Do you miss someone right now?

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I am an NT who got involved with a man from my past. I fell in love with him only to find out we may never have a relationship. Our relationship was great for about 5 months then something happened. I did not learn he was an Aspie until about 2 months before he drop out of my life. I am so broken hearted but I am coping. I feel like I was used or played or even betrayed by him. I think he should have told me he was an Aspie. I would have done things differently. I may have not gotten involved with him at all other to be a friend and support when he needed if he would have told me up front about is difference than me. It helps me to write and to see what other of yourselfs think about my situtation. Please respond but be kind as my heart is still trying to mend at this point.

"The reality is that most likely he will NOT regret his actions regarding hale_bopp. People very rarely regret leaving someone for someone else. They nearly always put it behind them and move on and think less and less about the previous person. "



Sorry, but I can't agree. Years ago I was happily engaged to marry a fellow Aspie but somehow ended up suddenly marrying someone else. I have spent all of the subsequent years regretting that and missing him, even though he eventually married another. He was my lifetime Best Friend, although we have gone our separate ways and are not in communication.

My best friend whom I spent a lot of time with daily for a year. He is an aspie. He shutdown and has yet to come out, almost a year has passed. I wonder if he ever meant anything he said. I wonder if he ever felt anything he said he did. He used to say he missed me after a few hours because he liked how he felt with me. I doubt it all now.

Tofine: I understand exactly how you feel. I feel betrayed about not knowing even though my head sort of understands why he did not tell me. Painful.

yes.

Yep, and they aren't missing me.

Yes.

NOPE

Yes. But don´t all humans miss someone?

My ex-boyfriend. I don't want him back because we are both gay (I'm a girl) and we already know it wouldn't work. It was nice, though, in a very platonic way and we are still close friends. I really enjoy his company and that's a lot to say for me.

He could be the love of my life if I was a guy.

I miss my boyfriend (though we never committed to that) and really hope things work out when I'm in my own place and not so depressing and apathetic.

Boyfriend lives an hour away. Usually only get to see him every couple of weeks, and I always miss him whenever I'm not with him.

My girlfriend lives 12 hours away ;-;

Fortunately I'll finally get to see her come August :3