Interracial Dating and double standards

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I've noted that Amish and Mennonite chicks can be quite cute.




You seldom see any hawt nuns any more




But, a group of Amish girls never fails to catch my eye.

^ that's what you call a collection of Aspies...?

Yet another thread that makes me glad to be queer. I'm a fat, white woman with a pretty quiet personality. I don't find anything that different, personality-wise between me and Asian women, it's just that they look thinner and younger and some men think that means more feminine or submissive. BS.

I've said this before, but I can't be bothered with people that buy into gender roles and I'm glad I look a certain way that puts these people off me. I'm glad for my filters, sometimes - even if I get ignored most of the time.

That said I do have one racial dating stereotype thing that isn't even deliberate or conscious. I'm from Catholic background (mostly Scots ancestry with a bit of Italian) and I tend to 'click' with Jewish men and find them attractive. That actually tends to happen a lot but is more about culture than it is about race as an Ashkenazi Jew isn't from a different 'race' to me. It's like both cultures are patriarchal on the outside, but the women are raised to be quite tough and canny and maternal. I don't have kids, but the tendency to 'run' the household and look after people is there because it's how I was brought up. Plus, both cultures are quite smothering and repressive in some ways; Jewish men like to marry out to escape that and Catholic girls do for the same reason.

I wish my Jewish ex-boyfriend and I didn't have to break up sometimes, but it just wasn't working for various reasons (unrelated to culture.)

I am attracted to black and East Asian men as well, but if I dated one, they'd probably have to either be raised in a Western country or very cosmopolitan and broad-minded by nature. The same is true for Arab men as well (they'd have to not be a practicing Muslim.) I do find black men and women particularly attractive, especially the women. I don't find them masculine, I find them to be generally lively and laid-back (if you can be both things at the same time.) The only black men who have come onto me have been African guys looking for an easy lay, unfortunately, but I would definitely date one who was interested in me.

Sorry if I didnt get the sarcasm i got really mad and upset because 99% of the time someone says that kind of thing they are serious in what they say. people who judge me and hate me for what I like and what I do without knowing me along with such an arrogent condescending attitude they can put a sock in it.