do you find autistic girls attractive?

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I haven't met enough of them to make a serious judgement one way or the other.

Looks are not important to me. I'm attracted to girls who are random, weird, clumsy, hyper, ditsy ect. I think they are extremely funny & cute so the answer is YES I am attracted to autistic girls. Anyone know where I can meet some Then again I am usually attracted to any woman who's nice to me after a while

To be honest I am into physically attractive bad girl NT types in my opinion

I don't know what I like.

There's one chick here that has a few youtube videos that's kind of cute. Blonde hair, I don't remember her handle.

Anyways, I've met girls who can't hold eye contact with me (I can do this women I like, but I can't do it right with platonic interactions with men or women because holding EC with them is aggressive) and it turns me off so bad because I can't tell if they're interested and I don't feel any sparks. I have a feeling an AS girl wouldn't be able to do this, and I'd feel weird around her.

@roadGames--what you just said about eye contact is really interesting. I also like holding eye contact with people I'm attracted to or with friends and acquaintances I feel comfortable with, but there's also a lot of people I feel uncomfortable making eye contact with and I've never understood why (interestingly enough, these are the same people who I've never really "clicked" with...I wonder which way the causal arrow goes? ). Hearing your reason has given me a lot to think about--thanks!

I'm the same as roadGames and Mosaicofminds.

I know two autistic girls personally. One I would say is somewhat physically attractive, but has self control issues which make her very unattractive as a partner.

The other is very nice, but not particularly physically attractive. I feel bad for saying it because she's lovely, but it's true. Some of her mannerisms tend to grate a bit too so I couldn't imagine spending too much time with her in person. Again I feel horrible saying it, but it's true.

well, actualy, yes that is one thing i actualy long for in a partner. because i also have it, and it kinda is somthing to relate to. somthing in comen, and theres that extra level of understanding.

well, actualy, yes that is one thing i actualy long for in a partner. because i also have it, and it kinda is somthing to relate to. somthing in comen, and theres that extra level of understanding.

Yes I do like autie girls. A lot.

I fantasize about lying on a cute autie girl, running my fingers through her hair with one hand and massaging the back of her neck with the other. She likes being on the bottom because I have a memory foam mattress (in the fantasy, not in real life). She keeps making soft, repeated, babylike hums - the most comforting and reassuring sound a woman can make at a moment like that.

The two best parts of reality - autie girls and memory foam mattresses - in one fantasy

haha. NT girls can get kinda dramatic. most of my relationships last around 2 or 3 months, the one aspie i dated. a year and a half.

I've never knowingly met a girl with ASD, let alone anyone with ASD. Are there any Melbournian girls with ASD viewing this post?

The only girls I can picture in a relationship with me are the ones as messed up as I am.

Autistic or NT i really dont have a problem as it's if you connect or not that really matters.

Aspie girls are usually really cool IMO. I'm often closer friends with them than anyone else. This is just a combination of the fact that my closer friends are usually either girls or Aspie. Combined together it's even more true, and I'm inclined to date girls I feel really comfortable with, which usually means friends, the closer the better.

So yes, but the effect isn't exactly overpoweringly strong. I could go either way. It's more about how well we get each other than anything.