Booyakasha wrote:
i'm sorry, I guess i shouldn't have brought it up then
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...but it just upsets me to see nice people like yourself, Boo or some of my friends being depressed because of it.
My friend has money, isn't ugly, is nice, and funny - but that's not enough apparently.
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Every single one of them treated him like sh*t, or would cut him off after a while. I introduced him to a girl, she cut him and me off as well after a while.
And I don't get what should people like you do to get a girlfriend - it's beyond me. I see nothing wrong with any of you, you're just fine the way you are, but whether is it stupid laws of evolution, this shallow culture where only narcissistic well off types have some luck in love or what....
if I were you, I'd treat myself with respect, do whatever makes me happy, be busy with some hobby, make myself interesting, sign up somewhere, and then perhaps try to befriend someone...I don't see any other way. Since females seem to flee like plague those overly needy, despondent, depressed, unhappy with themselves....they don't see them as adequate mates. maybe it's our damn genetic matrix
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odd hearing it from a female. normally women here jump to the defense of the women and agree about how awful we are and that's what we are alone. unless you're a male in which case sorry.
how much money does he have? they tend to want middle class people so like 3-5k a month income or more. because only middle class and rich people have kids. I just popped into existence out of no where. this goes for rich women or poor women. women here anyways could be obese and jobless but still demand a guy making 200k a year and physically fit and handsome. in fact they do. women seem to have a entitlement issue. it snot for sex, but they feel being a woman entitles them to a well off great looking guy. but its ignored or supported by other women.
wish I had friends to introduce me to women.
yeah Idk. I like my hobbies but none of them them are social anymore and women don't do them, except married women. I don't believe in the fake a hobby to get women. I don't want to have to lie to get a gf then keep up the lie for rest of my life.
hard to respect yourself when everyone says your worthless.
even when I was happy I was still dependent. i wouldn't want a independent person that means they don't need or want a relationship so they'll just there for the sex and money. they'll go away for weeks or months without talking to you and be fine. its hell.