why you are a virgin?

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If I was a man and had to fulfill the societal expectations of the pursuit of a sexual partner, I have no doubt I would still be a virgin. I just couldn't do it.

Ive been with my GF for 3 years and we havent even kissed yet! but she is NT so i dont know what im doing right but shes still with me but hey as for sex im only 15 and well i dont plan to ever do it i mean id like to but if i cant kiss in forst 3 years then im gonna give up now xD

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[quote="Cyberman"]Because self-induced orgasms are cheaper, and the economy sucks right now... [/quote]

And that is possible how?

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Haven't found someone like Divini Rae.

Well let's see...
A) I haven't ever tried to get into a relationship.
B) I can barely tolerate hugging or a hand on the shoulder, no idea what bare skin contact would do. Probably a panic attack or something. Might be able to get past, I don't know, never tried.
C) Fear of personal strength
D) Fear of trust

... Mainly A and B.

It's a combination of an intense fear of rejection and procrastination.

Every time I genually find the strength to want to go out and meet a girl, I remember something else that needs to be done, or I look outside and say "maybe tommorow, it's too cold/too hot/snowing/too sunny/raining/I saw a weird-looking person".

Mainly it's that i've never been in a relationship as well as fear. I haven't had much luck with my love life so far.

i personally have had a lot of girls like me from high school until now and i am not comfortable with dating, i have been on a couple of dates and it didn't work out so i do not like to date anymore. i would like a girlfriend but i am not sure about dating. i guess i have the asperger's blues.

For me, my AS is fairly mild, except when it comes to establishing relationships. I have very specific ideas in mind for what I want in a woman, and I rarely find someone who fits my ideals. It doesn't exactly help that when I do, I over-analyze the situation, and get nervous over what should be a very simple matter.

Cause I haven't met the right man yet!

the right man is a man who i feel comfortable enough having sex with...my last few exes have been like..."it's 2 weeks, lets have sex now!" instead of having sex when we're ready or when we want to...plain n simple

sex for even the nicest of men is a need. and masturbation gets old after a while.

And it isn't for women or what? Or did you mean "men" in the sense of "human" (like in "mankind")?