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24 Feb 2021, 2:48 am

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She is adorable, I didn't know you had a pet! and certainly not a dog. For the occasion:

I used to draw dogs excessively in art class, teacher kept telling me and stop but I wouldn't. Id integrate doggos in any theme.
Then id bag strays and bring them up to my apartment and sneak them past my parents into my room. Id always end up having to take them back though.

Oh, the she-wolf was meant to... nevermind.

Have you preserved any of your dog drawings?

So that's how I ended up with you. I was a stray that got bagged on the street.

Heh, is mouth biting something you expect us to practice...?

So, apparently fish can have headbanging autistic meltdowns. Live and learn.

You're the best. :wink: :heart:



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24 Feb 2021, 3:52 am

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Rexi wrote:
Nope, I.
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Besides, currently I am the wolf. Your virginity has officially become mine :heart:

How do you find all this stuff? You sweep me off my feet every time.

I'm quite turned on by the scent of a she-wolf nearby.
Look at her, isn't she cute?
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Image


So... I've been thinking for a while how to respond to you, and now I have figured it out.

Here's something that fits the emerging dynamic between the two of us...


Lyrics (original):
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'Master And Servant'

There's a new game we like to play, you see
A game with added reality
You treat me like a dog, get me down on my knees

We call it 'Master And Servant'
We call it 'Master And Servant'

It's a lot like life, this play between the sheets
With you on top and me underneath
Forget all about equality

Let's play 'Master And Servant'
Let's play 'Master And Servant'

It's a lot like life and that's what's appealing
If you despise that throwaway feeling
From disposable fun
Then this is the one

Domination's the name of the game
In bed or in life, they're both just the same
Except in one you're fulfilled at the end of the day

Let's play 'Master And Servant'
Let's play 'Master And Servant'

Come on, yeah
Come on, yeah
'Master And Servant'

It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (like life)

It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot ('Master And Servant')

It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (like life)

It's a lot like life and that's what's appealing (it's a lot like life)
If you despise that throwaway feeling (it's a lot like life)
From disposable fun
Then this is the one

Let's play 'Master And Servant'
Come on, 'Master And Servant'
Let's play 'Master And Servant'
Come on, 'Master And Servant'
Let's play 'Master And Servant'
Come on, 'Master And Servant'

Master, Master, Master
Master, Master, Master
Master, Master, Master

'Master And Servant'


I've been a longtime fan of Depeche Mode (through Ultra, don't care about the newer stuff) and have been descending deeper and deeper into the 'Mode over the years. Their lyrics are sincere and heartfelt, sometimes a little dark, in between some catchy melodies. They probably make up half of my listening these days (DM or 'Straits is usually what plays in my car). I practically live off the covers and remixes.

Some of their stuff is like the fabric of my soul, but that's an exploration for another day...

This is my favorite song by DM, I think it's either the ending or the soundtrack to a movie i liked.


Since we're both atheists here you go a song debate between religious and atheist, really neat

Notice how their voices intertwine at the last chorus, nice statement, right?


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24 Feb 2021, 4:38 am

Rexi wrote:
This is my favorite song by DM, I think it's either the ending or the soundtrack to a movie i liked.


Since we're both atheists here you go a song debate between religious and atheist, really neat

Notice how their voices intertwine at the last chorus, nice statement, right?


I do like Enjoy the Silence, it was the first song I liked from DM. I think it serves as a good accessible introduction, an appetizer. The rest I think is an acquired taste. I've been sinking in that quicksand for over a decade now.
This film?
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1650048/soundtrack

Fun hip-hop track. Pretty good. Yeah, that's pretty neat how they intertwine in the final chorus, nice catch, I missed it on the first listen.

This is said to be anti-religious:

Lyrics:
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Oh, the tears that you weep
For the poor tortured souls
Who fall at your feet
With their love begging bowls

All the clerks and the tailors
The sharks and the sailors
All good at their trades
But they'll always be failures

Alms for the poor
For the wretched disciples
And the love that they swore
With their hearts on the Bible

Beseeching the honor
To sit at your table
And feast on your holiness
As long as they're able

Love needs it's martyrs
Needs it's sacrifices
They live for your beauty
And pay for their vices

Love will be the death of
My lonely soul brothers
But their spirit shall live on in
The hearts of all lovers

Your holding court
With your lips and your smile
Your body's a halo
Their minds are on trial

Sure as Adam is Eve
Sure as Jonah turned whaler
They're crooked love thieves
And you are their jailer

Love needs it's martyrs
Needs it's sacrifices
They live for your beauty
And pay for their vices

Love will be the death
Of my lonely soul brothers
But their spirit shall live on
In the hearts of all others

Love will be the death
Of my lonely soul brothers
But their spirit shall live on
In the hearts of all others


See You is definitely a contender for the top spot but there are many others:

Lyrics:
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All I want to do is see you again
Is that too much to ask for?
I just want to see your sweet smile
Smile the way it was before
Well I'll try not to hold you
And I'll try not to kiss you

And I won't even touch you
All I want to do is see you
Don't you know that it's true

I remember the days when we'd walk through the woods
And sit on a bench for a while
I treasure the way we used to laugh and play
And look in each others eyes
You can keep me at a distance if you don't trust my resistance

But I swear I won't touch you
All I want to do is see you
Don't you know that it's true

Well I know five years is a long time
And that times change (oh that times change)
But I think that you will find
People are basically the same (basically the same)
If the water's still flowing, we can go for a swim
And do the things we used to do
And if I'm reluctant you can pull me in
And we can relive our youth
Oh but we'll stay friendly like sister and brother

Though I think I still love you
All I want to do is see you
Don't you know that it's true?


Here's an example of a good and proper DM cover (Ice Machine is one of my favorites from the very old stuff):

Lyrics:
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Running through my head secretly
The shout of the boys in the factory
I'll ring you on the telephone silently
Like blood, like wine in the darkroom scene
Darkroom scene

A letter once composed
Seven years long
And as tall as a tree
Written on the wall efficient
Efficiency

Resurrect, as a feeling, on my window,
Of a past reunion
Resurrect as a feeling on my window
Of a past reunion
Mission of a picture like the city and the air we breathe
The air we breathe
Air we breathe

She stood beside me once again
I knew her face
We met before in the street
Recalling all the children dancing at our feet
Their dancing feet
Dancing feet


If we're going to trip out on DM perhaps I should make a separate appreciation thread for that in the topical section, as well as a YouTube playlist.

DM appreciation thread (WIP)

YouTube playlist (WIP)



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24 Feb 2021, 6:06 am

Rexi wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I am a wolf in bed :P


- Kraftie to rdos: Back in the 70s, I did once long eye contact with a lovely lady in the subway, she dragged me to the abandoned dark tunnel and we had sex wildly!
- Rexi: Let’s be wolves then and let’s make strong wolf puppies like you! Woof! Woof!
- Boo: Please get a room you two.
- hurtloam: .... (browsing silently and awkwardly)
- Pepe: What about skunks?
- Boo: Pepe is supposed to be into cats, not wolves.
- Pepe: You are just a jealous blobfish :mrgreen:


Well, p*****s, actually. 8)

Literally inside 'em.


:heart:

Skunkii~ *Grabbs and rubs that soft tail, cuddles with*


[Pepe notices his tail is going bald due to all the grabbing and rubbing]
[Pepe rolls on his back to get a tummy rub instead]
[purrrr]



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24 Feb 2021, 11:06 am

Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I am a wolf in bed :P


- Kraftie to rdos: Back in the 70s, I did once long eye contact with a lovely lady in the subway, she dragged me to the abandoned dark tunnel and we had sex wildly!
- Rexi: Let’s be wolves then and let’s make strong wolf puppies like you! Woof! Woof!
- Boo: Please get a room you two.
- hurtloam: .... (browsing silently and awkwardly)
- Pepe: What about skunks?
- Boo: Pepe is supposed to be into cats, not wolves.
- Pepe: You are just a jealous blobfish :mrgreen:


Well, p*****s, actually. 8)

Literally inside 'em.


:heart:

Skunkii~ *Grabbs and rubs that soft tail, cuddles with*


[Pepe notices his tail is going bald due to all the grabbing and rubbing]
[Pepe rolls on his back to get a tummy rub instead]
[purrrr]

hey, this is not save your last hairs, it's save your last dance for me
*Petting Pepe's chest and abdomen to distract him, scratching his fur to tickle while dropping a special hair potion over his balding rat-like tail. The tail fluffs up instantly on contact with the potion.* Magic tricks for loyal skunks :heart:


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24 Feb 2021, 11:23 am

Uh, before this gets any more "steamy" can I just remind everyone that even in Love and Dating, WP is still a family-friendly site.
Also, the topic appears to have been abandoned in favor of... whatever this is.


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24 Feb 2021, 11:25 am

Dang ... just when this thread was getting interesting...

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24 Feb 2021, 8:01 pm

Cornflake wrote:
Uh, before this gets any more "steamy" can I just remind everyone that even in Love and Dating, WP is still a family-friendly site.
Also, the topic appears to have been abandoned in favor of... whatever this is.

Question... Are you having to wear rubber gloves to moderate our posts yet? A lot of the stuff here glows if you shine a UV light on it. :lol:

Yeah, I try to keep it PG-13.



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25 Feb 2021, 2:43 am

maybe the world would be better if it was part of the education system world-wide, that they made improving your social-skills just as important as math or history, hell, it mind-boggles me as to why the school system places more importance on the latter



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r00tb33r wrote:
Question... Are you having to wear rubber gloves to moderate our posts yet? A lot of the stuff here glows if you shine a UV light on it. :lol:
:lol: That, and a disinfected 10-foot pole.
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25 Feb 2021, 1:15 pm

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Cornflake wrote:
Uh, before this gets any more "steamy" can I just remind everyone that even in Love and Dating, WP is still a family-friendly site.
Also, the topic appears to have been abandoned in favor of... whatever this is.

Question... Are you having to wear rubber gloves to moderate our posts yet? A lot of the stuff here glows if you shine a UV light on it. :lol:

Yeah, I try to keep it PG-13.

You are the one to cry Wolf?
Let us remember the memories. Your words still ring in my ears as if it was yesterday how you were wondering how much we could push it before our play was redirrected. How it completely silenced the crickets and the moon dropped flat from the sky. Very holy, your Lightness.


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25 Feb 2021, 1:41 pm

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Uh, before this gets any more "steamy" can I just remind everyone that even in Love and Dating, WP is still a family-friendly site.
Also, the topic appears to have been abandoned in favor of... whatever this is.


Where is the big mod alert sign?
You’re not sounding scary.



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25 Feb 2021, 1:52 pm

Rexi wrote:
r00tb33r wrote:
Cornflake wrote:
Uh, before this gets any more "steamy" can I just remind everyone that even in Love and Dating, WP is still a family-friendly site.
Also, the topic appears to have been abandoned in favor of... whatever this is.

Question... Are you having to wear rubber gloves to moderate our posts yet? A lot of the stuff here glows if you shine a UV light on it. :lol:

Yeah, I try to keep it PG-13.

You are the one to cry Wolf?
Let us remember the memories. Your words still ring in my ears as if it was yesterday how you were wondering how much we could push it before our play was redirrected. How it completely silenced the crickets and the moon dropped flat from the sky. Very holy, your Lightness.

What? You're the wolf, we've already established that.

Besides, we pushed, AND found out. I think we already completed that experiment once.

The secret here is keeping it steamy without making it graphic.

You seem tense. Do you want to relieve some of that sexual tension? I'm up and awake... I'll give you a tummy rub, and more...

See what I mean?
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25 Feb 2021, 2:04 pm

I dedicate this big exclamation mark to The_Face_of_Boo :mrgreen:

 ! magz wrote:
Go with this conversation to the adult subforum!


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25 Feb 2021, 2:11 pm

^
You probably feel this way



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25 Feb 2021, 2:19 pm

Anyway, please, if you feel a need to continue this conversation, do it in the Adult subforum.


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