Do you miss someone right now?

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I miss my best friend, we dated for a awhile. But remained friends after. I messed up and pushed her away. But knowing the love we'll always have for each other helps me get thru the day.

I miss my best friend of 14 years. We live 650 miles apart and I haven't seen her in person in 4 years. I'm more thankful for her than she could possibly know.

I miss my best friend. He hasn't been speaking with me the last few weeks, and I have no idea why. It's killing me.

My friend, Lydia. She's been abroad for several weeks. It'll be good to see her when she gets back.

My friend, Paul. We were dating but things ended badly. He got in touch again but when I replied, nothing. : (

My friend, Tristan. I've been pretty terrible at maintaining a friendship with him. Keep saying I'll visit when I never do.

Yes, some things do not change.

katie.

Yes. Her name
is FREEDOM!

A coworker, who actually was the first person to recognize I had ASD bc her son has autism, told me we would still be friends once she transferred, but the relationship got too serious too quickly, and for whatever reason, she cut off all communication with me for a couple years. Just last month she called me at work saying she was thinking about me, but I have no idea what to do now. I would like to think she would want to at least talk on the phone, bc she mentioned she lost all her contacts in her phone, but I didn't have the courage to give her my number and was too stunned to think to check caller ID. I guess I'm hoping she'll call me again at work and be more forward if she is ready to talk again. I'm afraid of feelings, so sometimes I wonder if me doing nothing is less painful than trying and feeling like an idiot. I'm very insecure and shy, which I think she despises, but why would I want to force myself out of my comfort zone for a relationship that might end up being more toxic than anything in my life? But I cannot escape the "what if you don't try?" questions and fear of regret. So I'm stuck over-analyzing and feeling despair and helplessness, not knowing what expectations are in relationships.

[quote="Katte"][quote="NinsMom"]If you miss someone now, re-load, take better aim, & take another shot. [/quote]

Wish it was that easy.[/quote]
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You are never gonna know if you don't try. I think you will regret it if you don't.

You're probably right. Will never know unless I try.

No. I tend not to miss or think about people who go out of my life for any length of time. I've always been like this. I liken it to having blinkers on. If they move slightly left or right and I don't see them, I forget about them. Out of sight, out of mind. Writing this now, it sounds rather heartless and cruel but that's not how it is. I just don't think of them. I don't know why.
In hindsight, occasionally, I might think about someone who used to be in my life and regret they're not around any more but it doesn't last long and I get re-lost in the present again.

Before Christmas I was pretty fortunate to meet a woman online that really wanted to talk with me, this was unusual because as a male really had nothing going for me (it's usually months in-between activity on my dating profiles). but me and her really hit it off on the conversations, we talked for HOURS, it's been years since I ever had that sort of chemistry with a woman, and it was so fresh and new to me that I was in a sort of trance-like state during the whole thing. I even made her legitimately laugh on a couple occasions (I don't consider my sense of humor to be good).

But I expected that she, like most woman who even bother with me, would completely disappear the following day...and she did. Story of my life, I seen it coming because that's how it always goes. I wasn't even depressed when it happened.

While it mattered a lot to me, I know it didn't matter much to her because that was pretty much everyday life for her, but because it matters so much to me... that's the precise reason she isn't there... I do end up missing her every now and then, and I don't hate her, I know it's all relative that what she could give me is much greater than what I could give her, and in fact, I couldn't give her anything but for my honesty.

I feel like Cinderella (disney) after her ball with the prince -- she knew the moment was gone, but she was utterly grateful for every second of it, just one moment of real life in a sea of emptiness, and even if the life was short, it was still a good thing.

Many of them are meeting the new friends with the help of online. It is the most selectable path to reach the various region of people.