How to talk to Asian girls?

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Mom talks to me mainly in English. I learned Korean from maybe age 5 or so. I had to speak Korean to most of mom's family. But when we moved to the US I barely used Korean. I did take Korean as a foreign language in high school. I can still speak and read it, but can't write it. I'm actually going to Korea in the fall to visit some of mom's family. I have a accent when I speak Korean. Dad knows more Korean than me.

That's how dad met mom when he was stationed in Korea. Apparently there was an area off of the US Army base we stayed at that had tons of Korean hookers. Also the bars was where some enlisted young men go.

That was my assumption (NOT that she was a hooker, but that they had met outside the army base). I wasn't in the army, but I met some nice girls there, too.

A couple of important factors have changed since then:

1. US soldiers are no longer permitted to hire hookers, or even (I think) to have coitus outside of marriage.

2. Gender-selected abortion has created a huge shortage of women relative to men in South Korea.

3. South Koreans, by and large, are a lot wealthier than they used to be.

So, I don't know what it is like there, now. Probably not as much fun for the soldiers as it used to be, and probably not as easy to meet girls.

I would have to add, too, that Korean girls were VERY nice, and very easy to fall in love with.

While most Asian and half-Asian girls are very pretty, I would assume that most who grew up in America would be more similar to other Americans than to Asians in Asia. It would be silly to expect otherwise.

I'm going back to Korea in the fall and probably will be shocked at the changes. I was last there in 1995. From what I hear also alot of foreigners live in Korea to teach English. It's true that people from Vietnam, Cambodia, Bangladesh and other foreign countries to marry Korean but mostly farmers.

Time to conquer South Korea.

<--- **doing evil plans with North Korea**

Maybe you'll find a Korean husband, too.

From what I understand, South Korea has a lot of lonely men nowadays.

Asian men don't appeal to me at all. Full or half. I like military men. I did date someone in the Navy. I'm used to the military lifestyle since I grew up on military base most of my life. I often would see the young enlisted men doing their daily morning exercise while I walked to school. I prefer white or hispanic. Well the only hispanic man I find hot right now is a celeb. I'm sure you know.

maybe just learn chinese.

Romance is very racist from what I seeing here.

Here are some trends I observed (online and real-life), they are generalizations but I am sure there's some huge truth about them.

- Asian girls are very desired by White guys and often are seen as humble, cute and nice.
- Asian guys aren't much desired by white girls and probably by a lot of Asian girls too.
- African guys are more desired than African girls by the opposite sex.
- African girls are the least desired by whites.
- White (European) men are the most desirable in third-world non-white countries. White women too but not to the same extent.
- Middle-Eastern men are desirable by White and Asian women but hindered by the fear factor. Middle-Eastern women are seen as exotic by white men but not much as Asian women.


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Shame on you, humanity.

^^ and I believe this all goes down to...again.... humans proven to be apes again: looks.

Masculine features vs Feminine features .

- Asian girls have "typical feminine" physical features: short height, the softness of skin, the eyes, ..etc/ while their men have the same features making them look "less masculine".

Africans have the opposite case of Asians.

Plus asian females tend to have baby fine soft hair. I don't have that though. Yes Asian females tend to be more petite and thinner than say females here in the US.

I have a white friend who's into Asian guys. She feels like she's the only one out there. I also have an Asian friend who's into Asian guys (and girls), although she insists that nobody in our predominantly-Asian school fits her (pretty ridiculous) standards of beauty. I'm half-white and half-Asian, and I don't feel like I have any real racial bias, although I probably do subconsciously xD.

You've made my point from a few pages ago that it isn't JUST White men who lust after Asian girls--there is some reciprocal lusting going on.

You're looking for a man just like your father, eh?

Military men tend to marry younger these days: partly because coitus is prohibited outside of marriage, and partly because of the generous extra entitlements that married soldiers get. They have a big incentive to marry young, and there may be relatively few left over in your age range.

I would have expected your grandma and aunties in Korea to be seeking candidates in anticipation of your visit. I'm sure that they would be performing thorough background checks, including details on the gentlemen's family, employment history, education, income, wealth, as well as what kind of home he owns and what kind of vehicle he drives. You probably don't need to be overly hasty in dismissing the possibilities. Plus, I think that they have mandatory military service, which means that ALL of the men have a military background.

Before you go, your mother had better make sure that you are able to prepare an irresistible batch of kimchi.

I hate kimchi. Smelly. Hot. Spicy. Korean foods smells so bad but tastes good. The soy bean soup and the grilled mackerel can stink up your kitchen so badly! It's quite different than say Thai food. Thai food doesn't have that awful smell to me. I don't think my aunts and uncles care about who I marry as long as he has good family background. If he comes from divorced parents, that would be a some turn off. Or if he has a child from previous marriage or relationship that would be a turn off. If I was divorced or had a child then it would be fine. I don't want a man to drive the best expensive car. As long as his car works that's fine. Some Korean families do go overboard. He doesn't need to be the son of a CEO for instance where someday he will take over his dad's business. Some woman that I know wanted to hook me up with a police officer. I would be worried about him. Military life can be hard too. My dad was sent to the Middle East during the Persian Gulf War. He was a Lt Colonel. My ex boyfriend got out of the US Navy before 9/11 happened. I feared that he would have to be sent to the Middle East also to be in the frontlines. But he was a lab technician. If I met a man who was a singer that would be good. But definitely not punk or heavy medal. Someone like Adam Levine would be cool. I wouldn't mind meeting a man similar to Dr Spencer Reid of Criminal Minds. He seems to be the type of man I like. Very very smart and very caring. I think the character has a tad bit of aspergers in him. But I don't know. I'm addicted to Pitbull too so I wouldn't mind meeting someone like him too. I don't know I'm all over the place.

On top of that, Asian and half-Asian girls tend to have men falling at their feet anywhere they go in much of North America. Some of us who might otherwise be interested probably see little point in joining the contest. Others of us are completely awestruck and dumbfounded, and use the internet to ask for tips on how to talk to you.