling is driven not by what is realistic but rather your own negative views. Considering that as i said scaling varies on many things including the person doing the scaling. Social interactions do count toward the scale as its a scale of value. Value meaning socio-economic value of a person.


The rules work VERY differently for girls than for guys. A girl can easily be a 9-10 no matter what her social acuity is. And I'm pretty sure that this thread is actually about guys, since (for the same reasons) girls - especially "9-10" girls - don't actually NEED any of this advice.

theres plenty of girls that arent 9-10. they can have the looks of a 10 but be impossible to stand due to being stuck up and could lack intelligence and other things dropping their scores. Im quite sure they could use some help to overcome those difficulties. The only problem here are people like you that only bring negative views onto everyone and arguments for the sake of arguing. I think PPR is more suited for you.


The thing is, the negativity actually needs to be addressed before anything else is, because the fundamental problem here is that our culture doesn't give two **** what people who don't "fit in" want. And as much as people like you go on about trying to "fix that" or "make it better", and as much as you go on about how some people could "use some help to overcome those difficulties", I call BS. No one "helps" people unless they're getting something out of it, so what are you selling?



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12 Jun 2012, 5:49 am

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Yet, like all guys, they still have dicks and need to f**k, hence why my thread can be useful to them.


Partnered sex is not a need, you can, and many people (even people with penises, *le gasp* ik) do, live without it
Partnered sex is not a right, it's a privilege individuals grant one another.

Guys (all guys, or just the ones with penises? or people of all genders who happen to have penises? do trans*/intersex people count?) don't have any more claim to 'needing (wanting) sex' then whoever it is you are excluding with your definition of guy.
People who want sex, want sex.
What gender and/or what genitalia a person has does not dictate whether or not they want sex or make that want any more valid.


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12 Jun 2012, 5:50 am

ialdabaoth wrote:
MXH wrote:
ialdabaoth wrote:
MXH wrote:
No, you're so wrong its not even funny. you're so wrong i dont even know if i should bother fixing it or just keep laughing. Ive met 1 confirmed aspie in my life. Ive lived with her for months now. WITH social retardation she is still a 9-10 in most peoples books. Yes she does have the advantage of being a very pretty woman. but your scaling is driven not by what is realistic but rather your own negative views. Considering that as i said scaling varies on many things including the person doing the scaling. Social interactions do count toward the scale as its a scale of value. Value meaning socio-economic value of a person.


The rules work VERY differently for girls than for guys. A girl can easily be a 9-10 no matter what her social acuity is. And I'm pretty sure that this thread is actually about guys, since (for the same reasons) girls - especially "9-10" girls - don't actually NEED any of this advice.

theres plenty of girls that arent 9-10. they can have the looks of a 10 but be impossible to stand due to being stuck up and could lack intelligence and other things dropping their scores. Im quite sure they could use some help to overcome those difficulties. The only problem here are people like you that only bring negative views onto everyone and arguments for the sake of arguing. I think PPR is more suited for you.


The thing is, the negativity actually needs to be addressed before anything else is, because the fundamental problem here is that our culture doesn't give two **** what people who don't "fit in" want. And as much as people like you go on about trying to "fix that" or "make it better", and as much as you go on about how some people could "use some help to overcome those difficulties", I call BS. No one "helps" people unless they're getting something out of it, so what are you selling?


what im selling is hopes that you do fix your s**t and then i dont have to see you b***h and moan so much and s**t on everyones table



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12 Jun 2012, 5:54 am

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what im selling is hopes that you do fix your sh** and then i dont have to see you b***h and moan so much and sh** on everyones table


It's a time-honored tradition.

My first boss taught me an important lesson about life. I quote:

"If you're invited to a banquet, you eat everything that you can fit in your mouth. And when you're done, sh** on the plate."

If you treat life as a negative-sum game, you may lose, but everyone else loses WORSE, and FASTER.

Chicks dig that.



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12 Jun 2012, 6:01 am

ialdabaoth wrote:
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what im selling is hopes that you do fix your sh** and then i dont have to see you b***h and moan so much and sh** on everyones table


It's a time-honored tradition.

My first boss taught me an important lesson about life. I quote:

"If you're invited to a banquet, you eat everything that you can fit in your mouth. And when you're done, sh** on the plate."

If you treat life as a negative-sum game, you may lose, but everyone else loses WORSE, and FASTER.

Chicks dig that.

im sure they do. why dont you keep it as your dirty little secret



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12 Jun 2012, 6:04 am

MXH wrote:
ialdabaoth wrote:
MXH wrote:
what im selling is hopes that you do fix your sh** and then i dont have to see you b***h and moan so much and sh** on everyones table


It's a time-honored tradition.

My first boss taught me an important lesson about life. I quote:

"If you're invited to a banquet, you eat everything that you can fit in your mouth. And when you're done, sh** on the plate."

If you treat life as a negative-sum game, you may lose, but everyone else loses WORSE, and FASTER.

Chicks dig that.

im sure they do. why dont you keep it as your dirty little secret


I dunno, I thought this was the thread where we posted online behavioral advice for picking up chicks? I know it was originally about okcupid but it seems to have evolved past that.



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12 Jun 2012, 6:12 am

ialdabaoth wrote:
MXH wrote:
ialdabaoth wrote:
MXH wrote:
what im selling is hopes that you do fix your sh** and then i dont have to see you b***h and moan so much and sh** on everyones table


It's a time-honored tradition.

My first boss taught me an important lesson about life. I quote:

"If you're invited to a banquet, you eat everything that you can fit in your mouth. And when you're done, sh** on the plate."

If you treat life as a negative-sum game, you may lose, but everyone else loses WORSE, and FASTER.

Chicks dig that.

im sure they do. why dont you keep it as your dirty little secret


I dunno, I thought this was the thread where we posted online behavioral advice for picking up chicks? I know it was originally about okcupid but it seems to have evolved past that.


So be negative and tell everyone to f**k off makes women come to you? thats some badass reverse psychology s**t. Not even PUAs can come up with something that sinister



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12 Jun 2012, 6:15 am

ialdabaoth wrote:
MXH wrote:
what im selling is hopes that you do fix your sh** and then i dont have to see you b***h and moan so much and sh** on everyones table


It's a time-honored tradition.

My first boss taught me an important lesson about life. I quote:

"If you're invited to a banquet, you eat everything that you can fit in your mouth. And when you're done, sh** on the plate."

If you treat life as a negative-sum game, you may lose, but everyone else loses WORSE, and FASTER.

Chicks dig that.


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12 Jun 2012, 10:11 am

.. and why is it on a plate?



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12 Jun 2012, 11:02 am

and this s**t should be stickied.

Spooooonggyyy.



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12 Jun 2012, 12:22 pm

MXH wrote:
ialdabaoth wrote:
MXH wrote:
ialdabaoth wrote:
MXH wrote:
what im selling is hopes that you do fix your sh** and then i dont have to see you b***h and moan so much and sh** on everyones table


It's a time-honored tradition.

My first boss taught me an important lesson about life. I quote:

"If you're invited to a banquet, you eat everything that you can fit in your mouth. And when you're done, sh** on the plate."

If you treat life as a negative-sum game, you may lose, but everyone else loses WORSE, and FASTER.

Chicks dig that.

im sure they do. why dont you keep it as your dirty little secret


I dunno, I thought this was the thread where we posted online behavioral advice for picking up chicks? I know it was originally about okcupid but it seems to have evolved past that.


So be negative and tell everyone to f**k off makes women come to you? thats some badass reverse psychology sh**. Not even PUAs can come up with something that sinister

Actually Ive seen some PUAs saying that.
Something about how when you stop caring about sh*t and you are indiferent to women they are interested in you because you behave differently from most males... dont ask much about the book I stopped reading as soon as I was done with that paragraph and it was just the introduction.

Boo someone else needs to ask for it to be stickied. I dont mind stickying it but I cant do that based just on OPs suggestion



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12 Jun 2012, 2:21 pm

spongy wrote:
MXH wrote:
ialdabaoth wrote:
MXH wrote:
ialdabaoth wrote:
MXH wrote:
what im selling is hopes that you do fix your sh** and then i dont have to see you b***h and moan so much and sh** on everyones table


It's a time-honored tradition.

My first boss taught me an important lesson about life. I quote:

"If you're invited to a banquet, you eat everything that you can fit in your mouth. And when you're done, sh** on the plate."

If you treat life as a negative-sum game, you may lose, but everyone else loses WORSE, and FASTER.

Chicks dig that.

im sure they do. why dont you keep it as your dirty little secret


I dunno, I thought this was the thread where we posted online behavioral advice for picking up chicks? I know it was originally about okcupid but it seems to have evolved past that.


So be negative and tell everyone to f**k off makes women come to you? thats some badass reverse psychology sh**. Not even PUAs can come up with something that sinister

Actually Ive seen some PUAs saying that.
Something about how when you stop caring about sh*t and you are indiferent to women they are interested in you because you behave differently from most males... dont ask much about the book I stopped reading as soon as I was done with that paragraph and it was just the introduction.

Boo someone else needs to ask for it to be stickied. I dont mind stickying it but I cant do that based just on OPs suggestion


but there are already few who did.


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12 Jun 2012, 2:24 pm

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
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Yet, like all guys, they still have dicks and need to f**k, hence why my thread can be useful to them.


Partnered sex is not a need, you can, and many people (even people with penises, *le gasp* ik) do, live without it
Partnered sex is not a right, it's a privilege individuals grant one another.

Guys (all guys, or just the ones with penises? or people of all genders who happen to have penises? do trans*/intersex people count?) don't have any more claim to 'needing (wanting) sex' then whoever it is you are excluding with your definition of guy.
People who want sex, want sex.
What gender and/or what genitalia a person has does not dictate whether or not they want sex or make that want any more valid.


You're reading too much into my post.

I used the word 'need', i didn't claim it's a right. And didn't claim it's more valid for one gender more than other.

and the post was an attempt to make the naggers go, it wasn't serious per se.

You turn everything into a drama and attempt to make the user (always a male in this case) looks sexist.



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12 Jun 2012, 3:00 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Yet, like all guys, they still have dicks and need to f**k, hence why my thread can be useful to them.


Partnered sex is not a need, you can, and many people (even people with penises, *le gasp* ik) do, live without it
Partnered sex is not a right, it's a privilege individuals grant one another.

Guys (all guys, or just the ones with penises? or people of all genders who happen to have penises? do trans*/intersex people count?) don't have any more claim to 'needing (wanting) sex' then whoever it is you are excluding with your definition of guy.
People who want sex, want sex.
What gender and/or what genitalia a person has does not dictate whether or not they want sex or make that want any more valid.


You're reading too much into my post.

I used the word 'need', i didn't claim it's a right. And didn't claim it's more valid for one gender more than other.

and the post was an attempt to make the naggers go, it wasn't serious per se.

You turn everything into a drama and attempt to make the user (always a male in this case) looks sexist.


I wasn't making any claims about you as a person. I only talked about the words/ideas (a courtesy that evidently doesn't get extended to me).
I'm sorry if I took your words literally when you didn't mean them that way. I still disagree with "guys have d**ks so they need to f**k" but since what you really meant was probably more along the lines of "guys with autism can desire relationships/sex just like guys without autism" (right?) I don't have a disagreement with you.


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