It is possible to simply not have what women want?

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02 Dec 2016, 8:01 pm

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That's the Feminist section of the website, and considering I consider any man or woman who identifies as a Feminist or MRA a turn off and dealbreaker 90% of the time, this does not apply to me. :P

Also, read the comments.

I love the comments.

NONE of them agree with that article. Not one of about 25-50.


I also found that picture on an antifeminist site. my point was they were both bias and ridiculous hence my sarcasm



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02 Dec 2016, 8:04 pm

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It's also funny how contradictory they are.

One minute they claim eating healthy and exercising is hard and only the most elite in motivation, willpower,etc. can do it.

The next they shame average bodied men of a healthy weight or skinny men or overweight men and that it's 'easy' and all it takes is 30 mins of exercise 3 days a week and 'you probably spend that much time watching tv anyway, if not more.'

So which is it?

If it's a difficult thing only about 10% of the population can do properly without giving up, why would you shame ANYONE who falls into that 90%?

If everyone can do it but they're all too lazy, why should anyone be impressed by your muscles if it means you simply had slightly more free time than everyone else?

In my experiences, it is extremely difficult, but it's not about superiority. Some people just have more free time, better genetics, no major injuries or better yet a healed injury but a metal plate in the body, etc.


This is actually very true some people are naturally skinny no matter how much they eat and some put on a few pounds from having more that 1 chicken breast so it isn't as easy as they make out

Tbh I think people are judgmental when looking at pics (like online dating) but once they meet people in real life they are more swayed by personality and mannerisms.



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02 Dec 2016, 11:50 pm

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So much of individualism! Wow.... 90% going for the most attractive ones and almost no one went for the obese ones, who would even guess that?

Humans are individuals! So individuals. :lol: This is the biggest joke really.


where did you get this info?

the jpeg says OKcupidfake


I believe the oringal image comes from one of OkCupid many studies. They use their data to study men/women and relationships. They have a blog of types where they post them and give hints on how to date. Like using hia, howdy instead of hi or hello.

https://blog.okcupid.com
Guess now now it replaced with this o.0
https://www.okcupid.com/deep-end



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02 Dec 2016, 11:53 pm

I don't get what's so wrong with saying hi or hello :scratch:



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03 Dec 2016, 1:09 am

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I don't get what's so wrong with saying hi or hello :scratch:

Everyone does it including spam bots. Saying his, howdy or something else sets you apart as different. I've been using hia.



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03 Dec 2016, 1:12 am

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I don't get what's so wrong with saying hi or hello :scratch:

Everyone does it including spam bots. Saying his, howdy or something else sets you apart as different. I've been using hia.

it's a brave new world, only i'm not so brave. :|



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03 Dec 2016, 1:55 am

Is it possible for some women to simply not have what men want?


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03 Dec 2016, 5:45 am

Alliekit wrote:
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So much of individualism! Wow.... 90% going for the most attractive ones and almost no one went for the obese ones, who would even guess that?

Humans are individuals! So individuals. :lol: This is the biggest joke really.


where did you get this info?

the jpeg says OKcupidfake


''Fake" refers to the fake profiles, those are all one person:

http://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction- ... xperiment/



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03 Dec 2016, 6:16 am

yeah, it's called being autistic.



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03 Dec 2016, 6:17 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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So much of individualism! Wow.... 90% going for the most attractive ones and almost no one went for the obese ones, who would even guess that?

Humans are individuals! So individuals. :lol: This is the biggest joke really.


where did you get this info?

the jpeg says OKcupidfake


''Fake" refers to the fake profiles, those are all one person:

http://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction- ... xperiment/


even if that's real, you're very naive if you think dating websites represent the real world.
start getting used to the fact that your autism is likely the ONLY reason you have no success with women.
fat and ugly guys are doing just fine, trust me.



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03 Dec 2016, 8:31 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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So much of individualism! Wow.... 90% going for the most attractive ones and almost no one went for the obese ones, who would even guess that?

Humans are individuals! So individuals. :lol: This is the biggest joke really.


where did you get this info?

the jpeg says OKcupidfake


''Fake" refers to the fake profiles, those are all one person:

http://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction- ... xperiment/


HowIs this guy's very poorly designed experiment any better than the survey I shared :roll:



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03 Dec 2016, 8:33 am

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That's the Feminist section of the website, and considering I consider any man or woman who identifies as a Feminist or MRA a turn off and dealbreaker 90% of the time, this does not apply to me. :P

Also, read the comments.

I love the comments.

NONE of them agree with that article. Not one of about 25-50.


And the other test is poorly designed and made by a random man so it's more reliable?



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03 Dec 2016, 8:54 am

Here is a scientific study that shows that what you right in your 'about me' section is nearly as important as photographs

http://dl.acm.org/citation.cfm?id=1357181

And another study that shows men are inherently more judgemental of apperance whereas women are more judgemental of personality trait's in online dating

https://www.aeaweb.org/articles?id=10.1 ... .100.1.130

And another supporting the abobe showing how men prefer phsyical features whereas women were attracted by mindfulness

http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/ar ... 6915001336



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05 Dec 2016, 5:01 am

Alliekit wrote:
Here is a scientific study that shows that what you right in your 'about me' section is nearly as important as photographs

http://dl.acm.org/citation.cfm?id=1357181

And another study that shows men are inherently more judgemental of apperance whereas women are more judgemental of personality trait's in online dating

https://www.aeaweb.org/articles?id=10.1 ... .100.1.130

And another supporting the abobe showing how men prefer phsyical features whereas women were attracted by mindfulness

http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/ar ... 6915001336

But no evidence whether the preferred features are similar or not?



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05 Dec 2016, 8:51 am

314pe wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
Here is a scientific study that shows that what you right in your 'about me' section is nearly as important as photographs

http://dl.acm.org/citation.cfm?id=1357181

And another study that shows men are inherently more judgemental of apperance whereas women are more judgemental of personality trait's in online dating

https://www.aeaweb.org/articles?id=10.1 ... .100.1.130

And another supporting the abobe showing how men prefer phsyical features whereas women were attracted by mindfulness

http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/ar ... 6915001336

But no evidence whether the preferred features are similar or not?


I'm sorry could you elaborate I'm a bit confused :)



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05 Dec 2016, 6:01 pm

He means do men and women have similar taste regarding what personal attributes they want?

What quite a few men in this thread may or may not believe is that women tend to care far more about income, job, education level, etc. Than many men do.

I haven't been able to find much except for a single study that says men are more willing to date someone who still lives at home than vice versa.
http://www.foxbusiness.com/features/201 ... te-me.html

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Men seem to be more forgiving of the living arrangements. Nearly 40% of women say they wouldn’t date someone who lived with their parents compared to just 18% of men. This was true across the board, despite age, the survey shows.