Womens' Bodies.... What do guys ACTUALLY want???

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26 Oct 2007, 5:28 pm

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Our closest relatives are bonobos or pigmy chimpanzee not the common chimpanzee. it is them that are matriarchal. The common chimpanzee is patriarchal.


Bonobos are slightly closer, but you can't really make any clear statements about their preferences, other than their tendency to avoid having sex with their closest relatives. They're usually happy to have sex with whoever they happen to come into contact with, regardless of age or other factors. So the only lessons they have to teach us is that nature doesn't frown on promiscuity, but that it's still perfectly normal to not be turned on by your parents.

Apparently the only rule is not to be turned on by their mother. They are quite content to do it with their brother and sisters, etc.

For common chimp I'm not sure if the apha female necessarily is the eldest but certainly the most experienced at having kids.



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26 Oct 2007, 7:01 pm

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For common chimp I'm not sure if the apha female necessarily is the eldest but certainly the most experienced at having kids.


In the study I saw, social rank didn't appear to matter, just age.
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In the new work, researchers examined this idea by studying male mate preferences within the Kanyawara chimpanzee community in Kibale National Park in Uganda. The researchers found that, in contrast to humans, male chimpanzees prefer older females to younger ones. They found that, compared to younger females, older females were more likely to be approached for copulation, were more often in association with males during estrous periods, copulated more frequently with high-ranking males, and gave rise to higher rates of male-on-male aggression in mating contests.


The only natural justification for our behaving differently seems to be that humans have menopause, and chimps don't. So for us, older females might be a waste of reproductive effort, while that's never true for a chimp. But that difference has only existed for a few hundred thousand years, so it's kind of speculative to assume that it's already resulted in major changes to human behavior. Culture may play a much larger role.



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26 Oct 2007, 7:57 pm

Sure. Humans have changed but so have Bonobos and Chimps. Divergence.



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26 Oct 2007, 8:00 pm

I'm attracted to women pre menopause, definitely. Menopause I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.



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27 Oct 2007, 10:05 pm

Ah, Bonobos...the pervs.... XD

No, but anyway.

An odd thing is that most of the girls I've been seriously attracted to have been girls I haven't been particularly into the appearance of. I tend to dislike blonde hair but had limerence for a blonde girl for 3 years. I've also had crushes on girls who were a LITTLE on the chubby side...though nobody could call them fat--except themselves, since virtually every girl I've spoken to thinks she's at least 15 pounds heavier than she actually is.