Has anyone never had a GF/BF before?

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Anna I don't like what you want out of relationships with people. Casual sex isn't something that appeals to me simply because it lacks the romance that makes it special. I don't like your view and coming here to harass and troll isn't something that is appreciated. You know the saying, if you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.

I don't Anna intended that comment to harass people. Just to state what she does instead of having girlfriend/boyfriend.

For me, I've never had a gf, never kissed a girl, I don't think I'll get laid until im at least 30

I have entertained feelings for girls but I never tell them, and one used to like me, but she only told me that after she was going out with some other guy

I've had a couple of girlfriends in the past but I haven't been very successful in most of them or it wasn't really a proper relationship and never had any sex in all the relationships i've been in.
I had one girlfriend who ive been really successful... but then some other guy took her from me...

I'm 25, established in my career, have a place of my own, and have my own transportation. I've never had a girlfriend and only been on one date. I've never kissed/been kissed.

I have never dated or kissed a male

First girlfriend at 17, she cheated on me when I was 19 (vowed to never date an NT again after that).

Second girlfriend at 23, we broke up when I was 26.

Was recently in a brief friend-with-benefits situation at age 29.

I didn't go on a real date with a girl until I was 30.

My advice is to ask a girl out earlier rather than later. At least if you f*$% it up, you're gaining valuable experience.

I have never had a real girlfriend before. I did experience mutual love, when I was 17-18, with a girl who was a couple years younger than me, but it never really worked out.

Yep! I'll be 22 in about 2 months and the I've never even been on a date. Which sorta sucks but its not as bad as it could be. My social life has picked up quite a bit since I got to college so I'm optimistic that I'll have a Girlfriend at some point in the near future. I've found out one of the best things you can do to help with social situations is make sure the other person/people know about your Asperger's (or whatever you've been gifted with) It can help a lot and prevent some of those awkward confusion moments when you say something that they might take wrong.

Nope, and I've never really wanted. I guess I had always ignorantly thought that being in a relationship was something really serious. But then, I found out, that it isn't...or at least nowadays it isn't. I've never really been interested in that sappy crap that comes along with a relationship. Now if I did the friends with benefit thing, then I wouldn't really feel like I am doing something morally wrong.

I am 43yo and have never had a girlfriend. I just find that in today's society, unless a man is absolutely perfect, he has no chance. Logically that leaves all us Aspie men screwed in every way but the literal.

NT women at large need to be a lot less superficial.

I've had two girlfriends before.

One boyfriend, one date with a girl, never had sex.

Edit: I've never blamed my lack of a sex life on PDD - this is all confidence. Until recently I haven't had any personal confidence to speak of. I'd try to ask someone out but the words would never make it out of my mind. I was scared senseless the first time I ever did. and I have a feeling I will be next time, as well.

16 still young i guess but not compared to my "friends" =/

I've never had a lover, before and I'm not in a hurry. There are too many things in life for me to experience, for me to be chained down.