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12 Feb 2013, 9:55 pm

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I already offered my constructive criticism, you're simply too deluded to even bother with it. Have fun with all of that, must be working rather well for you.

There isn't really any need for us to have a go at each other.
Your advice isn't wrong, its just different to my opinion. And that's fair.

Constructive criticism doesn't have personal insults in it.



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12 Feb 2013, 10:11 pm

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Bill, she was testing you to see if you would feel disapproved by her look of disapproval, the key here was not to be disapproved but to be confident in your eye contact interest indicator.


I have no idea what you just said.


She shot you down and rejected you because you came across as creepy and shallow, try commenting on something other than looks next time or just striking up a conversation about something familiar like the area, events or something she's wearing.


oh, no I am not creepy. It's impossible for me to be creepy.



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12 Feb 2013, 10:15 pm

Says who? And why?



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12 Feb 2013, 10:21 pm

well, next time I see a hot girl. I just say the stuff to myself and not out loud towards the female.



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12 Feb 2013, 11:43 pm

ripped wrote:
MXH wrote:
I already offered my constructive criticism, you're simply too deluded to even bother with it. Have fun with all of that, must be working rather well for you.

There isn't really any need for us to have a go at each other.
Your advice isn't wrong, its just different to my opinion. And that's fair.

Constructive criticism doesn't have personal insults in it.

There were no personal insults there, I stated the opinion that what you said was very dumb. Not that you were dumb. There's a big difference there.



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12 Feb 2013, 11:45 pm

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well, next time I see a hot girl. I just say the stuff to myself and not out loud towards the female.

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13 Feb 2013, 1:15 am

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"...Your face is so beautiful it makes me want to bring as much pleasure to it as possible."


Nice attempt but it still all depends on who says it. The last one I find just downright creepy, especially when you approach the girl in a store or something.

Is that because you have a face like a pig and it couldn't work on you?

You didn't deserve that, and like the idiot I look, I must now apologize for it.
I'll give my reasons for saying it. Not that is a justification for it, but in the interests of clearing the air, I never fail to muddy the waters further.
That was an actual statement of mine.
I wrote that.
I used that, and I meant it.
Which is to say the attitude I embraced when sincerely seeking a girlfriend was summed up by that last line. So it looked like a cut that I should have become immune to by now.
My weakness not yours.



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13 Feb 2013, 2:21 am

Your lucky she didnt do this to you! Image


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17 Feb 2013, 11:04 am

ripped wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
ripped wrote:
"...Your face is so beautiful it makes me want to bring as much pleasure to it as possible."


Nice attempt but it still all depends on who says it. The last one I find just downright creepy, especially when you approach the girl in a store or something.

Is that because you have a face like a pig and it couldn't work on you?


Haha, are you trying to offend me?
Infantile.
Wether I am attractive or not is irrelevant. Most girls would run a mile of you would come up to them in a store and tell them this. It is creepy. Attractive or not.