therange wrote:
ToadOfSteel: "It's one thing to be cynical about yourself (which is what I do)... you're not hurting anyone else that way."
Yes, you are. You're annoying other readers who are thinking the same thing I am but don't want to speak up.
"It's a whole different story to deliberately go after other people the way you do though."
I'm trying to get you to change. Coddling you isn't going to help. You live a pretty cousy life right now and don't want to change. The only thing that's going to help you is medication, which you refuse to take, psychotherapy, which you refuse to seek out, or good old tough love.
"For a while there I was thinking that your remarks about me were legitimate"
They are. You want a girlfriend but you're unwilling to change. What's wrong about that?
Doesn't it get tiring to keep pushing this? You have already spoken up. Why keep it going?
Face it, you can't change people unless they want to change. You can spend 25 years trying to change someone and no success. Even shrinks can't change their patients, only reason why their patients change is because they wanted to change so they worked at it. The shrink was just there to help them change because they wanted to.
These people who can't change because they refuse to aren't worth my time. I don't even understand why people keep giving them advice and giving them attention. Sometimes I think if those people are just doing it to get attention, they are basically spamming the forum with their problems and new suckers get sucked into it because they have no idea. Two people here I have quit giving advice to because of their spamming. They never want to fix their problems. They just moan and they are a waste of my time. But I used to make fun of one of them until he went crying to the mods because he was that annoying. But I find his posts amusing. The other person is starting to get on my nerves. He has in the past about his same old problems but now I think it's just for attention.
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Have you got a sign pic from this girl yet?
Also, I need to see her profile even if I don't have permission. I want to do some re-search.
Uh that's not your job. Why do it?