If you're 27 and never had a girlfriend, is it too late?

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Lab-rats is quite the stretch. One time, I was at this like, McDonald's, and there were a couple of very attractive girls (cousins) from Cambodia (one was actually tall) who were talking with each other at a table, and I approached and said: "Hey, mind if I join you (with my meal at your meal) ?" (I was speaking with a French-sounding accent at the time so that may have been another factor of the girls being as receptive as they were with me that evening)

Their response: "Umm (looking at each other then at me like they were a bit surprised), yeah (expression changing from that of looking confused to looking rather happy), sure, feel free to join us (they made room for me to sit)."

Also, keep in mind, I was quite the spotless businessman at the time, wearing my business-suit (and did I mention that I was always very spotlessly clean) ? I'm also going to tell you something else that I've noticed about girls (the ones in cities anyway), and it's that of the ones I've approached and talk to, nearly all of them always seem to ask me something along the lines of: "So what made you decide to come talk to me ?" (I answered back then that I was trying to be a bit more social than normal and thought that it would be a good idea to bother talking to people instead of just working ALL the time since I've been so busy working that it was like I never had time to talk to anybody but I thought that I should at least try to squeeze it into my busy schedule anyway)

Yes, I was working ALL the time, and the reason I ALWAYS had work available was because I was registered with multiple different employment-agencies, and if one agency or branch didn't have an assignment, I would just call another one, and ask them if they had any assignments available (amongst a bunch of other things that were happened in my life that forced me into a kind of survival-mode since I was living out of my car). Anyway, when the girls asked me that, considering that they seemed to like talking to me and having our conversations about life/work/school/career-plans/society/etc., the reason turned out to be largely because they actually WANT guys to approach them, and talk to them, but somehow cannot seem to figure out how to do it and so it was like I must have been the first and only guy in their lives to do so or at least it seemed like a rare occurrence (or I think more specifically was that I was probably a guy that they found attractive and they wanted to know how to get attractive guys like me to approach and talk to them like I did).

The taller girl was the prettier one, and I even got her to hug me just before we went our ways in the evening, and she said that she had she "'ve never done this before" (hugging guy like me) but she seemed happy (her cousin backed off when I offerred but she wasn't creeped out or anything just said with a smile: "No, no, I'm okay ! =)" and also, were I not so busy at that time, needing to get to sleep early in order to have energy for work the next day, I know for a fact that I could have also invited that very beautiful and attractive tall girl to come and hang out with me for the rest of the night, even so much as escorting and inviting her to stay with me in a hotel, and that we would have definitely ended up having sex and losing our virginities to one another, and quite possibly even continued into a relationship & marriage & family, but anyway, what is done was done and I simply missed out on yet another opportunity (out of MANY throughout my life) for having really great sex with extremely attractive girls !

I saw that MGTOW seems to come up a lot but I was looking for more video-footage of what actually happens when women are approached but we'll just have to start with this for now even though you cannot necessarily see for yourself how it would actually go live and in action...
[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9wog2rF7a48&fmt=18[/youtube

ljupco nastevski 6 months ago
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Fox McCloud 5 months ago:
Not true

Goddess Ofthesun 1 month ago: it's very true actually and I'm a girl. Money is to girls what looks are to men. It's not a nice truth, but it is the truth.


Fox McCloud 1 month ago:
hoe


Goddess Ofthesun 1 month ago:
Bum

^^I think that the guy is a slime ball, all my warning bells are ringing very loudly. I didn't watch his other videos but I saw that one of his popular videos is called "How To Have Sex With A Girl Without Any Chance Of Last Minute Resistance"

I agree with keeping you dignity and so on, but listening to creeps will get you nowhere. And any healthy relationship includes willingness to compromise on BOTH sides.

I started watching the video Boo, but the guy seriously creeps me out, how he sits there with the girls.., the girls look like they are nothing but dressed up dolls, just props for the creepy guy. And the girl next to him looks like she can be 16 at the most...

A woman you're trying to flirt with isn't going to call the cops on you if you try to kiss or hug her once and she rejects you. If she moves her head away, pushes you away from her, or says "no" or "stop it", then you take that as a hint that she is not interested and leave her be. She will call the cops if you continue trying to touch her after she's rejected you. That's when it becomes harassment.

My first real relationship was at age 29. I'm a bisexual woman, so I managed to fail dating TWICE as much, lots of first, second, and third dates that never turned into any sort of romantic relationship, although I did try sex without the romance (yuck). That first real relationship was with a woman who was introduced to me by a mutual friend. We were actually looking for roommates, and we went from being friends to lovers, and we've just celebrated twenty years together. It's never, ever too late, so try not to be bitter (or you will come off as angry). Remember that each woman had nothing to do with the other women who didn't work out, so treat them as a completely new situation. Women struggle to find someone too. I agree with the person who said to look for people with similar interests, like a club. A friend might help too, to introduce you to someone like mine did. My gal is pretty unusual, like me, although probably not on the Spectrum--maybe look for that woman who is a nonconformist. She might be looking for that guy who doesn't go along with the crowd.

My first real relationship was at age 29. I'm a bisexual woman, so I managed to fail dating TWICE as much, lots of first, second, and third dates that never turned into any sort of romantic relationship, although I did try sex without the romance (yuck). That first real relationship was with a woman who was introduced to me by a mutual friend. We were actually looking for roommates, and we went from being friends to lovers, and we've just celebrated twenty years together. It's never, ever too late, so try not to be bitter (or you will come off as angry). Remember that each woman had nothing to do with the other women who didn't work out, so treat them as a completely new situation. Women struggle to find someone too. I agree with the person who said to look for people with similar interests, like a club. A friend might help too, to introduce you to someone like mine did. My gal is pretty unusual, like me, although probably not on the Spectrum--maybe look for that woman who is a nonconformist. She might be looking for that guy who doesn't go along with the crowd.