The value of men

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Yes I believe what you said...

This is stereotyping. You have no idea what "a lot" of women think.


Not all women are on these sites.

I'm not saying you're a liar, I'm saying you're wrong.
I'm starting to get the idea that you like emotional pain.

Compatibility is not an option for guys? That's not good. Talk about dehumanizing. If men have to throw compatibility out the window, then women are being used for their sexuality.

I think Sly's into compatibility.

He just created an awkward phrase which made it seem that he is isn't into it.

so you speak on behafe of most women now?

sorry but when thousands possible millions and millions of women self post what they think its hard to not get a pretty good idea of what they think. go do some research.

no but between all the dating sites, craigslist, Facebook, tumbler and few other socials sites it does cover most women. its the tech age, most everyone is online now.

saying someone is wrong is the same as saying they are lying.
talk to boo or theres a woman I can direct you to who I've shown exampelse many examples of such women to .and that was all just from one day and one checking. this doesn't' include the hundreds and hundreds of women I've made their proflies invisible for that reason.

honest to fing god. I wish it wasn't true. but i get it, its far more easier for women to just assume a huge chunch of themale popluation is just losers and thats why women won't date them. I see it here a lot. its blame the guys blame the guys. women are innocent. reality is women aren't they hold on to old values that were made during the same time the whole women aren't equals thing. they worked hard to get rid of that and make women equal but they let the part where men have to provide for women stay. why? maybe because that serves them? just as women not workign and getting paid less served men? I really think people need to work for true equality which means how much a man makes shouldn't mean s**t. that you should treat men as equals not a pay check.

yeah those last parts should have been spaced out.

whats compatible to you? <--- question about your compatibility

and that's fine if that works for you, it doesn't work for me not to mention for guys its not even an option. <--- talking about one night stands or sex buddies. which is why the rest of the paragraph that you left out went on about fwb and sex buddies.

sorry for the miss understanding on that

also I don't think you are one of those women, nor do I think all women are that way, just a lot of them. I see it all over the place, in person, on social sites, on dating sites, and on here. I don't get how you and the other few women who are't like that can just ignore the majority and say we are wrong for not living in that dream world of yourse. this is not an insualt towards you or the few women. we can acknowldege most women are ___ without meaning you are ____.

a lot of women wear dresses. does that mean you wear a dress?

most doctors are men, doesn't mean all doctors are men. or all men are doctors.

if you don't go around saying you want a "real man" or listing the stuff other women do why do you get so insulated. why defend those women? I don't get it.

yes. though my compatibility is low I guess as I don't' care bout objects, money, or things.
I'm starting to hate that I don't. maybe it'd be happier to be superficial like most people are.

I'm saying neither of us speak for most women.

On-line, but not necessarily on dating sites.

No it isn't. That's your black and white thinking.

Don't know, haven't met him yet. At least I don't think I have.

I simply don't trust your sample of women. I don't think online dating sites are the sole indicator of women's dating strategies.
It bothers me because I think you are letting this belief jade you against women and I would feel bad if that happened.

LOL Classic battle of the sexes, each trying to deceive the other about "what they really want."**

Guys are "horndogs" and chicks are "golddiggers," whomever can be most subtle and smooth about it wins.

Aspies are not subtle or smooth, that's why you're all mad. Me too.




**Be aware of your own role, "self deception" is a big part of this.

well I'll keep to what I see most women in my area say. seems to have more relevance then what women frome other states or nation say.

yes and I said I don't just see that attitude on only dating sites. its all over.

so if someone says something that you say is untrue(ie wrong) the opposite of true is a lie. so if you say its wrong and I say its not then if you are right I am a liar. I don't think i'm wrong. also if you think I make it up then that again would be lying, though I dont' make it up.

you dont' have any traits that you find compatible? everyone seems to have a list of stuff they look for in a compatible mate.

so al the women on facebook, tumbler, instangam, all the women i've seen say it in person what about those? what about the women on this very site who say it?

I am starting to resent women yes but I hardly ever see any good ones. sad thing is all it would take is one woman who sees me as a good bf potitienal doesn't care about any of the male sterotypes. but after 11 years or so there yet to be any such woman. just tons and tons of women telling me how aweful I am for being born. I'm just a burden in the way of them finding that perfect guy.

so hard to not resent that. its just like how all the kids in pe would pick on me and how I didn't like them. my frist interaction with women, is two girls threatening to kick me in the balls if I didn't break the rules and get into trouble. I was 7. then through middle school and highscholl girls would make fun of me and pick on me. oh forgot in elementry there was a girl who was a friend of mine who said she liked liked me and wanted to meet after school, it was just a trap so everyoen could laugh at me. so any time after that when a girl said she liked me I ingored it. well only happen once, but her friends came and asked me if I'd want to go hang out with her while I was in a tree, and in highschool a girl asked me if I was ok(maybe she was showing interested) i just kep walking and went in ate alone . oh and in class one time a guy asked me if I'd date ____ but she was the girl who had picked on my all through middle school. I told him hell no. she'd made my life hell and fear women. oh i forgot the woman i had a crush on and my friend told everyone while i was in middle school. didn't even like another girl til 12th grade.

then there was the 4 recent women in the last 4 years.

wow I really have almost no reason to trust women, yet i keep doing it over and over. but i trust too much with anyone, atleat I had positive interactions with some men growing up. perhaps because I was raised by women.

hugs ann.

I always thought women were so nice and kind, i desperately hope some woman will show this to be true, but thats not what experience has taught me. us to think i would make a good boyfriend, heck the few women friends i had said I would, and some women who talked tome said it too. only ones too far away to do anything though. perhaps they were all just lying like other women told me.

Are you aware of how much you've twisted Sly's words around? If beggars can't be choosers why blame them for their choices? Their lack of choice doesn't indicate that they're using women as sex objects. I don't get how some women can say can accuse a virgin male of using women as sex objects. How could he have?

Haha you are right. The funny thing about these idealogical debates is that they don't prove which side is right, they only prove which side is better at debating.Self-deception is a fundamental part of human cognition. I try to avoid it but I think I might be double bluffing myself. When I have self-bias on both sides I don't know which one is the illusion.

Sly you say girls aren't kind to you but this one was. If you had stopped to talk to her who knows how far things might have gone between you two. I must confess I used to fall into the same trap. I couldn't tell if girls were interested in me or mocking me so I assumed they were all mocking me.

The opposite of true is false, not a lie. A lie is an intentional misrepresentation, wrong is a mistake.

Too true. but the value might given for men or women based on their situations.

I'm not interested in anybody's money, but my own. I'm also not one to glam myself up and sing, 'I'm So Sexy'.

maybe. its something I still think about today 11 years later. but there was a good probability she was just trying to make fun of me. I've found that people don't generally ask strangers that.