Males: do you consider yourself physically attractive?

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I get the same thing as NorwichAspie. "Oh, you're cute looking. Don't worry about it." or "You look young. Girls are just stupid." both from the mouths of females. But I can tell they're lying. I have Marfan syndrome, just recently found this out, and it explains why I'm so ugly in the first place. For years I've had an unexplained indent in my ribcage, a really long profile, prognathism (where your teeth don't come together like they should), and I don't have a chin either. So basically I am one disfigured young man.

I'm good looking at the best of times and ugly at the worst. Depends on whether I've spent at least five minutes preparing my head for public display.

Hmmm, well I know my body is as I exercise a lot. But I truly have no idea about my face :S

Just a reminder that this isnt the adult section

No, I'm not physically attractive, enough said.

No. I have no attractions at all!

No.

not really

I frequently tell myself I'm not and that has translated into low confidence. However, it has also given me the drive to improve my appearance as much as humanly possible. Things like nice hair, gleaming teeth and a healthy tan have become things I have attempted to give myself, with good results. I have found myself with a new-found semi-obsession with male grooming. I did get a few looks here and there before but now girls looking is more frequent and obvious.

Yeah if I bother to get a haircut.

Yep, Am vain about my body. Shame I don't really give a toss about Hair styles and clothes.

It's something that doesn't register, but I've been told, yes; if that makes any sense? Anyway, as a guy, simply looking physically good doesn't mean squat when it comes to relationships since things like body language, eye contact, confidence, being able to be the man who is "in charge" of the entire room or the "life of the party" are equally, if not more important.

This one for me is difficult because I've had opposite sex friends that have been very friendly towards me yet I don't actually know if they were really attracted to me or not. I've also had a couple of incidences where girls have been interested in me, yet due to our social differences things didn't go any further.

In reality, I think attractiveness is relative. Even if many people think you're unattractive, you can still have a good chance of finding that special someone you love.

it's hard to tell since women never really compliment men on their looks

You have to be joking, don't you?

Sometimes women would compliment me, when I walk past them. I would then feel attractive.