how many here, will never get married

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I hope that, within five years, the post I made on this thread will be proved wrong.

I am usually meeting older women where I go. I think all of the men my age have been married for years. I just started getting out in the world five years ago, but I'm afraid I'm already too late. I won't stop living, though. I like my life so much better now.

I'd be lucky to not be a virgin at 25. I don't have to worry about marriage for quite some time. Which honestly, is okay with me. Marriage scares me anyway, I don't want to rush into things.

Out of all my cousins on my mother's side, most of them were married by their mid twenties. Which to me, is super young. But then again, a lot of them grew up in rural areas where marriage and having children was seen as highly encouraged and everyone else was getting married young so that could have some influence. Not to mention, none of my cousins never struggled socially the way I have. At 22, I probably hold the record for longest virgin, certainly for longest time being single.

My plan is that, if i'm still a virgin after a certain time i'm going to lose it to a prostitute. Maybe 23, maybe 25, maybe 27. I'm not going to waste my 20s never having sex, that's not an option for me.

^^^ That's one of the things I'd change if I had my life to live over again.

Me. I can't even get someone to commit to a time to go for a coffee lol

Google play as BL games (;

i kind of like the idea of weddings as a celebration of a relationship, but all the BS that comes attached to being legally "officially" married sounds like too much work. plus, family would be annoying to deal with, and wearing rings bothers me..... i'd also have to be in an incredibly strong relationship to even consider publicly announcing a commitment to a partner because i like keeping my emotional dealings to myself. so, probably won't ever get married.

Another reason why I never want to get married is because I enjoy my life the way it is right now. I like being able to live alone & just stay home & do whatever I want to do. I like my freedom too much to make any sacrifices, and getting married & having a wife would be the end of all of my freedom. Marriage would just be way too stressful for me, and I could not deal with it. Having a girlfriend was enough trouble for me, and I am a lot happier being on my own.

Me. Marriage is BS. If a guy can't stay with me without a binding contract, it worth nothing.

I like the romance of it and taking the same name. I wouldn't want a big wedding just a small one with few people. Nothing to do with my loyalty the binding contract doesn't work anyways not anymore since the government doesn't use force to punish those who violate it

It's harder to get out of a marriage, way harder.

Not really you just file a divorce and as a woman you're likely get half his stuff unless he has proof you cheated. Though my point was marriage doesn't keep people loyal. Millions of married people cheat and cheat a lot. To some it's the thrill of cheating alone that makes them do it

There's also women who love the thrill of getting married men to cheat. They'll continually pursue and flirt with them to do so saying "all guys break the ones who take longer are the most fun."

The red pills keep coming...at least I know who will never try to get me to sign half my stuff over to.

Sly, that was my point too. Just because you marry someone it doesn't guarantee happiness till death do us apart.
I never understood women who want to play princesses for on nigh only. It costs a lot of money to get all the attention for one night.
Why not spend that money on an unofficial honeymoon, a vacation.
And if you like the romance of it, you can exchange rings, you can have a vow under the stars or something.

This "sexy robot" looks like something that would chase me in a horrormovie-like dream.

Divorce isn't actually that simple. I think you'll find divorced people will tell you that.