AR15000 wrote:
Outrider wrote:
Yeah seems the longer the post the longer and more tries it takes and I can also put a lot of detail think the longest had to be at least 20 times but I stuck through.
Possibly one of the longest messages ive ever sent on the site so fair enough.
Still though im sure we all hate it I wonder who actualy put it on here as its pointless and bots still get through all the time.
Doesnt matter if it was alex or a mod they should have saw by now that it's not only useless but largely unpopular and honestly if the mod is as bad at programming a good captcha as they at running other parts of the site they should be sacked...hopefully they compensate for their service to the site in other ways.
Anyway off-topic but I ignored a llot of the big debates the grew so I'll have to get back to them before getting back on tpoc to contribute.
Still, no one has much to say on me and AR's view that perhaps it's just conflicting interests than can stand in the way?
From my perspective I tend to not be interested in messaging teens my age on dating sites because they stink of desperation and other then their profile give no detials of what kind of person they are (and in fact many are completely or near empty profiles) and not what they want out of a relationship.
It seems teens are far too apathetic about their dating life and just simply want to 'chat' with someone.
Something i've never understood seems the popular consenous is just 'chatting' with others and making small talk to make friends with relationship coming in second place. A lot of the teen girls essentially say they're looking for 'friends, that could possibly lead to something more.'
Can't wait to be 18 so I can leave the kiddies behind and get on an adult site. A site where people actually take the time to work on their profile and make it as detailed and polished as their resume.
What's funny is how they say women aren't interested in men who are 'just nice guys' as it's a 'basic' trait that anyone can have and you deserve no reward 'just for being nice'.
Honestly I can now see what they mean. I am not attracted to almost transparent females with little to no personality who essentially jus say 'I'm a nice girl, like hanging out with friends, like listening to music, and just want a nice, sweet guy who loves and cares about me and just a guy happy with just sitting on the couch/culdding/watching movies in bed together'. Like my god, that's just generic.
EDIT: Didn't even have to SAY death to captcha, just to think it in the back of my mind and it worked! Today must be my lucky day! And in case my luck is about to run out,
DEATH TO CAPTCHA
You should date older women. Srsly. Most teenage girls in your age range date older guys because men their age are too immature for their tastes.
Lol coincidentally I actually do have a preference for older females. I'd date up to age 20 if I could and, once I turn 18, even higher than that.
But most older females simply aren't attracted to younger males (plus if it becomes sexual it's illegal) and I completely understand this.
I will say though my first girlfriend was 19 while I was still 16. She was 2 years and 11 months older. I recently turned 17 and she 20, so if we were still together now...the age difference was commented on quite a bit by both our families.
For now, I have to have patience until it's more socially acceptable....