Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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My last entry for this I think was crappy lol. I'll update it.

I'm a: Woman seeking a Man
Age: 21
Height: 5'5"
Body Type: Full Figured
Eye Color: Hazel
Hair Color: Brunette
Single Status: Never Been Married
Ethnic Origin: Caucasian
Religious Background: Practicing Lutheran (LCMS)

Describe Yourself
I'm a movie buff and a video game player. I love Disney and have been to WDW 3 times and can't wait to go again!! I'm in college studing to be a Graphic Design Artist and I'm applying for the Walt Disney College Program for Spring 2010 this Fall. I hope to get in and be able to work for Disney one day as a Disney Design Group Member. I'm a Pastor's daughter and I have Asperger Syndrome. My favorite actor is Johnny Depp and I love Pirates of the Caribbean!! My favorite Disney Ride is The Haunted Mansion and Constance Hatchaway (the new attic bride) is my favorite character on the ride. I'm a new Twilight fan and have all the books. I'm currently reading Breaking Dawn and I can't wait to see Eclipse. If you have any questions for me, please go ahead and ask.

Education: Some College
Occupation: Student
Smoking Habits: Non-Smoker
Drinking Habits: Non-Drinker
Organizational Habits: Clean when I have to
Pets (Check all that apply): Fish
Political Type: Conservative Republican
Have Children: No
Want Children: Yes
Relocation: Would think about relocating
Church Habits: Attend and participate in programs
Lifestyle type (check all that apply): Artistic/Musical - Career-Oriented - Enjoy Small Town Living - Family-Oriented - Quiet/Shy - Religious
Activities/Interests (check all that apply): Antiquing - Arts - Biking - Camping - Church Activities - Collectibles - Cooking/Grilling Out - Fashion - Fishing - Hiking - History/Museums - Internet/Computers - Movies - Outdoor Activities - Pets - Photography - Reading - Religious Activities - Shopping - Technology - Travel - Video Games - Woodworking - Writing
Favorite movie: Pirates of the Caribbean Series/Twilight Saga
Favorite book: Twilight Saga
Favorite pastime: Drawing/Computer/Movies/Games
Favorite food: Pizza/Ice Cream
Favorite place: Walt Disney World
Favorite vehicle: My Car
One word that describes your personality: Kind

Ladies, I just won the lottery*.

So... yeah... give me a call...












* winning $10.98 still counts as winning

36 YO, hetero male looking for cute nerdy goth chick that live around Stockholm or Uppsala in Sweden. I am NOT interested in smokers, racists or taking care of anyones children.

It is a good thing if you are:
...An atheist/Agnostic, or does not take religion seriously.
...Into sciense.
...ok with me playing games and watching movies/series all the time.
...into asian food.
...open minded about music.
...not intrested in living an ordinary life, i am not looking forward to coupples dinners, family hollydays or traveling to Thailand for the 36'th time like everyone else do here.

Basically, if you are something like Abby on NCIS, that is a VERY good start

Hey guys, aren't there certain types of map software, google maps, or whatever, that we can use to better see who lives in our area? Might be neat to start one of those..

Cause I live in Switzerland (female, 23), and I don't really wanna search through the whole 135-page thread to see if there's someone else over here. What do you guys think?

I'm a 27 year-old guy living in Louisiana but I'd be willing to relocate most anywhere. I have kind of a standard profile that I use on dating sites that so I'm going to copy that here
I'm a fairly sensitive guy & I think caring to much is one of my weaknesses thou I may not appear that way to most people because I do not feel comfortable with em. I'm an EMOish dork. I'm kind of straightforward & I don't "fake" or "pretend". I think part of the rezone I'm alone is because I don't understand "mind-games" or playing "hard-to-get". I like most anyone who's nice towards me. I'm Straight_Edge & I'm basically a loner & a homebody but I'm lonely. I don't get out much partly cuz I'm extremely shy & cuz I cant drive due to the fact I'm very nearsighted; I have a rare vision disorder. I also have a tremor disorder where I sometimes shake when doing things with fine motor-skills. I do not officially have Aspergers but I have a lot of AS characteristics & I think I could get along really well with some people on the autism spectrum. I've been diagnosed as having lots of other different mental things but I feel much better sense I quit treatment over a year ago. I like helping people with their problems. I have some things as well so I'd like to find someone who I can talk about things with. I really want to find someone who I can feel comfortable with & be my best friend & soul-mate. I want someone who makes me feel needed & wants to spend time with me. I'm looking for love, intimacy & affection, as well as friends. If anyone want's to know anything else about me; feel free to check MySpace page listed in my pro or message me. I like chatting.


BTW I joined Aspie Affection a couple days ago but every time I try searching for members; I get a page with some code. Site is messing up

(Updated some and added a picture.)

Sex: Female

Age: 19

Location: Liberty County in Texas

Interests: Humans (behavior and medical sciences), ants, and Asian ball jointed dolls.
Note: I usually have one temporary interest that is a little strange. Recent ones have been marmite and Cadbury cream eggs
(It’s usually a type of food now that I think about it O_o).

Appearance: Brown Hair, dark brown eyes, and a light complexion. I am short (5 feet exactly) and I weigh 96 pounds.
Photo:
[img][img]http://i370.photobucket.com/albums/oo150/Paullyandherwards/me1-1.jpg[/img][/img]
(I think seeing a picture is important. While I strongly believe there is much more to attraction than looks, I do not fault anyone who finds looks to be a big factor in whether or not they can be attracted to a person. So, that's what I look like.)

I have been told I am smart, nerdy, strange, logical, unemotional, too literal, and that I "...think like a man." I really do not express (the key word being "express") very much emotion nor do I express a great variety of it (sometimes, my family calls me Spock). I am normally quiet; however, I can become quite talkative if it is about something I enjoy. I am a good listener, almost to a fault. I am honest, loyal, and patient. I will admit, sometimes I do not catch how other people are feeling and can seem cold or uninterested. But I do try to be helpful if people tell me how they feel- even if it does not make complete sense to me and/or I am not very good at it. I am not a social person and do not have many friends, nor do I want many friends because I could not handle it. But I love people. I find humans to be the most fascinating known things in the universe. I should note that I am Christian, though not in the way most people may expect. If you really dislike Christians or if you are a Christian who believes all must go to church on Sunday, you will not like me.
I dress in mostly dark colours and I often look quite geeky-gothic. I have good hygiene, but I am usually a mess when it comes to fashion and such.
I received my official diagnosis of asperger’s syndrome earlier this year; though I suspected having it for a while.
I have never dated anyone because I have never met anyone with whom there was enough mutual interest and attraction. If I were to date someone, it should be noted that I dislike tradition gender roles, probably because I fail at the one assigned to me.

I would be interested in someone with at least a few shared interests. I realize this is a site for people with ASDs, but someone with better social skills and emotional understanding than me would be good. Honesty, confidence, loyalty, patients, compassion, good hygiene, and a lack of wearing strongly scented anything are musts. I strongly prefer someone close to my own age and within a day's driving distance (Though, if you think you would like me, and I would like you, please message me regardless of where you live). I am attracted to people with small frames and who are generally “pretty.” That is, I really do not like big masculine looking men and built muscles turn me off because, to me, it ruins the form of the body. Tall and lanky or short and small is awesome.
I did not originally want to list things I do not like, but now I think it would be a good idea.
I can be a bit of a pessimist and sometimes cynical, but I am not interested in dating someone who is that way. I would prefer someone whose personality balances with mine. I can not date anyone who hates people. I am not interested in people with an aspie superiority complex or people who have an “us against them” mentality when it comes to NTs. (If someone occasionally needs to rant about illogical NT behavior that does not bother me, as long as it does not happen every hour.)

I am interested in both people who are autistic and people who are non-autistic. At this point, I really do not know if it would be easier for me to date one or the other.

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I'm most receptive to email contact: [email protected]


gender:male
location: washington state
Age: Late teens (I look and act 16, though I'm an early entrance student at college)
Personality Type: INTP
Blog:
Website: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User:Simfish
I have old ones - just e-mail me: [email protected].
SLOAN: RLUEI
Religion: Agnostic/Atheist
DnD Alignment: Chaotic Neutral
Officially diagnosed with both Asperger's and ADD-Inattentive
Flexible vegetarian (I'm not that religious about it anymore, since I have to eat gelatin pills)
Weight: 98 lbs.

Also known as: InquilineKea (I make myself very stalkable)

I'm REALLY into science and anything analytical. My intellectual blog is at [removed by Sallamandrina at OP's request] and my regular blog is at [removed by Sallamandrina at OP's request]

As for me, I'm a nihilist and relativist, so I tend to be objective and detached. I currently go to the University of Washington (yes I entered 2 years early). I'm a massive self-studier, as I self-studied enough APs to become a National AP Scholar.

I want to get a PhD in astrophysics someday. I'm most into girls who are cynical+detached from society and yet who can still be *very* caring about a significant other (very much like owls, who are very sweet to their significant other and yet asocial to everyone else). And who like science, or are massively curious or intellectual. I also like those who play computer games. Being smart above a threshold is a plus, but you don't have to be a genius (and in fact I'm scared of geniuses). And you don't have to desire pursuing a PhD in the sciences, but it is a huge plus.

I'm quite intellectual but don't have much self-control. I find virtue in most "flaws", as long as one doesn't have antisocial personality disorder towards a SO. I try to avoid being picky, as I hate judging people on what they can't control. I love all the social and natural sciences, especially those that involve the "consilience", or merger, of different fields.

I may seem overly neurotic, but I can be a lot more stable in a relationship. Also I have a lot of "personality" for a scientist. Perhaps it's melodrama, but I'm not at all a robot.

Also, I look very young and have very good skin (virtually no acne). And I don't accumulate dirt or grime and don't smell, even if I go for a couple of days without showering.

Anyways, here are my favorite books:

http://www.edge.org/questioncenter.html, The Structure of Scientific Revolutions (Kuhn), Consilience (E.O. Wilson), The Psychology of Science and the Origins of the Scientific Mind (Feist), Origins of Wealth (Beinhocker), The Blank Slate (Pinker), Origins of Genius (Simonton), The Scientist as Rebel (Dyson), Darwin's Dangerous Idea (Dennett), The Extended Phenotype (Dawkins), The Selfish Gene (Dawkins), Scientific Genius: A Psychology of Science (Dean Simonton), Beyond Good and Evil (Nietzsche), Towards a Genealogy of Morals (Nietzsche), Human All Too Human (Nietzsche), How the Mind Works (Pinker), Rare Earth (Brownlee and Ward), Life and Death of Planet Earth, The Brief History of Time (Hawking), The Nurture Assumption (Harris), No Two Alike (Harris), The World is Flat (Friedman), The Language Instinct (Pinker), Romance of Three Kingdoms, Deschooling Society (Illich), Freakonomics, The Man Who Loved Only Numbers, Talking About Leaving - Why Undergraduates Leave the Sciences, Intelligence: Knowns and Unknowns, The Quest for Consciousness (Koch), The Scientist in the Crib (Gopnik), Heaven in a Chip (Kosko), Noise (Kosko), Outsmarting IQ: the Emerging Science of Learnable Intelligence (Perkins), The Synaptic Self (LeDoux), Where Mathematics Comes From, The Executive Brain: Frontal Lobes and the Civilized Mind (Goldberg), The Quark and the Jaguar (Murray Gell-Mann), Why Smart People Can Be So Stupid (Sternberg), School's Out (Perelman)

I am probably a classic high functioning Autistic/Aspie to a mid level Savant, with possible Eidetic or photographic memory some of which is cog-nascent much is triggered by external stimuli. I have been isolate all my life and my inability to be held or hugged infant symptoms went unnoticed in 1961, and further disguised because my father was in the military so being the new kid in town allowed for me to be different every where I went, anything that I have enjoyed I have excelled above many of my peers in. My life further exasperated my condition, by my inability to stay in one place, so each new place more new things to learn, I am a self educator and adept in many skills sets,

Born in Montana
Elementary in Idaho, Connecticut, Montana
Jr High in Connecticut
High school in Hawaii
Invitation to go to japan and be further trained in Martial Arts, turned down be cause of enlistment
Ex-military special forces
Preacher for a highly conservative mainstream christian faith
Self educated welder, in many types and positions - opened business
Self educated trigonometry and various other mathematics
top of class in machine technology computer numerical machinist - worked for nuclear fuels companies - Washington
Classic car mechanic - Washington
Auto body repairman - Washington
Apartment Manager - Montana
Commercial Building Engineer - Montana
General Contractor, - Montana, Washington
Draftsman - Montana, California
Architectural Designer - Montana, Washington, California, Colorado & Building homes in California
Self proclaimed Aquitect and systems designer for Aquitecture -

I have termed myself a "Living paradox" I have only now, meaning in the last 2 days accepted the fact I have some intense mental thing I have been frustrated through the years not understanding why I am such a miss fit, I can learn anything I set my my mind on in probably under 2 weeks, this has made it difficult to keep employment and to find it, EXTREMELY overqualified and the cycle continues,
Isolation, which creates a need to escape loneliness, so start inventing some other new thing that consumes my mind for a while...

I have studied animal behavior to the point of a doctor do little, I have observed human behavior as a pass time sitting in crowds malls etc. having exceptionally good hearing and listening to many conversations at one time, and could tell you verbatim what there conversations were, voice tense mood,

I studied the Bible so intensely one period that I started creating a number system to reference all my studies - a friend later shows me a Thompson Chain Reference Bible that I had started to reinvent.

I design my own computer workstations and build them my self at home, - Self educated running High end 3d architectural rendering software including movies. Designed my own website for architecture...

...and now I cast aside another skill set to go on to the next.

The only way to avoid sorrow of heart from the loneliness of isolation is to feed a mind that will not stop unless it is a sleep, like my computer I must nap from time too time to reset my mind back to start, I am soo sick of learning some new thing, and yet it is my addiction that I have to fulfill for knowledge and wisdom cries to me, and I would be completely mad if I dare not feed its hunger. For the reality of this divine gift causes pain so mental absorption is the only vent of such incredible and sometimes overwhelming gifts. and It is also the cause for the need, my mental absorbtion causes the detachment and further social difficulties, and sorrows, and yet it is the balm of the mind.
Paradox.

People - we haven't even scratched the surface yet. I hope to meet new friends, and share our experiences.

When I found out that I am what I am. I was elated because now I have a name for what I am. Not insane, but a very very conscious focused thinker, that didn't take the time to develope my friend making and dating skill sets. Exceptionally honest, sincere, trustworthy, friendly but not able to maintain them long, not all people have the patience for a Savant. Especially when we kinda cant keep our mouths shut. Being a pervasive truth Sayer, one isolates themselves really quickly.

...Anyway, if i don't stop here I might go off on another tangent. What is this blog for anyway, but to stand up and be noticed, this its my first step out of the closet and the denial that I have supernatural mental abilities. I really for many years thought others just weren't trying as hard as me. but history will cause us to listen sooner or later.

by for now

GEM

I've decided to give it another try.

I'm a big, burly female Mick Avory look-a-like, who's looking for a man with my body type, which would be of the Endomorph variety. Other than that, looks don't matter. He could be bald, have hair like mine, or be a long-haired hippie. It's all the same to me, as far as hair is concerned. Must love the music of the 60s and 70s. He must also be my age, or older. He must also be a Christian.

This is my picture:

I am a 18 year old Bisexual Aspie, I am pretty skinny. I am a real big anime/video game nerd, and kind of a shut in. I have trouble even just posting on forums let alone talking or even dating, I haven't been in a relationship that lasted for more than a month, and would love a long relationship I live in MS. I love drawing, talking to friends, and video games. I doubt theres anyone on here anywhere near me but its nice to meet friends! I would really like a cute femine guy, or just a cute girl. =] I also a atheist, and Anti-theist, but I am fine dating a Christian, as long as they don't try to force it onto me, I tend to be clingy and obessive, but I am a good listener.

I'm a 22 year old male living in the denver area. I'm a geeky computery person. That's all I'm going to say. If you're a chick in the denver area then you can message me if you want. I looked through the last year or so worth of posts and didn't see a single person from colorado though.